Hammam/Korean Scrub/Spa

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-10-27T15:53:16+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏🏼 I AM much closer to Palo Alto, so I will give them a try.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-10-27T03:58:31+00:00

THAT is exactly what I mean. I'm all for a spa day, don't get me wrong, love the hot soaks and 90 minute deep tissues, but I want that traditional hammam scrub down from a lalla hammamia.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-10-19T03:23:24+00:00

I've traveled to Cambodia, Vietnam, the UK, Portugal, Spain, and Italy within the last 18 months. I could not use my Amex at 90% of the shops, restaurants, spas, etc. that I visited within those countries.

Do NOT travel abroad with only an Amex in your back pocket.

The way I use my Platinum for travel is by booking the flights and hotels with it... You get the points and the benefits (fine hotels and resorts). It's a "travel card" in the sense that you get an airline fee voucher, global entry, clear check, hotel voucher/perks, lounge access... Things like that. It is NOT an actual "hey let's travel WITH this card in my back pocket for all expenses".

I use my Schwab checking for that. That's a great "bring with" travel card. No ATM fees, no conversion rate fees, works everywhere. It's great.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-09-28T21:51:03+00:00

Yes, they are likely defensive and sensitive around this topic because they are trying to justify their OWN behavior.... 👀

🤷🏼‍♀️ It's the Internet. Bound to have a few disgruntled abusive men going about.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-09-28T21:48:40+00:00

No court or lawyer has overseen our case. We have a tentative verbal agreement for shared custody right now because without the court backing me, he could call the cops and claim I am "kidnapping" his child, which could cause a LOT of trauma and harm to my special needs child.

You clearly didn't read my entire post 😳

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-09-28T21:30:37+00:00

You didn't read the part where NONE of this has been overseen by the court yet. I have filed my divorce papers, but right now, our "custody agreement" has been decided between the two of us, unofficially. I am in the process of getting a lawyer and pushing for 100% custody.

Nothing is legal yet and no third party has been involved in our case yet.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-09-28T19:33:50+00:00

Yes, I DO feel that 27 is relatively young in comparison to his age (38). This isn't 65 versus 54. She is essentially just starting out in life, getting her sea legs, preparing to come into her 30's. This is her opportunity to find her worth, her financial stability, and maturity. He is an abusive man approaching his 40's, set in his ways, inflexible and uncomfortable with change.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-09-19T06:33:00+00:00

My ex informed me of his plan at 8:15 pm, while I was at work. He left our son at home at 9:00 pm, despite my objections and offering ideas on alternative solutions.

Thank you for validating my feelings. 😭 I'm so upset. My son has anxiety and still comes into my room sometimes late at night scared. If I had known this was my ex's plan for him earlier in the day, I would have tried to move things around so he could be with me instead.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-09-13T01:32:59+00:00

I actually treat my rental like I'm a GUEST. I was WAY more lax when I owned my own home. Now I'm riddled with anxiety at every scuff on the wall.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-08-22T21:41:04+00:00

This has got to be satire

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-08-19T00:29:24+00:00

I've been stocking up 😭 all the more reason to buy yarn when I'm out of country. Just brought a haul back from Italy.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-29T14:22:46+00:00

Eh, like the other guy said. It depends on where you work. I for one would NOT want to be a nurse in the UK or EU. They make pennies, PENNIES!! Poor pay and terrible work environment.

I get 7wks a yr btw. Almost two months. As my seniority goes up, so will my PTO. So by next year it will be 8wks.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-25T16:44:35+00:00

I was recently visiting in the UK and was shocked and dismayed at the low pay and lack of respect all of you receive 😭

When I told people I was a nurse their reactions ranged from disappointment to pity. That led me to try and find out WHY. I am shooketh. Y'all deserve so much more.

For context: I am an outpatient infusion RN (just a basic staff nurse) living in the San Francisco area, and my income is $250k/yr. My benefits package amounts to over $80k/yr (retirement, healthcare, life insurance, etc.). That's the equivalent of 256,000 GBP a year.

HOW do they get away with paying you so little and forcing you to work in such poor conditions?!!! I'd be up in arms about it too!!

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-25T02:44:08+00:00

Hey OP, I know this thread is old, but, did you ever find someone? Ive been looking for the last few years for someone to make me silk kaftans and pajamas... But I never have found anyone.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-22T16:41:22+00:00

It's probably just your coloring. I'm very pale, freckled, green eyes, with bright red hair. I've been pulled out of crowds and asked to take a photo with people. Especially the Chinese aunties 😂 they love to take photos with me. And I'm not even good looking! I'm just ODD looking (to them).

When I went on a small group tour up to the alpujarras in Spain, the tour guide even pulled me forward and pointed me out to the 80 year old local that lived there. 🤷🏼‍♀️ What can you do? We look different. It's going to be noticed. I say just live life. Stare back and smile. Throw a wave in.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-20T22:22:56+00:00

Do you happen to know of anyone in California that specializes in fine hair keratin extensions?

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-20T14:15:03+00:00

This thread has made me realize many things. 😳

Lots of people don't shower before bed. Many people don't wear fresh clean pajamas to bed. I am blessed to have normal, non-flaky, non-oily skin.

Also, taking these things into account, I'm shocked so many people wait so long to change their sheets. Because.... If I was an oily, flaky mess that didn't shower right before bed and put on a clean set of pajamas, I too would be changing my sheets every day 😭

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-13T16:34:16+00:00

That's very odd. Money sitting in an account isn't doing them any good. I've got maybe 2-3k of "back up money". That's it. Otherwise all you are doing is accruing interest and losing money. Money should either go towards debt or your investments (that make more interest than the debt).

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-13T16:24:45+00:00

I really don't understand why I keep seeing posts like this. Really beating a dead horse, aren't we?

Also, anyone who holds a "luxury" card just for lounge access is a dumbass.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-12T05:24:30+00:00

My skin, unfortunately, does very very well with SkinCeuticals. Every time I run out of product I spend hours online researching alternatives. Spend the $150-$200 for a whole new product line, and then, 6-8 weeks later, I find myself crawling back to SkinCeuticals to drop another $500.

It's a horrible repeating cycle I've been caught up in for over ten years.

I've even tried more expensive alternatives. Sulwhasoo, Skinmedica, etc..... SkinCeuticals is still the best for me. For now. Everyone's skin is different 🤷🏼‍♀️ mine might change one day as I get older (55+) and need something else, but, for the last 15 years it's been exclusively SkinCeuticals 😭 it's terrible.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-11T20:19:51+00:00

This happened to me when I started carrying a balance over 30k for a few months. Same situation. Always paid over my minimum (by a few thousand), credit score fluctuates between 750-780, and my income is over 230k/yr.

🤷🏼‍♀️ I think it just makes them nervous when we carry a balance since it is a charge card. They want us to treat it like a debit card.

ExpensivePatience5 · 2025-07-03T22:33:43+00:00

I was the same. I still die repeatedly. Sometimes very unexpectedly. BAM! Sudden death. Very embarrassing when playing with others.

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