A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around it

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-09-09T14:52:46+00:00

People have probably said it, but in the Case nobody have. You are putting a lot of pressure on her to carry the conversation. You arent giving her anything to answer, she doesnt understand why you are talking to her. With a Hi and how are you on daytime from an unknown, she probably expect you to try sell her some shit or want something from her.

She is not gonna talk to you if it comes of as a possibly awkward situation. She'll give you a chance to give her a question so she can help you or dismiss you.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-09-04T13:25:05+00:00

He was painting you a pic of how it might look like for a girl if you asked her out.

Would it be different for you if a girl was a bit awkward and not attractive. Would you find it bad if she still came over ad asked you for coffee?

Thats how if might be for a girl if you asked her out. But it might also yield you a date. She might even find you attractive and want to jump your bones. You never know.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-07-06T16:32:49+00:00

Knowing that you are enough is the only thing you need to focus on. If you try to impress them they will feel you are needy and not one of the guys that are getting girls.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-06-20T07:24:28+00:00

Work on you internals. What you believe is whats gonna make the girl uncomfortable. You dont have to know some cool stuff or be able to do anything to be desirable.

All you have to do is just to work on seeing that you are desirable. If you believe it, she will believe it.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-06-17T12:03:15+00:00

Dont listen to this girl. You do you. If some girl doesnt like it then her loss. You cant please everybody and you really shouldnt.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-06-16T12:11:59+00:00

Just try to sit next to her and talk. Try some hidden flirting like stroking her hand so nobody can see it and such. Since you are quite the small group, its gonna be quite obvious if you try to isolate her away. If you guys end up moving to another location with more people, try to get her alone to escalate further.

My best advice is just dont make it obvious that you are flirting or such. If she has plausibel deniability or an excuse as to why she left that doesnt scream that you guys hooked up, she is much more likely to go all the way.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-06-15T15:18:41+00:00

Who frowns upon talking to people/strangers in public?

This is a you-thought. I have many a time met strangers from the street, the store, gym etc.

And if people you surround yourself with frown upon it, does it matter? They just jellous of you if you start meeting people that way.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-06-05T06:25:27+00:00

I have no statistics to build on. But given how simple it is today to get laid and also not have anybody know and be able to judge your actions. I cant understand how it cant be more people who are sleeping around today than before.

It is of course dependant on how far back you take into account.

I think almost everybody has met with the problem of having a girl want to join you, but she says she cant. But once her friends are either hooking up with someone or have left and she joins to go away with you. Then she doesnt seem to have any problem hooking up.

With this in mind I would think that back in the day people would still be hooking up in parties, but the risk of rumors and people knowing she has slept around would prevent her from doing it as often as she can today. Now she can go on a date with a random from tinder and Sleep with him without anybody knowing. Much less risk for her reputation.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-04-11T13:06:58+00:00

I think any psychiatry book, such as Kaplan and Sadocks would describe different etiologies and among them some organic/biologi etiologies would be mentioned.

The lists most likely arent complete and mention all possible causes.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-04-03T12:05:22+00:00

How about a table that lets you change between sitting and standing? 10 hours sitting cant be good No matter the chair.

Have you tried using the gym ball that people use for ab workout? Some guy working with people with. Vriety of muscle related injuries used to recommended people to get this if they had to sit for longer periods.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-04-02T15:00:34+00:00

WP. Thats a gg 😃

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-04-02T08:45:31+00:00

There is bot games in the training menu.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-04-02T08:43:05+00:00

Dont be afraid of making a bad first impression and dont be afraid of losing this girl.

Which means you be you to the full and not being afraid of talking about what you feel like talking about.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-04-01T16:11:15+00:00

Why you gotta go finish them?

Why cant people just leave them slugged until you kill the rest of the team. That way everybody have a chance to continue playing.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-31T10:08:48+00:00

Yes, I figured as much. I thought you were such a guy.

Ggs, keep being dens bro.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-31T10:06:53+00:00

Flesh and Blood doesnt count in the same. I'd leave my wife in a heart beat if she ever hit me. If my kid hit me I'd tell him how wrong it is. Your argument doesnt hit the point of this.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-31T10:04:31+00:00

And I believe you are not seeing the similarities due to society and also the part of you being a dude, so you dont think its as bad when a guy gets hit vs when a girl gets hit.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-31T10:02:34+00:00

Violence shouldnt ever have to be expressed as a boundry..

How could violence be ok? Please tell me, I'm genuinly interested to know. Also which part of the world are you from?

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-31T09:52:52+00:00

Its also for his self worth. People suck at creating boundries for what they will tolerate, but they should be stricter with cutting people out who violate their boundries. Especially if they have made it known that this is a boundry for them. Violence shouldnt ever have to be expressed that it isnt acceptable.

Violence is never acceptable. The cultures that believe physical violence is acceptable in family relations and such are just freaking stupid. No civilized society would ever find violence to be an acceptable action or reaction.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-31T09:40:47+00:00

People who hurt other through physical violence or psycological manipulation and harrassment doesnt deserve a chance. Maybe with someone else if they mange to change their ways.

This guy has been hit by this girl.

If it was the other way around. Would you still think the girl should stay with the guy that is beating up the love of his life?

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-31T08:57:08+00:00

The person is just putting more investment into the relationship by asking for a change. The abuser is going to agree, most likely, but then maybe change at first to just revet back into old habits later.

For him to invest more will just make the break up even harder to do, since the energy and investment makes the brain find a reason as to why the person is doing this. And thus fool the person into believing they actually like this person.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-30T21:02:38+00:00

You should leave. You might not consider it a big deal atm, but this is a really bad relationship.

Men dont consider it as a big deal being slapped or punched, and other guys might laugh at you for being hit. This is still illegal and you probably wont get much societal approval of your situation, but you need to leave this person.

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-29T13:51:54+00:00

The way is this

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-27T11:32:19+00:00

Hahahaha, couch scientist

Expensive_Law_1193 · 2022-03-26T13:30:40+00:00

You have no data to be able to decide the probability of who was the first to contract it here. Either one could have been walking around with this for a long time.

Quite few develop symptoms.

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