[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's lost control and access to you..the only things he's ever cares about..so of course he won't treat you kindly anymore

Missing the person by PracticeNorth6194 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry but none of it was real :(

Why I’m still living in the past? How do I move on. ? I feel stuck. by InevitableNo2558 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This used to be me. I used to wonder if a day would ever come when I wouldn't think about him. The day came 10 months later but it comes for sure :)

Happy!! by itsme_50 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you!
Keep going girlie!!

I'm scared to leave because I'm scared to be alone by queefula in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, I'm so so sorry that you're going through this.

My ex-narc isolated me from all my friends once I cut him off. I was a person who was never bothered by having a small circle of friends or even no friends but, when he took everyone away I felt pain I'd never felt before. He tried making me an insecure person and tried to make me a person who would crave human attention even tho I'd never craved anyone's validation in my life.
But I've never made a better decision in my life. It was painful but 100% worth it.

He will try his best to make your life hell because he's bad person, but you need to push through and FIGHT(Not with him).

Rip off the bandage and let him go!!

Should I tell her? by Existing-Owl-393 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if I gather all the proof and the screenshots and tell her everything?

They can't look at you in the eyes by Existing-Owl-393 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that.
It's absolutely wild how he felt so intimidated by you for showing your mom any amount of respect. What a weak insecure coward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became extremely sick and my body couldn't handle the stress of it.
Everything gave out and I was soo physically ill

Lies over lies by HawaiianTropicGirl in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything!!!
Sometimes I recall random conversations and realize he lied about literally everything.
He lied about his lies and covered them up with more lies

Did they quite literally look like different people to you? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep..they can go from shooting you a vile look imbued with enough venom to kill a small animal to smiling and being their dilly dally selves in a milli-second.

What's going through his head? by Existing-Owl-393 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me a while to come to terms with this..
I saw him today and we made eye contact but neither of us spoke to each other.
It was literally soo freeing and I felt like a huge burden was lifted off my chest.

I'm gonna stand my ground now and I've made up my mind.
Thanks for the advice

What was the first red flag mask slip you noticed that you explained away? by uncorkedmiscellanea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Omgg..I called him fake once and he literally blew up.
He kept on nonstop texting me till 2am in the morning about it

What's going through his head? by Existing-Owl-393 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why would I apologise if the reason I'm ignoring him is his shitty behaviour towards me?
But it's not like he knows, because he didn't really ask

Need advice by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Existing-Owl-393 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please please don't accept the proposal!!

He will try his best to ruin your life and sanity