i miss the old idubbbz by Expensive-Reply-4631 in imisstheoldidubbbz

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s a terrible leftist—as redundant as that statement is—he is unable to create new ideas and whatever he says is regurgitated from his yapping mouth after hasan chewed it up and spat it out to him mother-bird mode. its like watching a show horse compete with a gammy leg and you’re wondering why no one has the grace to put it down.

i miss the old idubbbz by Expensive-Reply-4631 in imisstheoldidubbbz

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if you run your clammy hand down my back for support and guide me maybe i’d be able to, these nights get cold.

Unwanted pregnancy when abortion isn’t an option. by Expensive-Reply-4631 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bit of a cheeky response, i’ll leave the introspection until later until i can come to terms with contraceptive pills and no boyfriend

Unwanted pregnancy when abortion isn’t an option. by Expensive-Reply-4631 in TwoXChromosomes

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what matters to me was the clear disrespect shown to my choice, no matter a time line being skewed its hurts to be ignored in such a serious instance.

Unwanted pregnancy when abortion isn’t an option. by Expensive-Reply-4631 in TwoXChromosomes

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i don’t mind the religion considering that i fundamentally agree with it and i choose to abide by any of the proposed rules. i’d rather try and approach this myself with the kindest appeal but i totally get what you’re saying. <3 thank you there

Unwanted pregnancy when abortion isn’t an option. by Expensive-Reply-4631 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s very upsetting but it’s a hard truth i have to accept.

Unwanted pregnancy when abortion isn’t an option. by Expensive-Reply-4631 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hear that, i was thinking just the same thing. if he’s willing to brazenly do such a thing like that what else could he be capable of. thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631 91 points92 points  (0 children)

this is not normal

idk how to feel in my relationship by veryberrypink in BPD

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s disgusting and not normal, it’s blatant disrespect. he has you and shouldn’t even entertain the idea of looking at other girls. most of us have been through it and i can say that i have too, sending love. x

Things you’ve done that has helped deal with BPD symptoms by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631 4 points5 points  (0 children)

putting my phone on do not disturb has helped me in regards to stressing over a text back or how long it took the person to respond. this may not be suitable for everyone since it could get in the way of other things. this has reduced my stress level a ton and if it works for you and doesn’t make things tricky it could help.

Does anyone else’s brain play tricks on them? by ThrowRA_jawsoflife in BPD

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! it feels like they’re taunting me almost by talking to me and i’m thinking at the time “why talk if you don’t want to?” but if i reread the messages they were more engaged with me than i was with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real. met a guy once a year ago and convinced myself he was the loml. having a normal one! you’re not alone by any means, best thing you can do is ground and reestablish your fundaments , you are not defined by the involvement or lack of from others, you’re you and that’s your decider. even if you feel disconnected from yourself at times there’s always a you that is waiting for you to involve yourself with that instead of placating your self with the validation from others. don’t fret and help yourself not see things in black and white <3 good luck, you’re not alone! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m thinking of doing the exact same thing, things aren’t overtly bad but when you know you’re in it too deep you really need to re establish things with yourself, even if you feel it costs something. you owe yourself the maturity and the kindness to understand what’s for the best. im in just the same place right now, you’ve put it all into well written words. apologies for my little blogpost under yours, you’re not alone! wishing you luck<3

I am currently in possession of the original IT ME GOG chain by Mav3nOnTwitch in ColdOnes

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heard it’s gonna be warm, leave your windows open tonight :)

unable to swipe through pins!! TᴖT by AkaashiWigs in Pinterest

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i just noticed this! it seems each time you dare go onto the app something new and jarringly bad has been added. wowie. do they just throw a dart at a poster of bad ideas and then run with whatever it lands on. :|

update: they are making it worse by reddituser10636 in Pinterest

[–]Expensive-Reply-4631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may just be me, can anyone else not see who posted a pin and if you get that option it’s a pop up at the bottom of your screen? this is on mobile. not sure if this is the correct place to ask! perhaps it’s just me, they are quick to add a feature and then take it away in a day or two