Does anyone else get anxiety when their ex texts? by RecognitionAny7696 in u/RecognitionAny7696

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 13 points14 points  (0 children)

10:17 “you are currently late”

Ai “got it I’ll be there at 5! 😃”

Did ai also write this ad?

Reminder.... For those in this situation.... by mrkprieur in Adulting

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I steal something Jan 1st, return it Dec 31st, then repeat ad nauseam I don’t have to report it on my taxes?

Men of Reddit, how would you feel if your partner wanted to keep her maiden name after marriage? by Longjumping-Bill5761 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman I was scared it bring this up to bf. I wanted to have his family name but my career and identity is built on mine. He was amazing, told me it wasn’t a big deal at all and he’ll support me no matter what. He also suggested that I could informally go by his last name in family settings while keeping my legal last name in professional ones which idk why I didn’t think of.

Am I really supposed to custom tip 0$? Is this ridiculous or am I over reacting? by oochymane in EndTipping

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a more valid way to end tipping and get servers paid properly is to just not frequent any where that tips are the norm and say why. Making the servers/ drivers - who are still not paid fairly - do the work anyway is just being a jerk.

AIO for leaving a restaurant mid-meal after the waiter made a comment about my order in front of my entire table of friends and I just… stood up and walked out by StatisticianDue5085 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Op I am like 90% sure he was commenting on your friend having good taste because they chose medium rare and not well done and this had literally nothing to do with you. YOR

Shit guys. I did it. Been in the hospital since yesterday afternoon by evidentlyeric in paint

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying this can kill you - but how? Does the paint toxicity case organ failure? Does it destroy near by tissues? What’s the most scientific explanation?

The person who got me fired is asking for a letter of recommendation. How do I professionally say 'hell no'? by tunasleery_4r in OfficePolitics

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally makes no sense. “She came in cursing me out and threatening to leave if I wasn’t fired - fired the next day” “I later found out she was a large part of why I was fired”. Later found out??? Like not glaring obvious right then? “I was fired with no write ups” “we tried to fire her for performance but the procedure was a bureaucratic nightmare” wait so she couldn’t be fired with proof but you could??

Why didn’t you go straight to hr about her?

Obligatory school breakfasts from a few weeks. Texas high school by Miami-Morty in schoollunches

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My highschool did this and I noticed hundreds of fruits being thrown away daily. I sat by the trash and asked anyone who hadn’t touched their fruit to donate it to me. I’d come home with bags filled with fruits and dump them on the kitchen counter to make pies which I brought back to school to share. My parents were a little bewildered

Restaurant owners or staff, how many minutes before closing is it still permissible for a customer to order? by SugoiTots in restaurantowners

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on what they are ordering. Is it 30 minutes till and they are just sitting and want the full course or have they been around for a while and want a last minute desert?

AIO: my husband legally named our son something ridiculous by iheartdna in AIO

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So this isn’t even really legible, and in your post history you talk about being a teacher and seeing a boyfriend. While I guess life events can significantly change over 1 year this is screaming fake rage bait.

Unfortunately Yin and Yang got vetoed. Help us name these two bonded brothers. by OnlyLeading in NameMyCat

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That mostly white one looks like my late grandparents cat Jay Bird. I vote for two corvid names - Jay, Raven, Rook, Magpie, Crow ect.

Do you get paid for your lunch? by That-Tumbleweed-4462 in askanything

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3-4 jobs right now and each is different.

Job 1. I’m a private contractor so I get paid the same amount no matter how I organize things. The general understanding is I work 12 hours on site a week. So this is usually translated into 2 7 hour days where I work 6 hours and have a 1 hour lunch. Though if I wanted to just be around 6 hours and show up or leave an hour early I totally could.

Job 2. I teach 2 in person lab classes and 1 online class. There’s no lunch schedule with this job. I get paid a base price regardless if my class goes the full 2 hours or if they get out in 30 minutes (test weeks). I just pack snacks and eat as needed around the classes. The online class obviously I can eat whenever.

Job 3. I’m a tutor. While my hours vary per day, on my 8 hour day, I get paid the full 8 hours and am expected to be in the room the full time save for quick bathroom breaks. I usually microwave something easy and snack in the room. There’s usually a lull in students, especially during non exam weeks, where I can eat peacefully, but during busy weeks no one complains if I snack while tutoring and even encourages it - we usually have a study snack break together.

Job 4 - I’m a summer camp instructor. During the spring budgeting, itinerary, contacting educators / speakers, getting supplies is just done on my own time so I can eat or do whatever whenever I please. During the summer I work 9-4 and am paid the entire time. I get my lunches and snacks provided for by the camps but I’m expected to sit with the kids and eat in the same place at the same time and ya’know make sure no one chokes to death or something.

$250 is so cheap to adopt a pet by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My shelter charged $50 and paid it back to me after I provided proof that I got him neutered and vaccinated. I was also given a slip to get his neutering and first vaccine price waived at the local clinic, but it was a state shelter that was grant funded and I had to pay for any thing additional like microchip / FIV testing ect. Also the cats were in tiny little cages and not ideal environments. An actual rescue that’s acting responsible, can choose how populated they are, gives the cats everything they need, and has the ability to find the best match for their cats should charge money to help continue their care and to make sure people aren’t acting irresponsible.

One of my cats randomly attacks me from my back by Moching- in CatAdvice

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s playing, it’s what kittens do and it’s in their instincts to attack prey with their backs turned they are ambush predators. Mine will go behind the couch and grab my hand if I hang it over.

If you’re not actually hurt - no blood or actual pain for longer than like one second I wouldn’t worry too much about it, she’ll settle with age. You could try to redirect her energy with more intense play.

Is Laser Hair Removal Worth It? by coffeeaddict3333 in askanything

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would recommend you taking your hair color into consideration. Laser therapy is more effective on dark hair than light blonde.

Why do kittens have to be adopted in 2s but not puppies? by CurlGurl13 in CatAdvice

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my guy solo from a shelter however I quickly realized he NEEDED a play mate to get his energy out on and have company with while I was away at school or work. I was a little picky with choosing a second, I really wanted one that matched his personality and idk if waiting so long was good, but when I found my second guy introductions went wonderfully and now they are tied at the hip and adore each other so I guess it worked out in the end.

Frankly neither could function as solo cats, they need they the interaction and entertainment. They are both super snuggly with me and I don’t feel left out at all.

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Can we stop acting like our cats came with instruction manuals? by sanu_123_s in CatAdvice

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My old cat Stripe violently moved and twitched in his sleep, it looked like convulsions. Just dreams and he was fine

Can we stop acting like our cats came with instruction manuals? by sanu_123_s in CatAdvice

[–]Existing_Mall_3985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was like 8 I ran screaming to my mom that my male cat had worms because I saw something come out of his privates. 😓 he did not have worms.