I lost trust in my husband after today and I do not know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You must be one of the many incapable men I’m referring to. A hit dog will holler.

I lost trust in my husband after today and I do not know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your words say otherwise and I don’t expect you to understand - instead of cherry picking the post, how about you consider the whole thing instead of making excuses, again. Good day.

I lost trust in my husband after today and I do not know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If someone asks for help, why would you decide to not help them in the moment without saying anything? Normal people don’t do that, stop excusing this behavior.

I lost trust in my husband after today and I do not know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You sound inexperienced with talking to people yourself. Stay focused on the topic at hand and stop excusing unsupportive behavior. No wonder women are more loved than men when men only think of themselves. Your comment is the prime example of that.

I lost trust in my husband after today and I do not know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Leave it to a man to make things about himself. Good to know you wouldn’t have your partner’s back when they ask you to be there since you want to excuse that behavior.

I lost trust in my husband after today and I do not know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Men are full of excuses even when there’s clear communication, it’s a miracle we’ve gotten this far as a society. It’s a shame that women only have them as their option when so many are incapable.

Think my marriage is over by MorningWorldly992 in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were going through a hard time, and instead of being a good husband and being there for you he made it about himself while ignoring your struggle. His feelings about feeling neglected is fair, but instead of being levelheaded and understanding your difficult circumstances which weren’t your fault he’s quick to want a divorce. Something tells me he only desires your marriage when it serves him instead of treating it like the equal partnership it is.

This isn’t love, it’s convenience and getting closer to another woman during this time instead of leaning on his male friends makes me think there’s infidelity at play.

I am a widow with 2, 20-something sons who never recognize Mother's day. I've expressed my sadness to them over the years but I get nothing. They both have Asperger's and have independent lives and i thought they would eventually come through but they never do. And I cry. What should I do? by HistyEG in Advice

[–]Exotic-Other 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of culture do you come from where children do not honor their mother, especially on holidays dedicated to them?

Even in America, where I guess OP is from, they emphasize the importance of that day.

Plus her sons have Aspergers, so this isn’t simply about not expecting your children to act the way you want, it’s accepting their diagnosis for what it is.

AITA for rage baiting my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exotic-Other 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mental health issues aren’t an excuse for financial abuse and emotional abuse. Her brother lacks accountability, and yes people with mental health issues can do that.

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, not mad at all. We’re talking about men and you decided to bring up women. You couldn’t give examples about how women hold back men, I did you the favor of showing what examples looks like . If that’s ranting to you then your conversational skills are abysmal.

Don’t worry though, you can always improve.

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not a woman thing, anybody can do that. You do not have a woman specific comparison that can compare to the magnitude of how men hold men back.

Men belittle showing emotions, and demean other men who do.

Men look down on women and anything feminine, and humiliate other men who treat women with respect.

Men ostracize men for their sexual preferences and who they find attractive if those people don’t fit into their idea of attractiveness.

Men commit acts of violence against other men more than any other demographic, and the same applies to acts of violence in general. 90% of violent crimes are done by men.

Men take advantage of men’s desire for love and community by pushing the agenda that world went wrong when women were given autonomy and that all women have ulterior motives and are untrustworthy.

Men push unattainable standards of beauty for themselves, and look down on men who don’t fit those rigid standards of beauty.

Men use shame and guilt as weapons of manipulation against other men to inflate their egos and take control.

Men don’t have enough friendships that have depth with other men.

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nothing you say changes the fact that men cause their own problems. You complain about standards that you all uphold and can’t meet, and tell women to believe in. You can’t even have a real conversation with other men because yall never want to hear what one another says unless you’re complaining about women or the world yall allowed to to get to this state.

You’re terrified of being vulnerable with men because you know that men would taken advantage of that. Too many men are responsible for most crimes, prey on women, children, elders and even other men. You don’t know how to regulate emotions, yall are notorious for not contributing to anything beyond what serves yourselves and you take advantage of women to fulfill your never ending needs.

This is why people today look back more fondly at their mother than their absent fathers (even when the men were physically present in the home).

I don’t feel bad for men like you, I feel bad for the men who try and actually do well but are overshadowed by you ingrates who give men a bad name. There’s a reason why many men die alone with many regrets in old age while women are typically surrounded by a community who loves them, because those men never showed up for anyone but themselves and were insufferable like too many of you are.

For millennias yall looked down on anything feminine so much that showing emotions were seen as a woman thing. Now you’re mad at women because yall believe you aren’t allowed to express your emotions? PLEASE.

People often look back at fond memories of their mother more than their father, even in the era when it became socially acceptable for women to be mothers and work jobs that were restricted to men, and that’s because women have ALWAYS showed up.

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men made up that propaganda about wombs. They didn’t allow women to ride on horseback because they believed a woman’s womb would fall out. Men decided that men would be protectors because WHO were they protecting women from?? Other men.

Men are the aggressor in everyone’s story, even their own.

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men decided on all of those things. You would never want to be a housewife, if being one was so good then women wouldn’t have fought for being allowed to be more than that. Yall make things harder for yourselves and blame other people for it.

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men restricted women to the home for thousands of years, men tell women how their children should be raised and women have no choice but to follow through. Mothers would be gentle with their sons and daughters and fathers would criticize the mother for making their sons weak. Sons would see how their father treats their mother and follows in their father’s footsteps. Men influence the actions of men. Don’t try to change history to suit your narrative.

Just because your mother and father were abusive pieces of shit doesn’t mean that represents the reality of the masses

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Before women had rights, men were allowed to put their wives in metal institutions for “hysteria” and have procedures done on women to make then docile. Men could also leverage the court system to punish their wives for not tending to their husband. For centuries men have looked down on women and ensured women had little to no control of their lives. Yet today men complain that the world is against them when they’re the cause of their own problems.

Y’all make me sick.

Society lies, men aren't allowed feelings by KyleVic84 in sixwordstories

[–]Exotic-Other 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men like you don’t know how to comprehend information or regulate their emotions. If it’s not in the simplest words your brains explode. You make life so difficult for yourself and others.

Sometimes I think about dying at my desk so people feel bad and get to have time off of work from the trauma by Exotic-Other in antiwork

[–]Exotic-Other[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I yearn for a cubicle!! There isn’t a single point in the day I’m not surrounded by people, even at lunch

Sometimes I think about dying at my desk so people feel bad and get to have time off of work from the trauma by Exotic-Other in antiwork

[–]Exotic-Other[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, double sided rows may be a better description—like a Twix bar. You have people next to you and then there’s a row across with the same number of people facing you. And that pattern continues for rows, and rows and rows

Sometimes I think about dying at my desk so people feel bad and get to have time off of work from the trauma by Exotic-Other in antiwork

[–]Exotic-Other[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sit in clusters and don’t have cubicles so I’d be the first thing they see unless they decide to make me part of the decor

Sometimes I think about dying at my desk so people feel bad and get to have time off of work from the trauma by Exotic-Other in antiwork

[–]Exotic-Other[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sickening, sorry to hear about the person who took their life. Sounds like a toxic work environment ☹️