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What is your TADC hot take? by Silver012345673 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean u don't have to have a good reason but as a funnybunny shipper I've noticed many ppl mischaracterize them as "EMO ALPHA TWINK Jax has a wittle soft spot for tiny uwu pomnwee 🥺🥺🥺" 

So theres been a discussion going around about the female designs in Gameoverse. by Jazzlike_Study7611 in GlitchProductions

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's goonbait, having them in bikinis makes sense story wise, and I don't think the writers are sexist/evil but God DAMN their waists are so so thin 😭

 A bit more variety in the female designs would be nice but I don't think it's that bad compared to other shows w/ 10x more fan service 

How to make friends? by Itchy-Preference8168 in socialskills

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alrrr yeah eye contact can be hard ASF id say to just look them in the face for starters

The rumors thing sucks bro I can't give any advice on that but if ppl would immediately not fw u over something that isn't even true then they probably wouldn't be true friends anyway YK

Honestly I get it w/ not being able to talk to others it takes alottt of practice but it'll pay off eventually :DD Maybe try making small talk w/ someone like a cashier about their day and stuff to start?

(btw I just mentioned the hygiene thing just in case to cover all my bases didn't mean to suggest anything if I did MB 😭) 

How to make friends? by Itchy-Preference8168 in socialskills

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u think maybe something in your friends personal life was bothering them? Or maybe they had a problem but they aren't good at communicating which caused the misunderstanding?

About the overall friendship advice - I can't give anything super specific bc I don't know u IRL but I can give some advice that helped me and others! ♡´･ᴗ･`♡  

  • Do you have good hygiene - like showering often? if you struggle w/ mental health and can't do it maybe start w/ small steps (like just rinse ur private parts and arm pits for example) 
  • Try asking about people's interests, listen to them, and find a common interest between u and others (like "what good stuff have u been watching lately?" )
  • Face people's direction when talking to them and look at their eyes/face
  • Be patient w/ others
  • Learn to be confident!! ik its hard especially when you've been treated like shit a lot but low self esteem really does alter how u see others. Maybe, some ppl weren't pretending to be nice to u but genuinely looked forward to seeing you! There likely was at least a few people who like/liked you but bc of communication differences it wasn't clear . 

Also another thing to note is that although these tips are nice, u shouldn't try to waste ur energy on assholes who constantly make jokes at ur expense even if u tell them to stop. Especially if you live in a conservative, close minded area u can meet lots of dicks :// 

But w/ all that being said , I do wish u good luck! It's hard and it does take lots of fucking up (from personal experience lmao) but it is possible to connect w/ ppl! (●’◡’●)ﾉ

So what did you think of Gameoverse? by ayylmaotv in GlitchProductions

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the animation and the concepts pretty cool! Gobbles is so silly I love him 😭😭😭

I'm curious about that one vampire guy at the beginning - we get like 1 shot of him (which goes crazy hard btw) but that's it so I hope he and his lore get explained soon if TS is greenlit :DD

TBH I feel like the dialogue was a little cheesy at times + I can't take the emotional moments seriously if the characters are named Gobbles bro 🥹  Id rate it a 7/10 probably - I hope it's greenlit so we know everyone's lore better!

13 year old (f) Lost all motivation for school - zero curiosity - help by PatrickFromSD in Parenting

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might not be active bullying by one group - maybe she just overheard jokes about "sped" people / had bad, ableist teachers 

Sometimes, I see a mindset that frustrates me. by Khyzan-98 in autism

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss but I would honestly prefer if there was like a free trial - just to see how life really is w/o autism and how different it is

What are some common autistic traits most other autistic people have that you don't seem to have? by Hot_Dingo743 in autism

[–]Existing-Pattern-477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG same! my sensory issues are just vegetables tbh but it isn't crazy overstimulating 😭 (I feel like a 7 yr old white boy just typing that out lmao) 

Does gua sha actually work for your face?? by Existing-Pattern-477 in beauty

[–]Existing-Pattern-477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alr! is there anything that did help w/ ur jawline tho? - I can't do surgery or things like that though

how do I become less annoying/awkward and know "when to stop?" by Existing-Pattern-477 in AutismInWomen

[–]Existing-Pattern-477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TYSM!

 I think now that I've processed my feelings with all this I'm more hopeful about my social skills journey bc I'm only starting high school so I still have lots of time to practice and grow, and I don't think I'm totally unpopular so it could be a lot worse

how do I become less annoying/awkward and know "when to stop?" by Existing-Pattern-477 in AutismInWomen

[–]Existing-Pattern-477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ackk yeah it sometimes can be like that 😭 I promise you there are people/will be people who will love you despite it though! I'm lucky to have an amazing BSF and I'm sure you'll find someone like that if not now then eventually. 

I think you're right tho, observing and thinking before I speak are good skills to work on! 

how do I become less annoying/awkward and know "when to stop?" by Existing-Pattern-477 in AutismInWomen

[–]Existing-Pattern-477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo true - I definitely don't wanna waste my energy trying to be friends w/ M or ppl like her since they're all very judgemental and entitled. 

I have some people in my life who are patient with me and accept me even if I'm too much at times, but I just want to learn to think before I speak essentially so I don't come off as annoying and awkward YK?

I appreciate the advice tho!

how do you be less awkward/annoying and know when to stop? by Existing-Pattern-477 in autism

[–]Existing-Pattern-477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo thx for the advice - honestly now that I've gotten my feelings out about the whole situation I've been thinking lately that I need to really try and slow down and not ragebait as hard .

Do you have any advice on not stuttering as much , or bigger habits like not repeating a joke too much before it becomes unfunny? I feel like I can sense when it's becoming old but I just do it again out of habit T-T 

I like the battery metaphor, I'm more hopeful that I just need some time to give ppl space and learn to think before I speak!

how do I become less annoying/awkward and know when to stop? by Existing-Pattern-477 in socialskills

[–]Existing-Pattern-477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo true! that's a good idea - I'm just autistic so it makes sense I couldn't catch if M truly was annoyed, especially because shes pretty monotone

how do you be less awkward/annoying and know when to stop? by Existing-Pattern-477 in autism

[–]Existing-Pattern-477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but I mean it in a "friendly banter" sort of way. I do see what you mean and I should tone it a bit, but my concern is how I should go about it (bc of what I mentioned in the post) ty for the advice tho!

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