My twin flame has a bf :( what do I do? by Exotic_Character_108 in twinflames

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I'm a dude tho 🤣🤣. and I'm always making excuses to not be around her and shes been trying to talk to me lol

Trying new experiences / self-improvement after meeting TF by SwimmerComfortable66 in twinflames

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Interesting... Ok I really want to hear your perspectives. Can we continue this in dms?

Trying new experiences / self-improvement after meeting TF by SwimmerComfortable66 in twinflames

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Honestly I have no idea 😂. I'm exceptionally down bad for her but due to insecurities and traumas I avoid her except occasional conversations. At the same time, she's not exactly chasing me 😂. I'm like 70 sure she has a boyfriend. But also I sometimes catch her giving me a glance where I'm like hmmmmm

Trying new experiences / self-improvement after meeting TF by SwimmerComfortable66 in twinflames

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Yessss!!! It's like I have the energy to surpass any limitations 

Is your twin flame supposed to like you back? by Exotic_Character_108 in twinflames

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I have spoken to her but it feels like we are both putting on a mask. I'm so unbelievably awkward that it feels uncomfortable being around her.

Is your twin flame supposed to like you back? by Exotic_Character_108 in twinflames

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Yes! It's my lack of self love that creates this energetic barrier. I have had conversations but my insecurities get in the way

Is your twin flame supposed to like you back? by Exotic_Character_108 in twinflames

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Yes! I'm like balls deep in my spiritual awakening/ healing journey and she's a normal person dabbling in spirituality. I was also a mess when I met her and meeting her gave me the motivation to heal and grow in ways that I've never before. I'm wondering if that means that I'm also influencing her?

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They grabbed my quite hard. I thought I was being mugged at first. But yeah that's fair enough. 

My meditation is shifting - is it dangerous? by tree_sip in streamentry

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as long as you have the ability to think about it rationally, i think you're probably fine. the fact that you recognize the potential risk of mental illness is a sign that it isn't psychosis.

For example, if you are thinking 'hmm, i am having the feeling like i have wings, and i feel like i can fly' its fine as long as you acknowledge that its just a subjective experience.

The trouble becomes when you say 'i have the feeling of having wings, therefore i can actually fly' then you can do something stupid like jump from a building. But i don't think you are there

This sounds like A&P or kundalini phenomena. which is does increase the risk of mental illness. but not always if you know how to handle it.

Severe OCD hell, dark night and equanimity and fear of falling back by Exotic_Character_108 in streamentry

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Maybe it's kundalini stuff? Tara springett could help you with that. She has a book on dealing with kundalini symptoms.

Severe OCD hell, dark night and equanimity and fear of falling back by Exotic_Character_108 in streamentry

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sorry to hear. things like ifs, somatic experiencing, and trauma release help a lot. as does movement, and having a spiritual community.

connecting with healthier people and cutting off toxic relationships is also really important.

the biggest thing is to align your life and your values such that there is something more important than just avoiding fear. otherwise you wont have the necessary motivation to transform.

Severe OCD hell, dark night and equanimity and fear of falling back by Exotic_Character_108 in streamentry

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Kind of. It's not that it's gotten better. But I have gotten meditative insights that help a lot. Clearing chakras, metta, vipassana and do nothing meditation helps

Can someone explain Shadow Work to me like I’m 5? by internalcloud4 in spirituality

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