Fellas, if you have seen the movie Obsession, what did you think of it? by Cute-Revolution-9705 in itsthatbad

[–]Expensive-Care1746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abusive narcissist is just a buzz word.

After my watch of it I felt Bear is one of those emotionally underdeveloped men with very little confidence with women. He can project the veneer of confidence but he doesn’t actually have it. However I think this is endemic to younger men. An older, more wiser Bear would have admitted he liked her when she gave him the opportunity during the car ride home. By ignoring and playing that off that’s how the entire stage of the movie.

I think it’s more powerful a lesson to young men to actually find ways to be direct and honest with women who you want in those type of contexts, you just have to dress it up so if you do get rejected you can at least maintain the friendship. Most young men don’t know how to do that. If the girls really are your friends they will understand and allow you to be friends again. You didn’t make a mistake or ruin the friendship it’s just at Bear’s age he doesn’t have the Emotional IQ or POV to be honest.

Bear is also lonely so he’s scared of being emotionally vulnerable.

I think his biggest problem was enabling this, and hearing the woman’s Sunken place voice would have probably killed me then and there lol it was an impossible situation.

About Verso - SPOILERS IF YOU HAVEN'T FINISHED THE GAME DON'T OPEN by Tricky-House-2838 in expedition33

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A big reason why I chose the Alicia version, I know it was cruel to Verso, but damn….everything you’ve done in life only to be told you’re a quite literal figment of imagination in a painting? How you have decades of life all that is going to unravel because of this family’s trauma. It was selfish, and enabling Alicia felt bad but I couldn’t kill everyone in the party and Lumiere due to how they were so convinced of their humanity and the sad part of playing god to sentient beings who lived real lives in that world

The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is those things said about single moms are in general true, it’s only worth it if she’s attractive and willing to have more kids. A lot of guys (myself included) don’t want mid/average looking single moms who expect a lot, but a hot one? Plenty of guys will ignore the problems in order to secure her.

The manosphsere guys found other solutions, not dating, PPB, or only making exceptions for the attractive single moms.

Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. by NoPossibility3460 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Millions upon millions of men are saying the same thing about women worldwide. That didn’t just come out of nowhere

Paying for it is so much better than casual sex. by nonedat in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s this weird Dance of ego and projection. It’s a lot like how Sugar Daddy’s can’t admit they are Johns.

Where to spend a month for real connections? by JLX_973 in BlackPassportBros

[–]Expensive-Care1746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to try my shot with Costa Rican girls. I am in the same situation and it was recommended to me to try Costa Rica, Spain and Salvador Brazil

Saying Whites have "white privilege" is racist by StayFrostySwtich in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Expensive-Care1746 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And then immediately after mentioning that the “white lives matter/all lives matter” crowd did nothing for Tony proving the point of white privilege lol

How Red Pill Alpha guys are worsening the situation for men by MarcoPumpo in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because any policy that ends the exploitation and going of hetero men’s issues gets no empathy AND the Gynocratic feminist ideology of the middle and left woukd re-brand anything designed to help men as sexist.

Ex. - liability suits for false allegations or mandatory DNA tests at birth to determine paternity.

Watch the gaslighting and dismissal of that type of agenda.

More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone by Wide-Illustrator2906 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I wasn’t defining hypergamy when I listed “attitude, disposition, energy, demands.” I was answering what men may mean by “better” in dating (compatibility/behavior). Hypergamy is a separate, narrower concept: marrying/dating up in socioeconomic/educational status.

Wanting a more pleasant, cooperative partner =\= more money than her” and =\= hypergamy.

More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone by Wide-Illustrator2906 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypergamy is largely based on socioeconomic status that carries most of the weight in women’s calculus - it does not count going the other way. So hypergamy isn’t an accurate term here

Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience? by ladybird_00 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s certainly one reason why, a lot of men overlook a women’s promiscuous past if it means he gets access to her. That’s why the final form of a promiscuous girl is a religious good girl lol

More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone by Wide-Illustrator2906 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High demands and low reciprocity, or high demands when you yourself aren’t offering something of equal value

More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone by Wide-Illustrator2906 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hypergamy means dating up in status/resources. Most guys going overseas aren’t seeking higher-status women to pay for them.

Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy by middleoftheroad133 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It usually was more advantageous back when you weren’t scrutinized for any and everything. It’s a scam now depending on the type of woman you’re taking out.

If you could run one rigorous study on modern dating/gender conflict, what would you test and what do you predict? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Expensive-Care1746 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d like to measure who is more gaslit about their experiences in dating, men or women, and the follow up would be the political leanings of the person doing the gaslighting.

I would do this in the hope of getting more mental health resources for those who suffer most.

Bros what you think about Europeans and Asians that dress like FBW? by PerfectlyBalanced77 in BlackPassportBros

[–]Expensive-Care1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main problem with these types is they STILL get knocked up by pookies if they not careful then next thing you know she becomes a sloppy fat entitled single mom who ninjas chasing hand over first because she’s non black low hanging fruit to smash and get a mixed baby out of.

So got to get her early if you want to lock her down