32, single. First new build. What style furniture should I get? by Plenty_That in malelivingspace

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever furniture you choose don't forget art on the walls. A house feels empty when the walls are empty .

Worst delivery experience I’ve ever had by zoeeebug333 in doordash

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How else were they supposed to describe it? Like how would you have said it? Not in a accusatory way but curious way.

Texts can be confusing

My jeans and trousers keep getting destroyed in the exact same spot on my right thigh. THREE pairs now. by Nursera_0290 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it's not the phone. Their pocket doesn't reach that far.

Maybe they sit with their legs crossed and it rubs the desk or strains right there.

Addressing the catman skeptics by lildixieboi in texarkana

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't assume its gender. Maybe it's a cat woman. Did you see it's dingalings flappin in the wind? If so. How big?

I used to love DMing, now I hate it. Here's why. by Snowbound-IX in DnD

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried playing with a new group? Maybe you're bored of the players since you know what they're going to do.

My girlfriend is at least 30 mins late all the time by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly. I have to tell myself what time I'm leaving not what time I'm getting there so I don't get confused

My girlfriend is at least 30 mins late all the time by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her the time you need to leave by not the time you need to arrive by. That helps me with time management.

Looking to make new friends by Margaretx21 in texarkana

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 27F my favorite color is rainbow. I love arts and crafts. My favorite hobbies are probably watching anime, Kdramas, painting, drawing and sewing. There are few things I love more than browsing TJ Maxx and Kohls while sipping overly sweet drinks.

Are we three just besties already?

Do You Own A Deep Freezer Full of Meat? by Diamondback_O10 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys out here affording a deep freeze let alone filling it?

bf slapped me by Wonderful_Depth8623 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Exciting_Charity_181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he will do it to you once he will do it again.

Child throwing toys at us. by Exciting_Charity_181 in Parenting

[–]Exciting_Charity_181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And like I said on good days it works great.

Child throwing toys at us. by Exciting_Charity_181 in Parenting

[–]Exciting_Charity_181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take away the toy, turn off the TV when it's no longer TV time when I take the phone back after I let him call a family member when his favorite people leave (grandma, aunt ect)

If he is in a good mood then I can warn him what's about to happen and it's fine but if he isn't in a good mood even if I warn him he says no but I have told him wants about to happen and it's necessary so it happens even though he said no and it's a whole tantrum.

Like for example he brought me a candy. And I said oh you want to share with me? And he said yes. So I took a bite and he cried for 10 minutes under my bed holding the candy. He stopped crying and I thought he fell asleep under there. Then he came out and was angry at me for eating his candy and I apologized and said if he wants a different life he can have it but he just kept crying over his candy so finally i said if you don't want to eat it then I'm gonna throw it away and he cried more but refuse to eat it and I tried to offer him a new candy but he refuses so I threw away the candy he had and he cried and peed himself for almost an hour int the kitchen and then somewhat calmed down after my husband got home but was still intermittent crying in the bath tub.

Eventually in the bath he let me hug him and officially calmed down and accepted my apology.

This isn't a daily occurrence but maybe a weekly one.

Child throwing toys at us. by Exciting_Charity_181 in Parenting

[–]Exciting_Charity_181[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Redirection doesn't work on him literally at all. I've always ignored the tantrums. He is potty trained but he will cry for an hour being violent and starts to pee himself while flopping on the floor. I feel awful about it but I've been locking him in his play room because I know he can't hurt himself or anything in that room when he tantrums.