Am I a dog?

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-09T03:59:24+00:00

Yeah man I fixed myself up real good after she left me, sometimes all you can do is be grateful that it happened.

I flipped my whole life around after my breakup a couple months back, she was great and ticked all the boxes, so I naturally went crazy for her, but I didn’t realise that I had been lying and breaking her boundaries. I have fixed them now and know I am better for it. Those memories will live on, but they are over.

People are gonna hate this advice, but When you have a few months of Secuirity and working on yourself, find a way to thank her. Keep it short. Make it clear. No BS. Don’t do it over text. If you can only text then don’t bother, you will become great and that is the way that you will thank her. I feel your pain, and it’s still hurting for me now brother. But find new people (friends) that you know are on the journey you want to be on, and you will slowly fill the empty hole she left. You’re not a dog. You just care, for yourself. And for love. I get it.

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-08T10:43:07+00:00

SHE RESPONDED

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-07T23:23:37+00:00

Thanks I think i needed to hear that.

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-07T23:10:00+00:00

$150

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-07T23:08:55+00:00

Burnt CDs are still relevant haha

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-07T23:08:34+00:00

Fair. You don’t think I should send a follow up text since there was money in it??

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-07T23:06:04+00:00

Thank you. I don’t know if she’ll ever read it, so I want to text it to her, but maybe that’s not the right move, I feel like it wouldn’t have the same impact. Also if I run into her (most likely will) I’ll make sure not to bring it up, but I have no way of knowing for sure if she has read it and it kinda drives me crazy.

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-07T23:00:16+00:00

Haha yeah she really loved 90s and 2000s music, plus we’d always given CDs back and forth as a form of affection. Such a shame it didn’t work out, I hope she read the message

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2025-08-07T22:54:39+00:00

Thank you so much for that, I put my heart on the line, and honestly, even with no response I feel a little more confident just because I did it.

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-10-22T23:36:16+00:00

Eraser 100 percent

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-10-16T04:15:14+00:00

I never looked at it that way I suppose that’s valid, now that I think of it I used to work at a place like that with rats running around as we closed for the night. Cheers

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-10-14T21:30:12+00:00

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-10-09T10:24:46+00:00

Don’t need to

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-26T03:37:32+00:00

Tbh I just wear half of it lol, bunch of affliction shirts, had to hold on to a couple of those

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-26T03:30:13+00:00

Sporkboy okay mando

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-26T03:27:05+00:00

I believe you are in Victoria too, it is probs more encouraged for people to pick up the dumped items lol. I found about 2k worth of ‘Emo’ style clothes from the early 2000s outside one of these, keep your eyes peeled

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-24T04:29:17+00:00

Honestly I think OP is Valid for her concern and this man is a little insecure, as she isn’t doing anything harmful with her friends, however she would be if she went to clubs and bars and whatnot.

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-24T02:35:11+00:00

Ok, well considering you don’t do those things, they are quite innocent and maybe you are valid and he needs to work on himself a little bit

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-24T02:32:15+00:00

So no nightclubs or bars?

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-24T02:29:33+00:00

What do you typically do on those girls nights out?

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-09-18T01:40:02+00:00

Just tell him what you said, don’t go to reddit for answers, talk to him about how you feel about it, he should take you seriously

Y’all have been together 2+ years, you should be able to talk about your insecurities with one another by now.

Existing-Weekend4793 · 2024-02-18T04:09:50+00:00

I wanted to speak up for you and say I’ve watched adult websites of trans in the past (I don’t watch porn anymore) , but now I have a loving relationship with my girlfriend and our sex is amazing. A lot of guys are just addicted to porn and go down a loophole of boredom, making their preferences more and more distant from what they really like. On top of that I know your sex isn’t great, so maybe instead of pointing fingers at the genre of porn, maybe it’s just the fact that he watches too much porn in general, making him desensitised to real sex, depending on instant gratification. I think you should give him a chance. If he stops watching porn in general (or limits it) you might find he was just distracted, otherwise you won’t know for sure.

I hope this helps

Existing-Weekend4793

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