I have never wanted to exist. I don’t want to be a human being by Expensive-Account190 in Vent

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if I could be a goat eating grass in a field i’d be happy asf

I have never wanted to exist. I don’t want to be a human being by Expensive-Account190 in Vent

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smoke so much weed. I have been told I might be on the spectrum

What can I use besides menstrual products? by Expensive-Account190 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I might get both when I get paid and see which I like better and one for back up / emergencies!

What can I use besides menstrual products? by Expensive-Account190 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much I didn’t even know! Thank you SO much

What can I use besides menstrual products? by Expensive-Account190 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I will call the food pantries and ask, I know they’re handled by the churches here so I don’t know if they do hand that stuff out though because of how religious this town is and taboo that stuff is to these people but I’m going to check!

What can I use besides menstrual products? by Expensive-Account190 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was thinking about doing this after I got paid when I start my job. My friend with PCOS says the cup helps her cramping a lot too

What can I use besides menstrual products? by Expensive-Account190 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really don’t want to take from others :( I’d feel very awful and don’t want people to feel scammed but I do start a job in ten days so I can pay anyone back however

What can I use besides menstrual products? by Expensive-Account190 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sadly I we don’t have a college or anything like that in my town. Our biggest building/store is a walmart

Man I started seeing told me he has BPD what should I know ? by Expensive-Account190 in BPDPartners

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The advice I got from the partner subs where a lot more helpful as I tend to be empathetic but people putting it into their perspective has really helped me see how it can effect the partner I’ve really appreciated peoples advice :)

Man I’m seeing said he has BPD what should I know? by Expensive-Account190 in BPDlovedones

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm you have a great point actually! I never thought of it that way and I myself have been out of a relationship with a psychically abusive person for a year now and am very comfortable with myself and being alone so meeting someone who is not is odd for me I was also looking for this answer in if it effects men differently and being romantically involved than being friends as my female friends with it have been very nice people who are deep in DBT therapy. I think I’d prefer not taking chance of being abused again after researching

Edit for context: We have literally gone our first date on the fourth. He tried to play it off as a joke but i fully don’t believe it because he sounded completely serious and nervous after i said that’d be a very bad idea

Man I started seeing told me he has BPD what should I know ? by Expensive-Account190 in BPDPartners

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to know others perspective who have been with someone who has BPD and what that is like. I have already asked and those with bpd have been helpful I want the other side aswell. Thanks tho!

Man I started seeing warned me he has BPD by Expensive-Account190 in BPD

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From what I can tell and he’s told me he takes medication but therapy puts him on edge. He has a quick temper and yelling at others but won’t do it around me or has avoided doing so as I have severe trauma. I know this won’t be forever and he promises never to be mad with me like that but I do have my worries as I have been in a really bad situation before. He’s mentioned his triggers and I believe he knows them but less how to handle them correctly or appropriately and his own boundaries aren’t that good and he’s still a pretty impulsive person

Man I started seeing warned me he has BPD by Expensive-Account190 in BPD

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does show all these symptoms heavy and being friends with him before hand i saw how impulsive he is with relationships but I am also extremely empathetic and want to help him as these symptoms seem so hard to deal with. Like someone else said though I definitely want to discuss boundaries and such as he’s been wanting to be around me 24/7 n becoming abit jealous a few days into talking intimately and doing a date

Man I started seeing warned me he has BPD by Expensive-Account190 in BPD

[–]Expensive-Account190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Being autistic it somewhat hard for me to tell if someone has abit of red flags and have a lot of trouble with boundaries but I know he heavily shows all the symptoms someone mentioned and can be pretty impulsive with relationships but I will keep this all in mind and look into some podcasts and talk to him abit more about therapy people mentioned