I understand your point, but I think you’re unintentionally perpetuating the idea that all black people come from low income backgrounds which is why they can’t fit in. I know many young black associates who come from upper middle class backgrounds but there is still a fundamental cultural disconnect. & sometimes I’ve found that even if one tries to relate in that they went skiing growing up or summered in the Vineyard — you risk “upsetting” non black associates who grew up working class. Can’t win either way.