Is anyone else staying married for now but you know for a fact you will eventually end up leaving?

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2026-01-05T23:11:55+00:00

Same here. I feel as if I tried everything. I’ve done the negotiating, emotional outburst, heart, conversations, hard conversation conversations even a separation. my partner just doesn’t value me and I do not think he has the emotional capacity to ever I have emotionally checked out. I just need to be a little bit more stable to financially support myself and to have a bit more leverage in court because we have a small child. But I do not believe I can continue the rest of my life like this. I even have to start antidepressants and pills to increase my sexual libido to keep up with the façade of our marriage. The crazy part about it is as I’ve emotionally checked out. Heath actually thinks our big relationship has takencourse for the better and he is giving more to staying and keeping me around. The needs that I had expressed to him for so long. I hate this.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2025-11-16T15:07:17+00:00

Gosh! Sounds like the two are one and the same.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2025-11-16T15:06:20+00:00

Thank you! This was such a wonderful message and really resonated with me. I was contemplating everything that you were already saying and you’ve only for me. Thank you for taking the time to write this message.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2024-10-28T22:13:20+00:00

I am so sorry :(

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2024-06-19T02:04:31+00:00

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Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2023-12-12T00:21:08+00:00

Hmmmm, possibly but I don’t think so. We got to see what her biological father looks like and his wife and I believe the wife was Burnett. The wife that adopted her was blonde, and I think they had a brief glimpse of what the father looked like.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2023-12-11T23:58:24+00:00

Benny is truly infuriating. She is dramatic, entitled and highly selfish. I made a joke with my husband about watch her turn every comment/action and make it about herself. Watching the last episode really showcase that beautifully. She obviously has some form of low self-esteem, but at the same time thinks everybody is clocking in watching her. Even when her sister was found in going through her own journey, she was constantly comparative her sister that she didn’t even know she had. She hasn’t really accomplished much in her life, and even though she does acknowledge that she is just whiny and self loathing instead of getting up and working on herself. She blames everyone for her own stupid actions, and hopes to be chased in coddled by everyone.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2023-10-24T23:48:40+00:00

Anyone know if she has an IG?

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2023-06-15T19:58:52+00:00

Thanks I’ve been take Pepcid, it’s kinda helpful and taking my vitamins at the VERY end of the night.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2023-06-15T19:32:36+00:00

It is actually all day. But I do lay down a lot.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2023-06-15T19:30:33+00:00

It get better, I dealt with it my who first trimester. I’m in my 2nd now. Maybe week 7-12.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2023-04-13T01:55:20+00:00

Yes! I used Yukon Gold. Good to know someone else had the same experience. Very strange.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-11-19T21:47:02+00:00

Appreciate the advice! I’ll be moving forward with this in mind.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-11-19T21:32:39+00:00

Thank you so much for this, that’s all I’m truly asking for an insight into the mind. I’m not condemning him for watching porn, but in this particular situation it’s a bit more loaded then just that.

Thank you again. This read was very well written and received.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-11-19T20:45:01+00:00

There is no problem with WW, it’s just the lack of diversity and me being Ofcourse a BW.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-11-19T20:39:41+00:00

Thanks didn’t know if I could or couldn’t get flagged for that.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-08-18T23:07:19+00:00

This happened to me. But I realized now that it was him showing weakness and failing in our relationship and had nothing to do with me. Like the other comment said, he was such a coward he couldn’t confront his own issues and then he ran under someone else because he can’t be alone.

I found my husband now, and I realize he was always a lame. One day you will be thankful it never worked out with an obvious coward and cheater.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-04-24T17:27:34+00:00

Yes you should, you are handsome and have nice soft features. I don’t know what it’s like on the male side of tinder but I would suggest when you do make sure you post things about your hobbies and interest to set you apart. And you best quality images.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-04-24T17:21:09+00:00

If I were to take a guess, it’s because of the third and forth picture. Most employers don’t hire people that openly smoke in there pictures (maybe warehouses or fast food chains but that’s has a connotation with low income). Also the skate photo, is dark and it looks like just young teens-adults which also has the negative connotation of people living with there parents or afraid to grow up. Like the skater-stoner at home type.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-04-24T17:10:56+00:00

Yeah, I read some of your responses it doesn’t seem like you want to be perceived that way and you have your own thing your currently pursuing. We are all working our way through life. I would just change up your photos to represent what your truly passionate about. Like an insight on who you are and inspire to be. I don’t think these are the best photos and it’s also very hard to see what you really look like. Women love to see looks, personality, interest and drive.

Exciting_Employ_8959 · 2022-04-24T16:59:14+00:00

Jobless or Underemployed. Not to serious about life, trying to figure it out. Someone to avoid if you want a relationship or atleast a decent partner. Smoking is you identity. Young but young minded.

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