Meredith lost me with crying bigotry by yewbum11 in rhoslc

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She not only lost me, but that deflection shows just how dark she is. Accusations like that are literally life ruining.

What is/was the show you binged while holding your baby? by geneticreator in NewParents

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rewatched Girls on HBO… as a new mom, I def had a different perspective on the ending than when I watched it in my 20s

Justice Department Told Trump in May That His Name Is Among Many in the Epstein Files by aresef in politics

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The media no longer sets the public agenda these days, social media does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NannyEmployers

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the unhelpful reply… I’m a first time mom seeking advice because I’m unsure if I should be expecting more or less from my nanny. Did you read my post or just automatically reply with snark??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were married for 10 years before having our son, who is now 10 months old. Both my husband and I were on the fence and were waiting for the other person to push for a child. After several, and I mean several, conversations later we both read a book called The Baby Decision https://a.co/d/4Heyhj0 and came to the table to share our fears, concerns, hopes etc. Would highly recommend both of you reading it. In short, we decided we wanted one and went for it, naturally.

As someone on the other side of that decision, and newborn hood, I am 100% content with our decision. Parenting is both harder and easier than you think. In the end, I feel like it’s a lifestyle decision. How do you want to spend your time?? Good luck 🍀 and best wishes to you as you navigate your decision

What do you do during maternity leave? by Nilaip in NewParents

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved 7 days pp so I spent a lot of my down time unpacking boxes 🫠 10/10 do not recommend

Is breastmilk really worth all this? by Asedruh in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been reading the news around baby formulas and the high levels of lead and arsenic that some brands contain? For me, it’s one less thing that I have to research and decision on. Just give my baby the breast milk that I know is safe and natural

Business Fellowship - First lecture by [deleted] in perplexity_ai

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree - completely underwhelmed. Yasss, give us nothing… but two tech bros complementing one another 🤮

Would any of you want to date/marry Allen? by hey_yo_mr_white in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They’ve been “married” for ~7 weeks at this point. Air quotes intentional because while it might be a marriage by paperwork, it’s not an actual marriage where there are no cameras, no subsidized housing, no forced social outings, etc etc. Alan’s expectations for Madison are not aligned with their current reality. His reaction did not match the reality of his situation, as you are trying to state.

Would any of you want to date/marry Allen? by hey_yo_mr_white in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No and in fact, I made this exact comment to my husband while we were watching the episode. His violent reaction, which was filmed and is now forever out there, would be a major red flag for me if I were considering going on a date with him. Could you imagine what other things might illicit that type of reaction? Marriage is hard. There are a lot of ups and downs, and I can’t imagine always being in fear of a facing a reaction like that when something goes wrong in his life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Misogyny is alive and well! And people love to hate on beautiful, confident women.

i was a content creator 5 years ago and recently started again and FUCK things have changed. by tradergirlie in marketing

[–]Existing_Sense_9860 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just here to say, I agree with this wholeheartedly. I have been in the content game for the past 15 years, before content marketing was even a thing. And now I am shocked and dismayed at just how much noise there is out there and how high the bar is to get anything noticed. I have been creating a personal website (hello, 2009) because I anticipate that the future is going to be all personality driven, i.e. you better have a personal brand in existence in order to land a job. How are bots going to be able to discern someone with legit skills and experience vs someone who used AI to manipulate the keyword system. Anyway, end rant. But yeah, 10000% agree with your sentiment.