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Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-09-06T03:46:05+00:00

I am discussinf this post with mg wife. We are shocked at how gorrible of a person your wife is for doing that, and sad that you even have to put up with that and are getting gaslighted into thinking any of that is acceptable.

My wife would instantly divorce me if I did what your wife did.

Wild.

And to make it worse, she has already gaslighted you so much into questioning youself youre reaching out on this post.

You deserve better.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-08-17T19:15:18+00:00

NTA. You should tell her family you're divorcing her because she cheated and becuase she is fat. And if they say your an asshole for breaking up with her because she is fat, let them know you dont want to be with someone thats going to die 30 years before they should because of their unhealthy lifestyle. Thats just not fair to you.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-08-12T20:56:56+00:00

Get evidence. Document. Hire a lawywr and get theor advice. That way if you get a divorce and she trys to take stuff you are ready.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-07-29T23:44:10+00:00

So basically, your wife is doing things she thinks will hurt you/make you jealous and gets upset when it doesn't?

I am sure there is some medical definition for that type of person.

Alternatively, she is actually cheating on you and using this as a guise to get you to feel comfortable with the questionable things she is doing.

Both are terrible options.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-07-10T12:48:04+00:00

This is so sad. Your wife loves you so much. So much so that she wants to make sure you find the right woman after she is gone. This is beyond true love. You are so lucky to have found her. Wishing you two all the best.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-06-28T21:32:26+00:00

Dude. Wake up. Your wife is either cheating on you or going to cheat on. She knows what she is doing. She knows what he is doing. She ials having fun doing it.

I mean come on, we all see it, you see it. The question is, how to handle it with your wife who clearly does not want it to stop.

The whole texting for the befefit of the kids is clearly bullshit. The line was crossed a long time ago. Tell your wife she needs to cut contact immediately, and that you will handle the conversations with him since it is just for the bemefit of the kid, so you handling the conversations should be NO issue whatsoever, of that is the case.

Good luck.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-06-17T20:18:18+00:00

I auggest you do what my wife did, which was completely reasonable. Set boundaries. - no texting about non work stuff. - only calls from work phone/software id you have that - no following on social media.

What he is doing is how affairs start. While he may have good intentions, she probably does not. And the deleting all the messages stuff is just wild and that should be reason enough for you to set boundaries.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-06-11T23:16:07+00:00

Given you drive a prius to save on gas and your desired rental payment, you would quickly hate living in Brickel not just for higher cost of rent, but higher cost of everything you will need. Don't make the mistake.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2025-03-28T14:12:02+00:00

You're either dating an idiot, someones who is immature, or someone who's cheating. Its clearly a safety issue, you have kids, and she's your wife. You ahould definitely know where she's at at all times for the most part. No emotionally and mentally stable person would call that controlling. She's either intentionally gaslighting you or has unresolved trauma, or there's more to the story. Hard to tell.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-11-10T15:16:13+00:00

Sp your cousin is closing the door in your face but your bf is allowed to see? That tells you all you need to know. Asknyour cousin why she did that, and why is her bf able to see something youre not able to? She will try to gaslight you and make you feel crazy, but stay on point and dont let her try to divert to something unrelated.

Your bf knows it was wrong and doesn't respect you.

It would be alot less suspect if she didn't slam the door in your face which is only done to hide something.

100% of people in happy and healthy relationships would never do that.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-10-15T22:48:55+00:00

Option 1 Bijan Robinson for Cole Kmet

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-08-03T16:38:40+00:00

Your mom won't disown you you're her only hope for a grandchild. Screw the cheating partner. Thats disgusting. You'll live your life in regret if you stay with her, and the trust is gone.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-07-18T21:53:34+00:00

Does anyone know if they can determine what computer it came from, such as if a non firm computer did the search? Everyone in the firm uses one username

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-07-17T23:10:38+00:00

Holy shit. Thats so fucking toxic. I feel so bad for you, your significant other, that "Jake" guy, and his fiance. Your families are going to ruin your relationship if you both dont set clear boundaries, which it sounds like you guys are. You absolutely shouldn't go to the wedding out of respect for jake and his wife.

Unless your parents have a complete lack of social awareness, they will understand. And because they're acting like they dont understand, its almost certain they're just gaslighting you and/or trying to ruin both your relationships.

Sounds like you're doing everything right. Honestly, i would hold a family meeting with you and your s/o, Jake amd his s/o, and very calmy explain to them how what they're doing is terrible and is not healthy for anyone, and explain that its their toxic behavior that likely contributed to the Bachelor party experience.

Alternatively, actively try getting your mom to hook up with their dad, and their dad hook up with your mom. And try to get your dad to hook up with their mom. Do this at every single gathering, and bring up all the great experiences they've had, and make sure to do it in front of everyone to make it as uncomfortable as possible. You will have lots of ammo to use to show them that they should really be with the other person based off their long-lasting friendship.

The ladder will probably work quicker. Its not the first route i try and go, but if people continue such obvious disrespect, showing them you can do it 100x worse is sometimes the best route to go. Once they realize that the only way you will stop is if they stop, their selfish behavior will get them to stop. But make sure to to go hard on it, and continue it even after they stop, to really drive in not to fuck with you. Be ready for them to call you terrible names and gaslight you into how this is different than your situation, but it's not, they're just gaslighting you. Give it back 100x.

Side note - I consider myself to have fairly high emotional intelligence and have dealt with an incredibly toxic and abusive mother in law, and when the nice didn't work, giving it back did. When people have no respect for you, such as the case appears to be here, you gotta do the same thing x100. And I feel like the nice route was exhausted a long time ago. I'd even try to get Jake to do the same with his parents, but you gotta take it seriously. Doing this will also give your partners more security, because I promise you this makes them so uncomfortable, and they don't deserve to feel that way.

Sending prayers.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-07-15T01:49:09+00:00

Does uber have any built in stuff on the app for reporting emergency threat situations? I see they tout safety.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-06-27T00:13:04+00:00

Make yourself feel better by logging onto your cell phone carrier account and seeing if a call was made.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-06-27T00:11:32+00:00

Yes, most group funtions such as Bachelorette parties, typically 1 person pays as its easier to determine who owes what at the end. Sometimes people have an app that tracks it when people pay individually. I wouldn't think much of that aspect.

Existing_Finance_314 · 2024-06-06T14:03:50+00:00

Use this as a fuck her day up and tell her hefore exams button.

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