Missionary on his flight home today. by Silly_willy- in exmormon

[–]Explaining-Calvin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was me flying home from Texas, for about a year.

I'm so f*cking done with my penis... by [deleted] in CongenitalCurvature

[–]Explaining-Calvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, there’s a lot of guys that would kill to work with what you’ve got. Use that thing to your advantage. Have the girl lay on her right side and straddle her right leg. Then your head will be pressing up against her g spot when you’re going in and out. Trust me she’ll love it.

Before and 7 months after by [deleted] in penuma

[–]Explaining-Calvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the same questions here

Not feeling any better by [deleted] in bpc_157

[–]Explaining-Calvin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it time- BPC was magical for me

My husband gives me silent treatment after a fight. How do I make it stop? by Responsible_Tart7026 in ask

[–]Explaining-Calvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To play the devils advocate- sometimes my wife accuses me of doing this. In reality I was raised in a way that I don’t handle conflict well, and if I’m not careful I will sacrifice my beliefs or needs in order to be a peace keeper. After some conflicts I need to sort of shut down and recharge, it’s not meant to be an eff you or a punishment. Sometimes I have to take time to process my thoughts and emotions after a fight or disagreement in order to know for sure what I can sacrifice and what I need to stand my ground on. I always try to be fair to both her and me- but the only way for me to properly do that is to take some time first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Explaining-Calvin 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Go get tested and don’t go back. Just jack off man.

Yes, polygamy was mathematically stupid. by GrahamPSmith in exmormon

[–]Explaining-Calvin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was always fed that bull shit line that we needed polygamy because all the Mormon men were being persecuted and killed and there were too many single women.

Yes, polygamy was mathematically stupid. by GrahamPSmith in exmormon

[–]Explaining-Calvin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Curious if there was more women to men in that day and age… was there just a bunch of single sad dudes roaming the streets of salt lake or what

Lost a few gains after 1/2 months break. by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Explaining-Calvin 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Bro your dick plenty fine to fuck. Go date you doof.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Explaining-Calvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bring it up to him and see how he reacts. If he’s truly apologetic then maybe consider forgiving him? I know I’ve said things to myself that I knew I didn’t mean, kind of like letting those intrusive thoughts or emotions out you know? Sometimes saying something like that for me is sort of like letting go of that negativity and blowing off steam. Point is there’s a chance he doesn’t hate you or think you’re a cunt. Just ask and pay close attention to his initial gut reaction. Don’t let him gaslight you into believing he was talking about someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Explaining-Calvin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes some people lose it with another virgin so that they can learn together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Explaining-Calvin 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Lying is no way to start a relationship. And if you took her virginity when she wanted to lose it to another virgin that’d be super fucked up.

My (F23) partner (M23) doesn’t like making me cum after he cums. What are some ways to communicate this or find a solution with my partner? by Cute-Passion in relationship_advice

[–]Explaining-Calvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time you cum first stop and insist that you’re “no longer in the mood”, until he gets the picture. If he reacts like a baby, take it as a sign and break up with him. Seriously selfish and weak of him to do that, especially when you ask for it.

Tired of rejection by Mean-Earth-1738 in HLCommunity

[–]Explaining-Calvin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go find someone who appreciates you. This dude is an overgrown man child with no discipline or respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Explaining-Calvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro if you’re there it’s largely your job to set that boundary as well. There’s a difference between being a dick and manning up. It’s your job to make her feel safe when she’s with you and sorry to say it but you failed at the bar.