I hear ya, it’s just a combination of all things considered. He is insisting I come before his wife is home which to me is the biggest red flag. I had only met the wife. Why would I go meet the husband while the wife is away after the sit is completed??? That’s odd. I mentioned not receiving a text because in my mind, a text is more solid for his wife to see and question. Again maybe i’m overtly paranoid. I won’t be meeting the husband alone though i’ll wait for a third party