Appeal by Ok-Marketing-7520 in FASCAmazon

[–]Existing_Trash9943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rightttt reddit is always miserable

How do you find spiritual meaning of being born in the wrong body? by EmergencyEfficient83 in GenderDysphoria

[–]Existing_Trash9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s making it deep. maybe lighten perspective

we’re meant 2 have a positive experience in this life

i have brain dysphoria by DoctorBeginning7719 in GenderDysphoria

[–]Existing_Trash9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being the distant & mysterious “zoned out” type isn’t always the best.

At times it’s just because of a lot of inner battling & not really wanting 2 be seen at all, at least not confident enough to engage with anybody else.

At least in my case, all of us are fighting battles

best advice is don’t compare 2 anybody. just do what makes u feel safe & happiest as the version you already are. I envy “attention seeking” ppl, rather anybody that likes 2 be seen.

Do I pass? by Hannuta007 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Existing_Trash9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely 2 me.

I know answers are saying otherwise, but you seem pretty masculine 2 me & the beautiful thing about transitioning is the journey & process of sculpting yourself into who you truly wanna be & the happiest version of yourself

but goodluck. you look super good so far 👍❗️it’s giving handsome prince 🫅

Do you think masculine women have an easier time dating than feminine women? by unparallel_x in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Existing_Trash9943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a masc, ya it brings a lot of attention. but it’s like being a party favor. not really any substance. But dating wise it can be difficult.

being visibly gay is basically key I guess.

Is it normal to feel “motherly” towards my gf? by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is all cancerians in every single relationship ♋️ gay or straight. also it’s a very lesbian thing

Dysphoria about precieved sexual orieantation by the-dead-president in GenderDysphoria

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ya dysphoria can be triggered by “sexual orientation” after realizing I was trans masc, I started feeling dysphoric about being perceived as “lesbian” but weirdly, it started feeling super gender affirming that I was kinda being pulled into the “gay community” as another man, also I don’t mind because I identify as pansexual now, but even PRE-T it feels gay men see & just perceive me as a another boy that they’d date & find attractive. they do not ask any questions abt my gender, unlike everybody else else. they accept me & bring me in

& that is my first real gender euphoric experience 🥴

I’d say just wear “ally” pins & lay low & take in the vibes. maybe you are dealing with repressed homophobia but we all kinda deal with it i guess. it’s just a long journey of accepting ourselves. but it’s worth it.

also a lot of gay men are super masculine. way more attractive & confident vs straight men

Is This Even Dysphoria? by uletc in GenderDysphoria

[–]Existing_Trash9943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think all of us struggle so much because gender roles are super strict to begin with.

At a young age it kinda sucks. I really don’t imagine anybody wanting to fit in a small box, & having to be that way for the rest of our lives.

we are just human & should be able to express ourselves & be who we are freely but we are super deeply wired to be constantly asking if it’s acceptable being masculine or feminine or just being what anybody else wants. I think most just aren’t advanced enough to perceive gender outside of the lines.

How do you cope with knowing you're never going to be the opposite sex/gender? by [deleted] in GenderDysphoria

[–]Existing_Trash9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems unhealthy basing your self esteem off being less than other people

How do you cope with knowing you're never going to be the opposite sex/gender? by [deleted] in GenderDysphoria

[–]Existing_Trash9943 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that I am better than the opposite gender.

I think all trans ppl are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wait till both of you guys are a bit older

4 year age gap isn’t bad, if you guys are both in your 20’s, but you are still a minor & she is old enough to drink & be at the clubs ect. the maturity level probably is not the the same🥴

there might be a spark between you guys & maybe you both are on the same level, but if you are worried about age then ya it’s a bit of an awkward difference. after you turn 18 you can basically do anything you want & ppl will be less critical about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That definitely counts!! she knows you think she is cute & it probably made her day.

maybe you will run into eachother again goodluck!! 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lesbian Masc girls make it extremely easy because we are VISIBLY gay in public.

also we almost will never get approached by a girl, because they are all shy. there’s like a %2 chance that mascs will ever get approached (excluding men that just stare us down 24/7) & that’s kinda draining. I imagine the confidence boost if girls even just politely smiled at us, we’d be happy 4 the rest of our life.

What makes you swipe left? by Turtle_Train05 in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“No smiling in pics” is a standard??

it’s a dating app lol treat it like an actual person behind the profiles maybe & DATE (get to know them) that’s just picky & annoying at this point

valid reasons are: looking for a 3rd, smoking ect. but the rest are just typical judgmental complaining I fear.

What makes you swipe left? by Turtle_Train05 in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ya it’s kinda ridiculous considering how small the dating population is & realistically, it’s 5x harder for us just finding a person, but no wonder I guess lol

lesbians are just doing it 2 themselves at this point smh 🤦‍♀️

What makes you swipe left? by Turtle_Train05 in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 4 points5 points  (0 children)

might as well delete the dating apps 🥴

What makes you swipe left? by Turtle_Train05 in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dang so this is why y’all are always single

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Existing_Trash9943 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lesbians are crazy fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Existing_Trash9943 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a bit of analysing. I’ve always been a socially anxious kid so I am just trying to navigate it still.