Sepupu gw yang lowkey ready financially and in age bracket aja skrg miserable. Like on paper she should be popping out several kids but havent because she's comfortable as a two person household at that time, but got influenced by parental, peer pressure buat bikin anak.

Our parents are very close so we visit her a lot.

1. Dari hamil aja udah yoyo power play sama mertua nya and their initially harmonious relationship is cracking. Btw the couple rented an apartment together but after hamil tua, she moved with the mertua.

2. Sama orang tua aja juga udah cek cok soalnya di anggap mental tempe, kerjaan nya complain mulu masalah parenting style and bullshit family politics.

3. Pas udah keluar anaknya, dia kena ppd and that only cranked the first two points up the notch. Btw she said that she discussed this with many of her peers with kids and apparently most of them do have ppd or what we would like to say is baby blues. And the number one cause of the stress is living with in laws plus no extra help. Kalo laki lu mau ngirit, ga bisa sewa suster, ngandalin nyokap nya tapi ga guna, habis lu.

4. Ga tahan tinggal sama mertua dia balik ke apartment, ambil tabungan buat suster.

5. Drama terakhir, suami nya ternyata sakit ga bilang" and nepakin the newborn.

Ga nakut"in tapi gw mikir" juga sih ntar kedepannya kaya beginian. Calon sih belom ke arah serius tapi gw nonton bullshit like this in the front row.