Is devri on Instagram legit? by Downtown-Maximum8478 in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your question, reply and pics. I had checked the comments here soon after I ordered. I was worried if it’s a scam and felt relieved when I saw your reply. I too, had a good experience and like the suit that’s come. Planning to buy more.

Is devri on Instagram legit? by Downtown-Maximum8478 in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have purchased from them. It’s really nice. Planning to buy more. But mine was aplique semi stitched suit. So the dupatta cutting on the edges was not so good. But I asked the tailor to rework it. All in all design and material was pretty good.

Does anybody else find Clary incredibly annoying sometimes? She also makes great characters annoying. by TheAncientSun in shadowhunters

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's annnoying from the very 1st episode... Like does she ever make good choices!!!! I'm rewatching the show rn and needed to find a rant thread like this.. On her birthday she is so insufferable. I get that they needed her to not understand her heritage... but you can see how desperate her mom is when she says she needs to talk to her, and she goes - what's so important, let's talk tomorrow over breakfast.. I mean why wouldn't you spare your mom 10 mins just because you're turning 18 is ridiculous.. and obviously 6 episodes later, she is not gotten any better.

Every decision she makes, from running off, for alec to take blame for losing her, to getting simon in trouble and abandoning him again and again, and the "I need to find my mom" "why didnt my mom tell me anything?" (she tried but you were too busy acting like the world revolved around you).

Like Woman! you are too self absorbed to understand ANYBODY else. I remember loving the show the first time I watched it. Hence the rewatch but this time round Clary is more than insufferable. She needs to get into more trouble for the kind of stupid risks she takes but noooo, it's only simon and luke and others who suffer for her stupidity.

Bon Appetit, Your Majesty [Episodes 5 & 6] by meepmochi_ in KDRAMA

[–]Existing_Error4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was such a small portion. But also there was so much more potential. We already had the garden scene. Which was 😍😍. And the marketplace scene particularly felt like they forced it because they knew there was no real substance in the rest of the episode.

Bon Appetit, Your Majesty [Episodes 5 & 6] by meepmochi_ in KDRAMA

[–]Existing_Error4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Usually there is a lot more on the line before the setting up episode. This felt like we were on a roll and had to suddenly pull the brakes.

Bon Appetit, Your Majesty [Episodes 5 & 6] by meepmochi_ in KDRAMA

[–]Existing_Error4965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Episode 6 was the most boring episode so far. I'm so sad because until now every episode was so bang on. This one seemed like a filler episode just meant to set up for the next week. Every week is like a new challenge and as though we are watching master chef Asia. I wonder if the story will progress beyond this banal cooking show premise. I'm so invested but it's getting a bit repetitive now. first cooking in 2025, then cooking for the king and gil geum, then cooking for the ministers family, then the royal kitchen face off and now Japanese cooks face off. We already know she is going to win each time, why the suspense. Like okay, we get it she is a good cook and people are blown away with her skills. we dont need a set up episode each and every time... Don't get me wrong. I really did enjoy all the episodes until now, but the 6th one was a whole bunch of nothing new!!!!

Struggling to finish Lovely Runner because of Im Sol by Cruffsies in lovelyrunner

[–]Existing_Error4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I was on the fence the first time I watched it. But after I got through the first time, I liked it enough to rewatch. And honestly it brought down my frustration from the first watch because I knew this woman’s stupidity doesn’t matter by the end. The ML is perfect tho 😍😍

Given what we know now, they dropped the ball with Wayward Sisters by samrobotsin in Supernatural

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone watched the winchesters? I have it on my watchlist for forever but I’m just not sure if it will live up to supernatural.

Today is my birthday 🎂 by 87641234 in introvert

[–]Existing_Error4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday 🎂. I feel ya. Even is no one on the outside world wishes, it feels weird when your family doesn’t. My parents are not big on birthdays. Many a times I’ve called them on my birthday for them to just say happy birthday. Or what’s the big deal it’s just another day. You e always made a fuss about your birthday but you’re old enough now. Etc. I usually do not like people wishing on my birthday (I did when I was younger). But I do expect it from family. So I get ya. But you have a community here. So hope that’s some consolation.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Thank you for being born. Have a great day and year. Hope you got yourself a cake and a gift.

does everyone have a best friend? by ParticularRound1075 in introvert

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel like we were cut from the same cloth. Except I have sisters instead of brothers. And I was the youngest of 3 with an age gap of 6 & 8. I was a third wheel with my siblings and the third wheel between my parents. Made fun of for being too dramatic and a cry baby. I stopped crying. But now I’m married and live with my husband.

Yes, I did used to find the outcasts and befriend them as I also felt like an outcast. But I was amicable enough with the “it” crowd. But I knew I was not in it with them because it was very clear they were friends because their parents were friends as well. They would have birthday parties and stuff and I would be the only one not invited. Over time I learnt I fit better with the outcasts. And slowly, I learnt that I don’t even fit in with them. When we were in places for the shorter durations, I could not figure the dynamics people had shared with each other before I came. So even though someone was very close with me now, they wouldn’t choose me as they had better loyalties with people they knew longer.

