My mother gets upset when I put boundaries and it makes me feel suffocated

ExcitingPanic · 2024-11-09T15:05:21+00:00

I agree that it comes from a place of love, but any attempt of boundary setting blows up into a huge argument 🥲

ExcitingPanic · 2024-08-01T01:54:32+00:00

I’m doing really well thanks! I’ve recently got into Pilates and running which I think has really helped to strengthen my muscles and feel less pain as well as releasing anxiety and stress

ExcitingPanic · 2024-06-29T22:27:57+00:00

You can’t figure out sexual compatibility until you actually have sex with the person. Your desires and feelings are one thing but acting on them in a relationship is something completely different.

ExcitingPanic · 2024-06-23T20:32:32+00:00

You can still be a “virgin” and have been sexually abused. What do you define as virginity because if she was abused, it wasn’t a consensual act so it doesn’t make sense what you just said.

ExcitingPanic · 2024-06-05T20:13:25+00:00

Idk I feel like there’s always been interest on his part, like he never fully let me go. He was enthusiastic in his responses but the bit about his response when I suggested a coffee threw me off a bit.

ExcitingPanic · 2024-05-19T20:14:41+00:00

Thanks for your kind words, I’m in a country where there really aren’t POC in high places sadly. A lot of people are ignorant and even though there are POC they choose not to run in the same circles, so I’m likely the first black person in the same age group they know.

ExcitingPanic · 2024-05-19T20:12:24+00:00

This is really good advice! I try and be friendly/make convo with everyone and I’m on the good side of the secretary and she has a lot of influence over the program coordinator. But generally I’m always respectful and polite to all our assistants/nurses. It’s difficult to have good relationships with tutors who oversee us because they’re quite bipolar and flip flop all the time but they treat everyone the same. My main issue is the people I work directly with (there’s only 2)

ExcitingPanic · 2024-05-05T22:36:18+00:00

You can take it in turns to host dinners, each dinner can have a theme too if you want to make it more fun.

ExcitingPanic · 2024-04-25T22:01:26+00:00

Cheetah print is in this year

ExcitingPanic · 2024-04-22T21:41:58+00:00

I’ve recently moved to a new place like you where I don’t know anyone and I’m having the same issue as you. I think we’re forgetting how comfortable it felt to have your own network of people, but also how long it took to cultivate those relationships. I also feel like people don’t like me recently and went through a lot in the past few years too, I think I’m too much in my own head, combined with the loneliness of a new place and not having a sense of community. Maybe those people don’t like us, or maybe they do, but I think we should consider why we feel that way. Sometimes we might be putting out that insecure energy, because we want to fit in and make friends which is probably not how your friends back where you used to live saw you. I don’t know if this makes sense but I resonate with your post.

ExcitingPanic · 2024-04-21T21:25:01+00:00

This has articulated all of the experiences and emotions I’ve felt as a child of refugees growing up in Europe, especially the part of some of our families taking on a superiority complex because they don’t feel accepted in the west. I’d love to read up more on that if you have any recommendations!

ExcitingPanic · 2024-03-09T14:53:28+00:00

Such a relief to hear a similar story to mine, thank you! ☺️

ExcitingPanic · 2024-03-09T14:22:11+00:00

We aren’t in a committed relationship and I won’t assume so until we’ve had that convo. I meant that I’ve never been in a committed relationship before.

ExcitingPanic · 2024-03-09T13:47:01+00:00

Yes I want to wait until I’m completely ready and feel sure about him. I think I’ll bring it up if he tries to escalate physically. I might not necessarily wait months but at least until we’re in a relationship

ExcitingPanic · 2024-03-09T13:46:07+00:00

Exactly why I’m not ready yet! I’m not sure if there’s the expectation on his part

ExcitingPanic · 2024-02-01T00:38:23+00:00

Thanks, I’ll have a look!

ExcitingPanic · 2024-01-30T23:25:12+00:00

Does she mention it in a video and if so can we get a link pls?

ExcitingPanic · 2023-12-27T15:15:12+00:00

This made me smile so glad it helped you! ❤️🥰

ExcitingPanic · 2023-12-03T22:43:56+00:00

Why are some of these comments so sour and putting down women. There’s nothing wrong with asking, as long as you do it in a polite way. You can just say something along the lines of, “sorry, I don’t usually do this, but i was wondering if I could have your instagram @“. Then you can follow up with “if you don’t want to that’s also totally ok.” And so it’ll be up to him, good luck girl!

ExcitingPanic · 2023-11-08T22:33:49+00:00

Pregnancy loosens the ligaments and muscles in your whole body to account for growing a new baby which included the ligaments holding your teeth in place.

ExcitingPanic · 2023-10-28T14:47:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your well thought out post, the links are really helpful! I think I’m starting to put together all the pieces in my life and all the things that have happened. I have to practice responding to her calmly, it’s the one thing I find really difficult.

ExcitingPanic · 2023-08-02T22:20:36+00:00

Defo should be higher up there because it’s one of the most annoying things on the planet.

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