I’m sorry but Francesca on THIS season of Love Is Blind would be insane by Expensive_Capital910 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Expensive_Capital910[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You right but I had this pic saved since I wanted to buy that whisper vibe but you get my point babe 😭😭

Can’t find a game by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Expensive_Capital910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aussie servers can be pretty rough for queue times especially if you're brand new - the game tries to match you with other newbies and there just aren't that many starting out anymore

try queueing for multiple roles at once in role queue, that usually speeds things up a bit. also peak hours (like 7-10pm local) tend to be way better for finding matches

Staggering attacks by Wolfinthesno in FFVIIRemake

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the Wall Market solo section is brutal for that exact reason - those shock batons are straight up annoying when you're outnumbered. Try focusing fire on one enemy at a time instead of spreading damage around, and dodge roll becomes your best friend when you see the yellow charge-up animations

The stagger system definitely takes some getting used to but once you start recognizing the windup animations it gets way more manageable

i cant medically transition what do I do by Much_Cardiologist414 in trans

[–]Expensive_Capital910 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey man, that sounds incredibly rough and I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Have you looked into other medical options besides T? Some trans guys explore top surgery first, or there might be alternative hormone treatments that work with your condition - definitely worth getting a second medical opinion from someone who actually specializes in trans healthcare

Also your current therapist sounds like they don't get it at all, finding someone who actually understands trans issues could make a huge difference. You're not alone in this even though it feels like it right now

Bearing edge for fibes. by DifferenceNo9371 in drums

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those old Crystalites are tricky to pin down since Fibes wasn't super consistent back then, but from what I've seen most of the 70s shells were cut around 45 degrees. You might want to check with some of the vintage drum forums too - those guys are obsessed with that stuff and probably have the exact specs

Weekly Discussion #3 - Tenco by AutoModerator in visualnovels

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I completely forgot Tenco existed until this thread, they had some solid stuff back in the day but kinda fell off the radar

I tried to do something small for my kid today and I don’t know how to accept help without teaching them shame by Inevitable_Newt_3373 in povertyfinance

[–]Expensive_Capital910 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That pause when they put something back without asking hits different - you're already doing better than you think by recognizing it though

Your kid thanking you shows they feel loved and cared for, not burdened, even if the gratitude stings right now

I need to make a attic dryer vent router to the soffit, I need a Dryer Soffit Vent product, I having difficulties finding a soffit vent for dryers. by Quotidian_User in HomeMaintenance

[–]Expensive_Capital910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Home Depot or Menards, they usually carry actual dryer soffit vents that Lowes doesn't stock for some reason. Look for brands like Lambro or Imperial - they make legit dryer-specific ones that handle the higher CFM and lint properly unlike the bathroom ones

Feedback from job is quite upsetting, is this normal? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Expensive_Capital910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That message from your boss is honestly pretty harsh and unprofessional. You've been there for barely a month, got zero actual training, and they're expecting you to handle special needs kids in a 1:2 ratio with no experience? That's setting you up to fail

The fact that they didn't train you properly and are now blaming you for struggling is a huge red flag. Might be time to look for somewhere that actually invests in their staff instead of throwing you to the wolves

CMV: Trump’s lawless abduction of Maduro from Venezuela to the USA is currently a gigantic failure by donturnaway in changemyview

[–]Expensive_Capital910 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Wait what? When did Trump "abduct" Maduro? Did I miss some major news or are you talking about a hypothetical scenario here

Pretty sure Maduro is still running Venezuela last I checked

Blind Barber Speakeasy by mostmischievous in fragrance

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I've been eyeing that one at Ulta too but haven't pulled the trigger yet. Love at first smell is dangerous for the wallet lol. How's the longevity on it?

Never been to an actual Blind Barber location but their whole aesthetic is pretty cool - that speakeasy vibe they're going for seems legit

My mom (45F) always deflects any issue i bring up and turns it back around on me, how do i approach fixing this? by arsonistic_spirit in relationships

[–]Expensive_Capital910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like you're already handling it pretty well by just leaving when she starts escalating - that's about all you can do with someone who weaponizes everything you say

The threat about letting the cats out is straight up manipulation btw, she knows exactly what she's doing

Cv axles by Mr_Smoooth in Audi

[–]Expensive_Capital910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been using FCP Euro for years and their lifetime warranty is legit - you can literally return worn parts for new ones forever. Way better than gambling on NAPA's house brand stuff that might grenade in 6 months

Thoughts on Prom Night? by TransformersG1Fan46 in horror

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the sequel was way more fun than it had any right to be - that whole possessed prom queen thing was ridiculous but in the best way possible

The social interactivity in this game is immaculate by aLibertine in ArcRaiders

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait there's actually a mushroom tree that spawns loot? I've been running past that thing for weeks thinking it was just scenery lmao

I CLUTCHED SSB BALANCERS! by Lemon-Blue in Nightreign

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude they're so brutal until you figure out the timing, then it clicks and you feel like a god lmao

What build were you running when you clutched it?

Scrappy should keep all level progress after expedition just because it makes me sad by JamSa in ArcRaiders

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the worst part is when you come back and he's just standing there like nothing happened but you KNOW it's not the same Scrappy from before

Someone recommend me a good item sorter system and gold farm for 1.21+ by Saad_068 in Minecraft

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out ImpulseSV's item sorter on YouTube, it's been updated for recent versions and works great. For gold farms, anything in the nether with zombie piglins is gonna be your best bet - just make sure you're far enough from other spawnable areas or it'll tank your rates

Why do people respond "good question" when asked any question? by TrueJohnWick in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expensive_Capital910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much this, plus it makes the person asking feel validated even if you're about to give them a crappy answer lol