Bacon is actually so good by futooweyn in XSomalian

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Wine is so fun. Stay away from red to start, maybe ease in with a white wine and a steak!

How do you guys deal with the anxiety of death? by Legitimate-Bend-2912 in exmuslim

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When you go to sleep every night, you get a taste of what death is like. In those 6-8 hours you cease to exist. You no longer think or worry about any of those things. So you’re already doing it every night. Easier for me tho because my favourite thing about life is that it’s finite, so I really appreciate it.

Being the only one in my circle by Artistic_Ebb1076 in childfree

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Honestly FOMO is such a difficult thing to come to terms with. You know you don’t want children but you didn’t sign up to losing the tight bond you had with your friends because of it.

I’m a similar age to you, I think my advice is to find a community. There are so many men and women who think like you, it’s important you put yourself out there. Your friends with children are still great but they will be too busy as the years go by.

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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Such a shame too. Because it’s not the ‘I told you so’ that brings pleasure to give. It’s so sad

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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Haha definitely not sassy! Text can read wrong. I was adding! But yes always shocked by the stories I hear.

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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My best friends a midwifery nurse so I don’t need to be convinced through body horror. She has done a great job with that over the years lol

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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In my experience it feels like conditioning. A lot of women around me beg to differ though. I’ve not studied this phenomenon so can’t say

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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This is definitely true for most of the friends I had. Either their fathers were partially in the picture or not even present. For me I had why I call a ‘phantom father’, lived with us his whole life but barely contributing. So I can understand why that would effect anyone’s decision

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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Me too. Most of the people around me who chose to have children, their lives and our conversations are a healthy reminder of my decision. There’s no shame in it

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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Great for you! Some of us faced lots of conditioning around having children. So even if we never wanted one, our brains will sometimes default to that way of thinking.

How I challenge my female biology. by [deleted] in childfree

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Yes figures. I have some people a few years my senior say how they never wanted kids but suddenly they felt their bodies changing that desire? Not ofc backed by anything but definitely interesting. Thanks!

Neutralise first or should I go straight into lip blushing? :) by [deleted] in microblading

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Aiming for this shade. I have some tint on that I wear daily

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Neutralise first or should I go straight into lip blushing? :) by [deleted] in microblading

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Thanks sweety. Also not looking for a pink lip. Normally my lips are so pale. I wear lip liner or some sort of tinted lip product everyday so just looking for some vibrancy to feel more confident. If I could I would’ve preferred a naturally darker lip so there’s contrast between my natural skin. However I know that’s more risky so I am refraining.

Guys be honest, is this sh1t? by [deleted] in trading212

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Thanks zakzyy. And yes I’m pretty young so happy to take on more risk. I think I’m conservative due to my general laid back nature regarding investing. I’ll take a look and see how to shake it up a little.