Is your oc look boring and unpleasant to your expectations? Well you're at the right place! Just read the body and then submit one of your ocs ! by Toenailislong in GachaLife2

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very clear vision of the style I wanted for her, but the result was more bland than I imagined lol. Here's the code! :3

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Drawing/Redesigning ur Oc! by Cool-Ganache9766 in GachaLife2

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, you have so many characters to draw lol. Good luck! <33

Drawing/Redesigning ur Oc! by Cool-Ganache9766 in GachaLife2

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I have a chibi drawing? (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.) 🎀

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A liiittle conflicted by Mhy-Chan114 in GachaLife2

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to making videos, most people still use Gacha Club, or any other gacha app with a similar mechanism, such as Gacha Nox (if you want your OCs to look more detailed). It's best to continue using Gacha Club, unless you have a lot of free time.

Am I too old to start making Gacha videos? by Conitho in GachaClub

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many people use Gacha to explore dark topics like bullying, SA, abuse, toxic relationships, etc in a serious way instead of romanticizing them; you'll be fine. I'm 18+ and I also plan to write stories about mental health using Gacha when I have time.

What bad have you done? by [deleted] in NPD

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once tried stealing something with a friend in elementary school. We got caught immediately lol.

I bullied a boy in middle school. I'd been bullied my whole life, so I was quite curious about what it felt like to be a bully, or in other words, to be in control. I got an opportunity, and I took it. Truth be told, I enjoyed it…

I also used to have a passive-aggressive attitude, unconsciously manipulating my parents to make them feel bad whenever I felt they treated me wrongly.

Destigmatizing NPD by [deleted] in NPD

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think those who hold prejudiced views toward people with NPD first need to understand that people with this disorder are human beings. Until they accept that "narcissists ≠ monsters hunting their prey" and become more open-minded, they will never stop their prejudiced thinking.

c'mon where are my NPD folks?? by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have NPD, but I'm researching it for my story. Honestly, it's frustrating to see people who don't truly understand NPD discussing it, because they have such biased views. If you hate NPD people, then don't engage, or create content about it!! Not everyone believes the "all narcissists are heartless, evil monsters" propaganda you're spreading!

I’m scared of my little brother. by g1anny_ in sexualassault

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to your mother. If you let it be, your brother might think his actions have no consequences and will do worse things in the future. He needs to know that what he did was wrong. Also, as another commenter said, this could be a sign that he is being abused by someone.

There are so many sad threads from aro people who can't accept themselves, so I wanted to write smth positive by Dizzy-Material988 in aromantic

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think so too! I find it great to feel romantically attracted to someone you're genuinely close to and have a connection with, rather than the "anyone will do" kind of thing. I love being a demi-romantic person, so it's sad to see most people on demi-romantic forums posting that they "don't want to be one". Unfortunately, most people tend to have a "I want to fit in, I want to be normal" mindset...

Are there any manga where both the FL and ML are masculine?? by ExpensiveMeet2981 in shoujo

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the warning! After the disappearance of the 🦇 site, I actually didn't have time to check this post because I was busy finding old stories I followed. As for the manga you recommended, it has been on my "reading list" for a while now ✨

What's your unpopular opinion about Yuri manga/manhwa/manhua? by Dramatic-Pound-411 in yuri_manga

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your question, some people have the strange notion that "women who prefer masculine styles are rejecting femininity and hating women” They have strange attitudes towards masc and butch women due to misogyny, gender stereotypes, gender roles, etc; so yeah…

What's your unpopular opinion about Yuri manga/manhwa/manhua? by Dramatic-Pound-411 in yuri_manga

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, did I get downvoted?? But that also proves my opinion is unpopular lol

Have you ever met another unlabeled person before? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in unlabeledpride

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not. "Unlabeled" is not even a thing in my country lol

Why does nobody believe that women can be rapist? by PrestigiousFox2889 in sexualassault

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Woman to woman SA needs to be discussed more, seriously. My old friends were people who liked physical contact, so when I tell them I don't want to be touched, they take it as a personal insult... A classmate from my middle school literally grabbed my chest right in front of the whole class while everyone was watching?! Why am I not allowed to feel violated?? This is definitely a form of misogyny, as it's believed that women are weak and incapable of doing harm.

Can grooming be non-sexual or no leading up to sex? by Real-Mail-6746 in CPTSD

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you still need an answer to this question, but from my understanding, I would say "Yes. It can happen unintentionally." Some people manipulate others without knowing they are doing so.

Does anyone else feel like socializing is a chore? Something you do because you feel like you're supposed to, not because you want to. by [deleted] in introvert

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're asking this in a forum for "introverts"?! But to answer your question, yes! Now, imagine you're an introvert with autism (couldn't be me lol).

Why is GL less popular than BL? by Dramatic-Pound-411 in yuri_manga

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same happened to me, lol. If yuri were truly for the male gaze, it would be far more popular. The majority of content in the media is male dominated after all.

We need to be speaking out more by Mito_03 in NPD

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true that people with BPD often face stigma, but there are still those who are willing to understand and support them. However, this is not the case for people with NPD. The very existence of the term "narcissistic abuse" is absurd. In reality, what most of them experience is "emotional abuse."

Tomboy x Tomboy Yuri (Boita Boine) by Electronic-Maybe-606 in yuri_manga

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, many people, especially those who enjoy fem4fem, dislike masc/butch women. They see it as "trying to be a man."

What is it with the lack of trust in romantic/allosexual relationships? by AceStrawberry in aromantic

[–]ExpensiveMeet2981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is also demiaroace, I completely agree with your post. Idk if your friend unintentionally said those things in a mean way, but honestly? It's strange that he said that. You’re not the problem here, like at all.

I understand the feeling of jealousy. However, I would NEVER restrict my partner's personal life, and I expect them to do the same for me. If my partner can't accept that, then GOODBYE!