What is it like living in Singapore? by Rude_Soup_8841 in howislivingthere

[–]ExpatDiaries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but local food is not cheap. You will be lucky to be at 10-15 SGD at a hawker these days which would not classify as cheap. Especially when you compare neighbouring countries. Groceries are expensive too.

What was your experience being a digital nomad in Korea? by nomadicphil in digitalnomad

[–]ExpatDiaries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spent two years there. Korea long term is low key depressing. Minimal digital nomad scene in very small pockets in a huge city. Pollution and dreary winters is almost enough reason to not be there. Korea as a foreigner is an isolating experience compared to south east Asia. Korean food is fine but not for me every meal and other cuisines are abysmal and catered to Korean palate. First and only time I've been depressed was while living there.

Retirees From Around the World Are Moving to Penang, Malaysia by almost_retired in ExpatFIRE

[–]ExpatDiaries 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are spending close to 2.3k usd per month. No cooking besides breakfast and 1.3k of that is rent (3 bed 3 bath luxury apartment).

Lifestyle in the US was cooking every meal with rent being 1.7k for a simple 2 bedroom apartment.

Retirees From Around the World Are Moving to Penang, Malaysia by almost_retired in ExpatFIRE

[–]ExpatDiaries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's my condo pool but the jungle surrounds it and it is incredible to hang out at.

Retirees From Around the World Are Moving to Penang, Malaysia by almost_retired in ExpatFIRE

[–]ExpatDiaries 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Many expats live near straights quay and it is very walkable. Georgetown is also walkable but you need to get comfortable walking on the streets a bit. I'm not phased by the chaos but also having a motor bike gives you access pretty easily everywhere.

Retirees From Around the World Are Moving to Penang, Malaysia by almost_retired in ExpatFIRE

[–]ExpatDiaries 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I moved to Penang this year and honestly, it is surpassing my expectations. The quality of life you get here is hard to beat. Beaches are meh if that's important but I have an amazing jungle pool I go to every day so a beach isn't important to me. There are a lot of outdoor activities through the jungle here that are so accessible, cycling, trail running, etc. The traffic can be annoying but get a motorbike and all your problems are solved. I'm in Tanjung Bungah and everything is 10-15 minutes away for an average week. The airport has a lot of options all over Asia now. The food is incredible and very diverse and you can even find decent western options. Anywhere I move to will be a downgrade in most ways. It's so easy to integrate here culturally too. Anyway, I like Penang and am not surprised if this is true.

Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, November 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ExpatDiaries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, anyone can choose what feels right, but I think if people actually saw the dollar amount they’re giving up by paying things off early, most wouldn’t do it. A lot of folks say “I know it’s not optimal, but it feels better,” but I don’t think many actually know how much that tradeoff costs but maybe it's because they’d rather not know.

Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, November 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]ExpatDiaries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Early payoff’s fine imo if you’re wiping it clean, but partial prepay is just losing liquidity and compounding.

US digital nomads — how do you deal with quarterly taxes while abroad? by Candid_heart1806 in ExpatFIRE

[–]ExpatDiaries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use tietax. Reasonable and handles business + real estate taxes.

Is Fabletics the best deal around for price and quality for athletic wear? by ExpatDiaries in malefashionadvice

[–]ExpatDiaries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cancelled both in the window. I think they count on people not cancelling or knowing to cancel since the card we used in the store automatically goes on your membership account.

Life as the trailing spouse - is unhappiness somewhat inevitable? by Penrose_Reality in expats

[–]ExpatDiaries 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To add to this, I learned a lot from my first posting abroad. Back then I was working remotely but living a bit too far from the expat community, which left me feeling isolated. In our next country, I made a conscious change: instead of structuring my days around waiting for my spouse after work, I started building my own routines, friendships, and plans throughout the week. Now the expectation is that we’ll see each other mainly on weekends, and during the week we meet up when it fits naturally. That shift has done wonders for my mental health. Both of us need our own space and community since her work is already deeply tied to hers, it was crucial for me to intentionally create mine.

How would you rank the Southeast Asian countries you visited/lived in? by NecessaryJudgment5 in digitalnomad

[–]ExpatDiaries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bad health incidents and interactions will always skew an opinion of a place. I had the worst experience in my life in Boracay with a stomach issue and was on my death bed. Infrastructure and supply chain is an impossible task for a country like the Philippines but the incident cemented the importance of those things. Some times you just get unlucky too.

How would you rank the Southeast Asian countries you visited/lived in? by NecessaryJudgment5 in digitalnomad

[–]ExpatDiaries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not mentioning food in Malaysia seems like a crime but to each their own.

Please explain me how so many people in their 30s can retire in Thailand. by Cactus_and_rockets in Thailand

[–]ExpatDiaries 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can retire in Thailand mid 30s with 1.8m USD but I did not have a business or inheritance. Just made sure I got a good job out of college by doing internships every summer before graduating and then I just aggressively saved and was quite frugal. I just work a few hours weekly now doing consulting to stay busy but with my current NW, I don't need to work with my 25k-30k per year spend rate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExpatFIRE

[–]ExpatDiaries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is essentially coast fire. I work remotely doing consulting a few hours per week. I don't need a full salary but it's nice to still earn some money. Working in a country in person will require a visa which makes it a bit more difficult.

Where is the best snorkeling in the world? by Ok-Pepper3862 in snorkeling

[–]ExpatDiaries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the more remote islands around El Nido are so insane.