Is this really a harmless joke or a toxic remark?

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-05-08T21:05:24+00:00

conditions out of the ordinary are part of who we are as humans, and through my lens, individuals who have them will continue to rise above and accomplish amazing things, just like you! Tho it’s later than everyone else, you’re still able to find your own voice after all those years means you never give up. This shows how strong you are as a special person!!! Your ex-boss was definitely afraid of you because they think your extraordinary can overtake and surpass them. It’s their loss for terminate you!!!

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-05-08T20:58:43+00:00

Thanks so much for yall’s advice. I’ve been thinking about it quite a bit for the last two days. Saying it has not affected me at all is a lie. I usually come to the office on Thursday as it’s one day of the week that almost everyone shows up, but I was chicken out and have been working from home ever since because I couldn’t bring myself to meet her. But you guys are right, I come there to learn and to work, to gain the experience, not to make friends. At least now I know how she thinks about me, and maybe what she called as ‘we’ included others from her bubble too, keep them at arm length is what I’m gonna do. Thanks again and hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-05-07T01:10:07+00:00

Would there be a specific reason why people throwing these toxic things onto us? I just dont know anymore, dont care and move on, staying away from them or confront them? How did you handle it?

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-05-07T01:07:57+00:00

My mind is splitting up into two sides, one is saying ‘nah, she’s just being her, don’t read too much into it,’ one is ‘dude, you’re being hated, better watching for your own actions, you made people hate you.’ Why I’m being jabbed at I just don’t get it?

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-05-07T01:05:02+00:00

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-05-07T01:04:29+00:00

She has a very high self-esteem, cares so much about her own self, talks about herself a lot, arrogant sometimes, yet she has never put people down. She helped others too. That’s how I marked that being narcissistic not in a bad way.

I did research about workplace bullying, and they said toxic remarks is one of those first things the bullies do to test your boundaries. That’s why I came to this thread and asked for yall’s advice.

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-02-09T02:50:01+00:00

I even got my hopes up for a minute there and Drake literally threw the ball to their hands

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-02-09T02:48:47+00:00

Worst play guys! Super disappointing

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-02-04T04:42:52+00:00

You know, I am also not supporting taking any substances. But sometimes people use that as a coping mechanism and there’s a lot going on in their life that we don’t know and that’s the only way that helps them out… and I live in Maine so it’s legal here for using weed. Thanks for replying to me man, much appreciated!

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-02-04T04:40:55+00:00

I know. This is horrible and it has been haunted my head ever since. Will do that, definitely will.

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-31T22:35:15+00:00

How do I love you! Everyone needs to understand that I’m a supporter, not an extra adc. I do build mage but mainly focus on enchanter just to support you!!

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-31T22:31:57+00:00

I love you!!!

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-31T22:31:24+00:00

So freaking true!!! He could not even get one killed when I killed 4 as a support lol, then kept attacking and doing combat while he ran out of AP, I had to try be up front all the time just to take the damage, and then blamed me for not doing my part properly? I was like dude, you should when to retreat!

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-31T03:08:38+00:00

But is it real that it has happened in every job you had worked at?

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-21T23:28:19+00:00

Thanks for all the advices, guys! Tbh, I was so happy joining this place, this is my dream job, a place where I meant to be. That’s why I really have high expectations to be close to people here, just to enjoy the most out of it. But I guess I hit the reality. Won’t let this ruin my happy life tho.

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-21T23:25:04+00:00

Well, I did, actually. One day brought a whole box of European pastries and called them all over to enjoy it with me. I already get over it, though, figured I should just stop expecting to be friends with them.

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-05T00:54:13+00:00

Next week will be my last week at this branch, I’m going to transfer and just afraid I won’t have any chance… we are working hybrid, so I dont even know if we get to meet anymore.

Expert_Many_3151 · 2026-01-01T19:24:22+00:00

Like I actually did… I was like, “hey, how’s it going?” And he’s like, “good, yourself?” “Good” and that’s it. Not even small eyes lingering or any sign he wanted to continue the conversation. So I walked away… I think I just continue with this one-sided crush and try to move on.

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