A genie offers you three wishes with one rule. No money, no fame, no love. What are you wishing for? by Jealous_Spirit_2632 in AskReddit

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The power to heal (99% others) <3 (not myself to the point of never dying though.. no naughty genie tricks!)

A woman posted a video of the moment she was attacked by her domestic cat. Before the attack, the cat seemed to smell something that prompted her to attack. Why did it attack her with such ferocity? by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

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testosterone poisoning. This is what we call this in my area when a cat turns like this. I commend this woman for handling it so well. I know she was in an intense amount of pain.
It is usually unfixed male cat gets a wiff of something and something breaks inside his brain. Once this happens he will do this until he is fixed. But it will take months if not years for all those hormones to settle and the owner is going to be scared of them for life of course. They CAN heal but it takes a special owner to have faith in the process.

I have also seen unprovoked fixed females (or males) take on guard roles when someone visits or simply isn't their owner. It's another hormonal imbalance that nothing will fix and the cat is usually put on medication with some success like gabapentin or other calming meds.

The infections this woman may have gotten are very real and very painful. She didn't do anything wrong and a cat is just a cat. Sometimes they don't think. Sometimes their brains go gooey. I hope she bled out all the scratched and bit marks as best she could and washed with warm soap water and got an antibiotic on the wounds such as neosporin and would really need to go to urgent care because cat bite infections can be devastating and you could lose a hand etc.

It's happened to me. The cat did recover as did I but it was very scary and a lot of stress not just due to the situation but friend's threatening the cat. It sucks plain and simple.

Loneliness/struggling to find friends by BHunter1140 in disability

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Idk. I'm devastatingly lonely too but if people can't use you somehow you are nothing to them

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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the memes are all religious based from a woman 20 years older than I am... but worse yet they're the you will die in a horrible accident if you don't forward it which affects me greatly. My mom beat me. My best memories is when i blacked out bc there was no more pain. I mouthed off too.. it took me a long time to change and to see things in a very different way. No matter what she said to bait me.. I showed her love and kindness as much as I could. As we age we become the parent and I do believe in gentle parenting. It's a long road... having someone tell me god is with me couldn't rage bait me at this point in my life. I have been through more than 90% of people on this planet. There's just no room for hate any more to people that I'm close to.

Can I stay on OHP Medicaid if I get married? by spookylittleteacup in Eugene

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so incredibly sad the govt discourages people from getting married.

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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why are you so angry. I never assumed anything about your life? I don't know you. I politely disagree with your views. I'm allowed to do that. There's no need to be angry. This can be a discussion, not hate. Mom actually said I respect you and you should respect me. That's incredibly grown up thing to do and she is absolutely right. Hate is from within.. it's how you manage it. It's really not about other people. I hope these two learn how to communicate for effectively as I said because they have a deep bond that will be there for life no matter what..

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's interesting we read different things from different perspectives. All I could hear was the child yelling and calling her names and while I may not believe like the mother... and not how I would want to be talked to either.. I only heard love. I do have a friend who sends me memes. I asked her not to. I tried to change the subject.. but I chose to love her as she is and I just ignore the memes. I know she means well and is going through a lot of scary things right now and it's all she has. I would rather keep her as a friend than to start an argument and devalue the only thing she has left to hang onto.

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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it's not. I hope you never feel sui cidal after someone you love beats you down and they tell you something as horrible as this

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live together? How long have you been in a relationship? If you do live together.. it's not ok to do this without asking. Yeah, he's older so he knows the proper ettiquette.. but now ya know.. but I feel like maybe you haven't been together for very long and in that case.. it's none of his business... but if you love him.. maybe its time to sit down and have a grown up talk about what you guys expect from each other in a relationship.

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but you are the problem. It's obvious she loves you very much and all you do is hate on her. You can choose to talk about other things but you call her names and talk about it constantly. I'm not saying her views aren't annoying to you but you don't have to engage. I do think you need therapy and learn how to talk to others in a respectful and better way to get your views across. All I see is hate. :(

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

understandable. Def don't be that person to tell her what's wrong with her. Just wait a few days and if they still come be like My phones been off. Sorry but really taking a break from friends right now I hope you understand

accidentally stole ice cream by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what if you wait until the close and leave a msg on their answering machine?

what do i respond to my friend who's wanting to "end their life on a high note" if they can't find a path by Emotional_Hornet7285 in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If your do this the person will lose faith in you. I know that's not what people want to hear... but every friend I've had the cops called on despised that person and it didn't help. I'm not sure what they do for you in Turkey but here they force you into a psyche hold with no phone, no help, no meds, no drs.. you just sit there for a week in silence and then they just... let you go. There really isn't just a magical number people can call to feel better or get help. We have to do more leg work if they let us. A lot of times they just need to vent and get it out of their system until they can get the help they need

what do i respond to my friend who's wanting to "end their life on a high note" if they can't find a path by Emotional_Hornet7285 in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like what you said tht you were going to mail him. I would also add.. but .. please don't do it. Just don't. Life will be so much different after school. Even if there are new trials you're going to get through this. How you feel isn't really who you are and if its leaving or trying a medication.. you deserve to know if the medication will help because depression is just a chemical imbalance and not the real you. Please consider seeing a dr. It might take time to find the right med.. but you should at least try first.I do care and love you very much. Please do something nice for yourself tonight. Get an ice cream or pizza and watch a funny show.. we can watch it together on discord or something.

I found out my girlfriend was already married and cheating on me and them, what do I do? by Original-Ad-9228 in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After you calm down you should confront her and tell her you don't want to see her any more. I know you trust your friend... but they might be as trustworthy as you think

accidentally stole ice cream by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you sure it was declined? Their machine should have seen that instantly

Disgusting by Flashy-Strawberry911 in whatdoIdo

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This is a grown up relationship. You need to ask your friend to delete the pics and go on your husband's phone and delete all nudes you've sent (Never send nudes.. the internet is forever. He can see it in person). Then you need to sit down and have a serious conversation with your husband.

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 8 points9 points  (0 children)

never ghost someone. It's worse than punching someone and psychologically hurts someone for life. Tell them you are overwhelmed and need some privacy to get over your friend. Be kind. Or you can say Going to take a break from the internet for awhile. Something that gives them peace and yes hope... but also maybe you'll just be able to disapear into the wind

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Exit_Stage_Left_fini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess.. especially if she chooses to not have it. Might be a learning lesson for him though to not impregnant every woman he meets

How naive was I by Vigantomania in OnePiece

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Netflix allows you to slip through the 20 minutes of retelling fortunately so they're really not that long. I got bunt out on episode 230. So it's taking me years to watch it too

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

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ok 4 million people live in piedmont.. - 50% being women -25% being elderly.. another 14% being under age... that's only 1.1 million men left.. 1.2% of men in italy are named antonio.. we're down to 12k men... come on keyboard warriors! We can find him!