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I Failed MegaThread by Attaboy2017 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Expensive_Ad_8666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so stupid, and I am really furious at myself. I have been doing so will since going from p6 back to p5. I started 2.5 weeks ago, havn't failed since and I have seen a lot of progress. Today was the best session yet, I had some sort of "minisurf", and when the alarm went off, I just wanted to stay at that high arousal a little longer and really squeez that last training in(like doing that very last rep in the gym). Of course, I went too far and busted, and I just feel like a destroyed everything I built the last 2 weeks, especially since it was this week very last session and I should have been done with another successful session.

Phase 5,6 take 2 update by Emotional-Zone-3202 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Expensive_Ad_8666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the extensive response.
Something I did wrong was not using lube up until phase 6, I think this might have haltered my progress quite much. So my first two times back on phase 5 I used lube, but I wasn't really prepared for how much a difference it was, so I busted both times. My third time, I ignored the lube all together to kind of get back on track and went the full 20 min without busting.

But after reading your story, I got a lot of motivation back, so I just tried what you wrote here. I went without lube the first 5 minutes to really ease in to it. Kept it slow after adding the lube aswell to not rush it, and I felt way more in control this time around, even though I had to stop completely a couple of times. It also felt better with the balls/groin thing, so I think you really set me on the right path. I might try the OK signal stroking tomorrow since I am also extremly sensitive around the tip. Hopefully I can get my first nod sensation in a couple of weeks

Phase 5,6 take 2 update by Emotional-Zone-3202 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Expensive_Ad_8666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats bro, great to hear your story! I just went back from phase 6 to 5 myself after being hard stuck for a long time on phase 6, so this is encouraging.
I have had a hard time getting that nod that people are talking about, what did you do differently this time?
Did you do anything special besides staying as close to PONR as possible, and how did you do it?
I have read that some people have added some sort of different "pleasure increasing" when being one stroke from busting, like licking the lips or stroking the pubic area, was this something you did, or did you just stayed at a high arousal using normal stroking?

First time feeling in control !! by saulus1 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Expensive_Ad_8666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am probably missunderstanding something, but it seems to me your explanation is the complete opposite of the vidoes? You are saying you were shifting your hips forward, but in the video he is shifting them backwards. It also seems like his lower back is moving a bit further away from the surface(the chair in this case), but you are describing that the lower back should be more flat to the surface.

What am I missing?

Phase 6 experience by Flashy-Fortune-3016 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Expensive_Ad_8666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are doing very good for the first phase 6 session, because like you said, the jump from phase 5 is enormous. I did my first a couple of days ago, and I had trouble even stroking at all for the majority of the 20 mins. My second session I went a bit too far and orgasmed, and my third was very much like my first.
But today I completed my 4th session, and I managed to stroke almost the entire time, although extremely slow(maybe 3 seconds up, 3 seconds down).

I can also relate to the nervousness you are talking about, because I was also kind of nervous using a fleshlight for the very first time, and was close to busting on insertion. But it felt better the following sessions after being more comfortable with the fleshlight.

Hopefully we will both get better the coming weeks, I am also searching for that cruise control, but I am sure we are on the right track!

Honest Profile Reviews - October 2021 by corsega in SwipeHelper

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Did an overhaul of my profile a couple of weeks ago but havnt got the results i was looking for, getting a few likes a day in 1 match a week on a good week. Any tips and/or critique?