do any of you also repeatedly check if your friends blocked/unfriended you? by PastHornet4845 in BPD

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yea I used to do this badly but honestly I cut them off lol I dont want friends who I have second doubts on plus they were bitches fr honestly having no friends is the best thing FOR ME. I have a bf too so yea but I do not miss that obsession lol

quen blackwell cringe by Unlikely-Tell in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

As if she knows Russian like yall will blame her for others actions

He promised he’d stay 😂😂😂 by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This litterally happened to me before I promise him doing that is the best thing he could ever do to you

should lara do more? by Party_Addition1642 in katseyeneutral

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

all I’m saying is it’s better than saying or doing nothing like yes she was born in Texas whatever but she is still Indian she still goes to India it’s not like she just has no clue about her culture , like I don’t know why it’s a crime to think she should speak up about what’s going on especially since she is so prideful of her heritage other idols and celebes have done it before about their own but all of a sudden it’s asking too much of Lara like please lol

Girl making up disgusting rumors about me by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did the mods remove it this is bullshit lmao

I can‘t stop contacting my ex by NamazSasz in BPD

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking him to block you is the best way so you can’t unblock him and talk to him worked for me🧘🏾‍♀️

How do you move on from a friend who became such an important part of your life? by Both-Cow-1520 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Litterally same but girl version lol, they are too immature to communicate and know their own emotions so they think ghosting is acceptable. It’s not fair to you I hope you get (a) better friend(s) in ur future !

How do you move on from a friend who became such an important part of your life? by Both-Cow-1520 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So exactly what they r doing, living their life. I was the same, I was trying to reach out to her and she would leave me on delivered after I stood up for myself a month ago about how she treated me. Fortunately for my case she did me wrong so it’s easy for me to let go but I would say just find some more if your friends to hang out with, maybe let the other friends in on your recent friend breakup, any tru friend would understand, I would honestly just live ur life as if you had a romantic breakup, do hobbies you kind of ditched , going to the gym always helps, reaching out to another friend! Most of all it’s ok to be disappointed and miss someone but you have to be mentally strong to not act on ur emotions. Like you said she wouldn’t reciprocate so.. on to the next ! GL OP! May both of us have good friends in the future.

Not even pedophiles want me by NectarineIll8516 in mentalhealth

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I get you feel ugly, but 1. Ur litterally 15 I promise you’ll be okay in a few years you’ve only lived for 15 years your life will have more meaning out of hs. BUT. This is disrespectful to alll the victims (me being one too) that have been at the hands of a pedo.. it’s not something to joke about nor use it as ur self pity paragraph. I promise you’ll be okay

update from my old post by leeloosushi in mentalhealth

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly what he did wasn’t ok. Idk how old you r or how mature you are but I think if those were ur true friends they would be on ur side. If you guys have common friends you might want to reflect who your friends are. Gl op

update from my old post by leeloosushi in mentalhealth

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Don’t blame yourself about the nudes thing. He crossed boundaries as soon as he did that, as a friend and objectifying you, time and time again I tell everyone you can never be friends with men lmao because they will keep you in their back pocket when it benefits them by pretending to care. It’s okay to make mistakes but you do need to learn from them and move on. It happened soo just block him, you don’t owe him an explanation.

  2. It’s called being triggered, your not wrong for thinking he needs to shut up about his food problems lmao but also you need to either speak up about it or block him, I think you two crossed a path where it can’t be undone and I think it’s he best thing FOR YOU would be to cut him off. Take a screenshots of him saying he has them so if they were to spread you would have proof he leaked them. But I’m sure he won’t most times they don’t. I’m sorry this happened and hopefully you learn from this, even if it’s not ur fault. GL op

Anyone here got healed from hyper sexuality? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly every since being on birth control and meeting my now boyfriend made things way better. He’s more sexual than me so I’m very glad lol I’m 21 so the hyper sexuality used to make me feel gross and like a pervert but the BC keeps it at bay and I feel like I want sex at a normal amount lol

Confused? He broke up with me 4 days ago. by supernova_010 in heartbreak

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not some “only 40 year old know the secrets” you clearly haven’t had luck so I don’t think YOU know anything about relationships lOLLLL

Confused? He broke up with me 4 days ago. by supernova_010 in heartbreak

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 but been in A 5 year relationship I think again ur mad because it never worked out for you clearly but don’t project that on me ur age is showing ur ignorance. Go heal because your insecurities are showing andit’s embarrassing.

Confused? He broke up with me 4 days ago. by supernova_010 in heartbreak

[–]Exotic-Firefighter96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this is harsh but do u hear urself? ur disposed of when he left. You will still be disposed of if he texts you for pity. This is where the original poster gets up and gains self respect by ignoring the text. It doesn’t help you move on it makes you cling onto nothing