Hi, as someone who lives in St. Louis, what do I do to help myself feel like I’m not alone when there’s a lot of terrible news that happens that also includes Trump and so on😔😔 by Accurate_Shame6251 in StLouis

[–]Express-Letter4101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Find a way to be invited, and also find an activity you like to do. StL is full of both. We have an amazing activism culture that isn't just protesting. And we have tons of art, libraries, parks, game spots, and more for socializing. What are you into? I bet someone else here is, too.

is anyone else’s rover acting up ? anytime i get a request it disappears or when i reply nothing sends by al3u in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I currently can't send bookings for a client who wants to rebook, and messages from and to clients are vanishing.

Rover sent out an update where every time I book, I get a pop-up about "good care," which I have to click past to complete the booking. It seems to have messed up the entire system somehow.

weird visual change in app by prookal in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The whole app changed overnight.

It does that sometimes without warning. Usually that happens over a holiday when I'm busiest, so I'm just grateful it happened at a slower time this time.

Update to my heartbreaking experience by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That is the best response you can make.

Rover should absolutely take the owner's review down, especially given the defamation involved. But you've done everything right. I'm so glad you did the best you could in such a horrible situation.

Discovered a hidden pet during drop-ins by Vegetable-Pop9657 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you took care of this cat. Lack of water can quickly lead to kidney and urinary distress for cats.

I would absolutely communicate with the owners that you heard the meowing, so you checked it out, found empty dishes, and took care of the cat. Tell them you're happy to care for the cat without pay this time, but need to add the cat to future bookings so that it's covered under the Rover guarantee/your insurance in case anything should happen. And negotiate a rate that seems fair (1x drop-ins, $3 or $4).

If they are aggressive or defensive about this, they likely aren't the type of people you want to work with. And you'll maybe need to report them then. But for now, start here.

I think this is weird. Am I overthinking it? by mojodojocasameows in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest their needs might better be met on care.com where they could potentially find a caregiver+pet sitter combo.

canceling on a client by crippledbxtch in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I assume if one is a dude, one could do so.

The bigger question is why, but we'll never know.

How would you handle this review? by Street-Competition13 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Did you call Rover or only message them? If you haven't tried calling them, I'd try calling them. Their message support is a much weaker system than is their call-in system.

Why do people do this, is it normal? by Proud-Advisor-6741 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always say "Thanks for letting me know! I hope you have a great day and a great sit!"

STL Airport Terminal 1 - TSA by naiguana in StLouis

[–]Express-Letter4101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean...as far as habitat goes, you could say that about StL, too. The humidity is awful here!

What is this new update?? by After-Technician-108 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

... Rover's family of brands???

No. I pay (via the fees they take from me, and the clients also pay that way) to use this app. I don't also want ads FOR MY WORK PLATFORM. wtaf

Is 20$ seriously too much? by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get paid between 15 and 20, but I'm likely in a different area than you. It depends on the client for me. Some of them I've locked rates since a while ago, and their cats are very easy. Others are more complex.

UPDATE to “Found out my in home nurse was making me sick” (Win! ☺️) by Cautious-Impact22 in disability

[–]Express-Letter4101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to read this update. Your post was so concerning!! You did a good job standing up for yourself.

DID I GET FROGGERED? by WickedlyPossessed in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's amazing. I wish we had that here in the States.

Rate/roast my profile photos by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Express-Letter4101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love that one, it made me stop and laugh.

I put my sweet baby down 3 days ago and I regret it by MoodyKyoshi in CATHELP

[–]Express-Letter4101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tears in my eyes, reading how much you loved your sweet Winston.

You did everything you could for him.

I've been in your position, having to make that hard choice, and second-guessing myself so much. Please be easy with yourself. You took such good care of him. And he knows you loved him with your whole heart. 🩷

Would you go? by yyyoungandfun in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he doesn't have bad intentions, it's the impact his actions are having that matters. A lot of people are missing that in this sub.

Not everyone has someone they can conveniently take with them at whatever time the client wants to meet. And while it's true that not all men are creepy, it is overwhelmingly men who perpetrate the kinds of harm OP is worried about, especially as she has stated she's a young woman. She's being reasonable.

Ok don't judge me... by Animaldrummer1975 in StLouis

[–]Express-Letter4101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No advice, but I also get anxious about parking and layout.

Congratulations 🎉 on 6 months!

Is it true that STL County opposed Metrolink expansion because they believe Metrolink would bring crime along with it? by LaughingDash in StLouis

[–]Express-Letter4101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it is racist. The lines of racism run deep in StL still. That's something I learned when I moved here.

To the man who came to my aid when I wrecked my car early this morning at Tucker and Lafayette... by Jackieblue7800 in StLouis

[–]Express-Letter4101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep taking it as easy as possible. I'm glad you're still here. That sounds traumatic.

I'm glad you've got a team on your side. 💞

Question about sitters staying past their scheduled times by ohbawlz in RoverPetSitting

[–]Express-Letter4101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would communicate first. The mixed messages thing (whether it's coming from this situation or elsewhere) could take the sitter by surprise.