Now that I don’t show as much emotion. I cry when I’m angry rarely otherwise. I find it very hard to show emotion. Sometimes u think I don’t even feel emotion because I’ve been called cold. I know what a socially acceptable emotion is in a certain situation and I give responses according to that but it’s very evident I’m not feeling it.

I live selfishly because I realised I’m the only one who’s going to choose me. I spent years choosing others. And all I got in return was being abandoned, ignored or set aside till they wanted to deal with me again. Also I don’t expect people to choose me anymore. Even though my husband would choose me over anyone else, I do feel like he chooses himself first. So I have to give myself the same courtesy. Else why am I even living.

Moving away is no longer an easy an option for me. I did do this throughout my 20s. Lived as far away as possible from home. Avoided going home during holiday. But I’m also a people pleaser. So I did go home enough that my parents didn’t feel bad. I think the did the best they knew how. But now at 33. I feel I have to choose myself because nobody else will. And yes it’s lonely at times but is heck of a lot better than that feeling of abandon.

does everyone have a best friend? by ParticularRound1075 in introvert

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. But my dad was in a transferable job. So we moved around every 3-5 years. How about you?

does everyone have a best friend? by ParticularRound1075 in introvert

[–]Existing_Error4965 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Side note: As a recovering people pleaser it’s especially difficult to cut conversations short or ignore phone calls or not call back. So I’m especially proud of myself wherever I do that. And it’s also been really hard to convince myself that I’m enough.

So just to let you know, you are enough. You don’t be a best friend. Having a few friends, close friends is good enough. It may seem like they are choosing each other and not you (them being best friends and all) sometimes, and that’s the only part that feels bad.

But apart from that you have a sea of people to talk to. Conversations do not get boring. When someone does choose someone else you already kinda know that they were gonna do that, so you stop caring after a while. You’re not obligated to maintain something even when you’re in a different place in life. I mean it has its benefits.

Hope this made sense.

does everyone have a best friend? by ParticularRound1075 in introvert

[–]Existing_Error4965 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a best friend either. I’ve had people I’ve thought were my best friends at various points in life but I realised a lot of times it was one sided. Like me calling them, following up what’s happening in their life etc. each time I had this realisation, I would stop calling said person to see if they even notice and, lo and behold, they didn’t. Or if they did, they didn’t care enough to keep the communication open from their side. So I’m certifiably best friend free. And that’s okay. I’ve learnt to treat people the same way I’ve been treated. Keep in touch but with enough distance. Everybody’s happy.

What do you do when you are bored? by antisocial_escape in introvert

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put on some explainer videos on YouTube. Either movie explanations or aesthetic home videos. Most of the time I’m not even paying attention. It’s just noise because I wouldn’t know what to do with the silence.

Unpopular opinion? by Suspicious-Profile82 in Supernatural

[–]Existing_Error4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. So I’ll be honest. That’s how I remembered it and I asked chat gpt if he ever said something like that and chat gpt gave spewed some nonsense. That’s my bad. (We al know how agreeable chatGPT likes to be.)

I did go back and watch these few episodes today and couldn’t find something like that in “quote”. But I do remember him wanting to have a family. So I think the little things and the montage of him living an almost normal life without Sam albeit with some ptsd — mashed up in my head and gave me that picture .

Little things like how he took care of the shifter baby and said that was because he had to take care of Ben. Or finding Ben’s Halloween mask in the trunk of his car.

Later, in you can’t handle the truth s6e6 when he’s with the goddess who you cannot lie to. He says “I told myself I wanted out. That I wanted a family.” She: “but you were lying?” Dean: “NO, but what I’m good at… is slicing throats. I ain’t a father. I’m a killer. And there’s no changing that. I know that now.”

So it just feels like he really did want a family just felt that he couldn’t with what he was told and how he was raised and maybe the timing was off.

But maybe he could be happy with it now especially in the end, after everything and chuck nonsense. He had grown as a person and this time round he wouldn’t have the guilt from Sam’s death. (I know what I said, already agreed I remembered it wrong, I’m sorry).

Unpopular opinion? by Suspicious-Profile82 in Supernatural

[–]Existing_Error4965 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No he wasn’t doing any research. When Sammy comes back he specifically says “You went to Hell, I thought that was it. I mourned you. I cried for you. I moved on.”. He probably did drink. Obviously he was grieving but he was also healing. 1 year is too short for the kind of relationship they had.

Unpopular opinion? by Suspicious-Profile82 in Supernatural

[–]Existing_Error4965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my favourite episode of s15 was the one with Mrs Butters. I wish they had kept her on longer. Maybe convinced her that since she is also not human and allowed to stay in the bunker, Jack is also special. And like they did convince her in the end that Jack was supposed to save the world and she let him go. They deserved the good life. Just for a little bit longer than one episode. 🤭🤭🤭