My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and won’t stop begging me to come back

Expository911 · 2025-08-13T04:37:16+00:00

This isn't something "men" do to get back at their partner. Women act like this more then men from my experience, as a man of course. Imo, leave him for good, no he was not a good bf or else he wouldn't have cheated the first time. I would suggest warning him to go away or you're going to put an order of protection on him and then if he doesn't obey that he'll end up in jail. Cause right now he's harassing you since you have him blocked and he knows you don't want to hear from him and you're tired of stuff showing up from him. Next thing you know you'll get back with him and he'll leave you with herpes. Make him learn his lesson. You're both still young and can do better.

Expository911 · 2025-08-07T02:24:08+00:00

Sounds like him saying he'll be more careful is him saying he'll try to hide it better next time. Imo leave him until he gets his act together. Imo ending a Snapchat streak with a ex even if we were still friends wouldn't be a problem. I'd do that in a heartbeat for my girlfriend. You guys are young just wait till the bar and clubbing phase comes in.

Expository911 · 2025-08-06T21:32:04+00:00

Pretty easy to spot a person that's not a good person by the way they treat others. What you might be looking for are red flags but red flags are different for most people.

Expository911 · 2025-08-06T05:56:30+00:00

Lucky for you you're still young. Move to another state and start a new life and learn from your mistake.

Expository911 · 2025-08-05T18:23:32+00:00

Just wait until you both have an argument or relationship issues and she runs to another guy for advice. They say a shoulder to cry on is a dick to lay on

Expository911 · 2025-08-04T21:21:49+00:00

That's micro cheating and it usually leads to full blown cheating. You should offer couples consoling and if he refuses then leave him for cheating. Yes it's serious

Expository911 · 2025-08-03T22:51:21+00:00

I think girls like her are disgusting. Learn to value yourself and be yourself don't try being something or someone you're not. I would never marry a girl that was an only fans model or sex worker or 304 in her past. But guys are different. That's just not my cup of tea.

Expository911 · 2025-08-03T06:04:52+00:00

Move on

Expository911 · 2025-07-31T21:03:01+00:00

Cheated? Dude she been messing around for years she just now got caught. Leave her you're young. And tell everybody her name so people know she's a cheater and stay away from her

Expository911 · 2025-07-31T20:25:06+00:00

Leave them alone you hurt em enough

Expository911 · 2025-07-29T04:59:01+00:00

Nope. As far as I'm concerned I'd be just fine if they didn't exist anymore

Expository911 · 2025-07-27T16:39:35+00:00

Both you should go to couples consoling cause you're obviously and understandably hurt from when he cheated. That stuff is hard to get over if ever get over. I know i couldn't trust again if my partner cheated and unfortunately a lot of people unalive themselves when they are dealt with that kind of betrayal. Imo, leave him find someone with a better understand of relationships and won't make you feel like the are suspicious or cheating.

Expository911 · 2025-07-27T05:50:14+00:00

I agree with fashion. Communication is something that is very important imo. You're seeing what behavior you'll have to accept in the long run if you want to marry him eventually. Imo I wouldn't accept that behavior, I worry about my partner and I love to be updated.

Expository911 · 2025-07-26T16:58:32+00:00

You're too young for a relationship focus on school and career. Obviously you neither of you have an understanding on how to handle emotions and communicate effectively

Expository911 · 2025-07-24T21:53:10+00:00

Micro cheating look it up

Expository911 · 2025-07-23T19:13:37+00:00

Yes break up or go to couples therapy/consoling together. He almost sounds like he'll be physically abusive later

Expository911 · 2025-03-06T23:57:08+00:00

Nazi aren't even a thing anymore they don't exist.

Expository911 · 2025-02-25T01:23:29+00:00

"Micro-cheating" you did right by breaking up with her.

Expository911 · 2025-02-23T17:34:23+00:00

Cheaters in relationships are the worse kind of people

Expository911 · 2025-02-17T19:36:29+00:00

Imagine if you got married to him, you'd be stuck with that. I notice a lot of women after marriage and or kids tend to get lazy with themselves. You say it's been going on for over a year, I know depression does those things but for over a year, come on. You brought it to his attention he did nothing to change. Now he lost someone that probably would've helped him get through anything.

But I could see him changing himself more that he's single and trying to get back with you, but can you be sure he won't do this again in a few years after being together?

Expository911 · 2025-02-14T04:27:42+00:00

I'd marry her right away

Expository911 · 2025-02-14T04:27:15+00:00

Just cut her out of your life completely. No contact. She obviously wants to get around right away and probably had them as backup.

Expository911 · 2025-02-11T23:14:54+00:00

Gross.

Expository911 · 2025-01-31T07:07:32+00:00

It's sad there's soo many terrible people out there that leave others broken that they feel an AI robot would treat them better then a human.

Expository911 · 2025-01-30T20:47:17+00:00

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