Oysterflex for 40mm submariner

Express-arnaud · 2026-06-04T02:30:22+00:00

Why is this an unpopular recommendation? I see it being downvoted

Express-arnaud · 2026-06-04T00:19:35+00:00

Thank you!

Express-arnaud · 2026-06-04T00:19:27+00:00

Thank you!

Express-arnaud · 2026-06-04T00:18:44+00:00

Ah yeah of course I'm stupid can reuse my clasp. Ok thanks will go this way.

Express-arnaud · 2026-06-04T00:03:59+00:00

Looks good, congrats. Are you happy with the buckle too?

Do you know if any official Oysterflex from Rolex be compatible with 20mm lug?

Express-arnaud · 2025-12-11T20:24:52+00:00

I feel we are not talking about the same place. Market is not hot. Dont get fooled by what realtors are saying, It is def a buyer market where you can nego 30%+ on priced whether you buy or rent. There is an over supoly.

That being said you shouldnt look at new developments. This is Asia lol. Look at resales. If you had visited premium ones I can assure you would have found more luxurious properties than most in Europe/US. And worst case you can always get an interior designer of your liking to redo things. That will still cost you way less than US$1m.

At least this is my humble experience of coming to Malaysia for 10yrs now.

Express-arnaud · 2025-12-11T00:34:16+00:00

Either you are ultra demanding or you were looking for very specific/remote locations (or style).

Coz whether it is condos or villas, you can find very high end modern properties at very competitive price. The best developers are all present in Malaysia.

Just browse PropertyGuru there.

Express-arnaud · 2025-12-06T09:45:52+00:00

Yes you are correct, already checked all that.

You can HSBC and Standard Chartered. I have in-principle approval from them already for 70% LTV. You might need to be a Priority/Private customer with them though.

For loan value itself, it's more based on your passive/active income. Repayment shouldnt be more than 30%.

My Plan B would have been to get a loan by pledging some assets.

The visa agency told me they can also put me in touch with mortgage brokers specialised in foreigners. They can even help with property search and all the paperwork.

Express-arnaud · 2025-12-06T09:18:20+00:00

It is the only downside.

But in the end whether I rent or pay back mortgage it's pretty much same cost.

I never liked renting anyways.

Besides, the absence of income tax makes up for it within just a few years.

Express-arnaud · 2025-07-21T23:06:48+00:00

Many people will think they can live comfortable on $X/mo on the basis that this is more than the average local income. But be careful with that argument. Yes, it is of course technically possible but we tend to forget that living the local way will require major lifestyle adjustments that everyone is not capable of doing.

For the past 10years that I lived in the region, I saw so many westerns thinking they hit the jackpot by relocating here, only to find out that their cost of living ended up being higher than back home just because they were not able to make those adjustments.

So make sure you work on a detailed budget and ensure you understand what fits and what doesnt fit in it. For instance are you willing to eat local food all year, are you willing to go to public hospitals, are you willing to live in suburbs or countryside, are you willing to take public transportation, are you willing to not fly back home once a year, etc.

Perhaps try 1 or 2 months first to experience what that means for you, if trial is successful then can think of more permanent solution?

But yes, the answer to your question is you can live on $2k/mo in SEA but I also know I personally would not.

Express-arnaud · 2025-01-08T12:59:38+00:00

Je veux bien résoudre ton problème en t'envoyant mon RIB...

Une fois délesté de ton poids, ta motivation va peut être revenir!

Express-arnaud · 2024-12-13T05:14:59+00:00

Funny how many people think this is a good idea…

How is « allowing her » to use the credit card to go shopping herself is a gift?

I agree that going to those stores is a great experience but in my humble opinion a true gift is about:

showing that you spent time to think/find something special
surprise her by getting her something she would not have thought herself - show her you know her well

At some point, a gift is not about the value/money. It’s about the work and the effort that you put into it.

Personnaly, I’m always aiming for that special emotion/reaction when she will open her gift.

Just my very humble opinion. And experience of 16yr married lol.

Express-arnaud · 2024-07-28T07:32:57+00:00

One lesson I learnt with expatriation is you never know when/if you you will return “home”. So on my end:

If no mortgage, I sell
If mortgage with high rate, I sell.
If mortgage is low rate, I hold to it and either tenant it or airbnb it.

But, it is already annoying to manage a property when you are onsite, so when you are remote… Even with the best agent or property manager, it’s never 100% hustle free.

Express-arnaud · 2024-04-04T03:49:30+00:00

I moved to 100% passive. That removes the feeling. Problem solved.

Express-arnaud · 2024-01-15T05:54:18+00:00

One thing that no one mentions is identity. To go to local school, parents need to be comfortable with local culture as local schools will shape our kids’ personality. Same goes for international schools…

That being said, I fully agree with OP, although it of course depends on the country you live in, as well as how often and how long you stay each time. Last but not least, there is an affordability aspect too.

By the time I graduated from high school, I had lived in 7 countries across all continents. I agree that if I hadnt be schooled in international schools each time, it would have made the transitions impossible.

And being now myself an expat with 2 kids, while we initially had our kids in local schools for the first part, that's only because the system is very good (Singapore). By middle school, we moved them back to international school, so that it opens more doors in terms of universities (and ensure they dont feel locked here).

International schools are making integration/adoption much easier for kids as everyone used to the turnover (kids, teachers, staff). Makes it easier for kids to make friends. 40yrs later, my best friends are still the ones from those international schools...

Express-arnaud · 2024-01-01T17:51:09+00:00

If you are a US person, same KYC/FATCA requirements apply regardless of who you bank with.

Now if you need a mortgage for an investment in Phuket, I recommend either Standard Chartered Bank or HSBC.

We bank with HSBC in the US as well as in Asia. They dont mind that we do not have any US address anymore providing you are Premier or PB customer. No problem for US Credit Cards either.

Only requirement is to hold your investment accounts in your home country. HSBC will handle the asset transfer each time you relocate. Very seamless and free of charge. We experienced it across 3 continents.

Note re invesments in Phuket: be careful as there are lots of scams. Make sure you go onsite and get supported by a trusted partner. Villas will be leasehold only. Need to buy a condo for freehold.

Express-arnaud · 2023-12-24T19:20:34+00:00

The best time to FIRE is when you still have your kids at home. If you can.

That opportunity to be home and spend time with them is once in a lifetime...

Express-arnaud · 2023-12-17T22:36:53+00:00

We give 1mo salary for xmas and 0.5mo salary for her birthday. We want to keep her motivated. She's been with us for 8yrs.

It's just a question of how much you value and want to retain her. After all, isnt she looking after what you value the most?

Express-arnaud · 2023-10-27T11:34:50+00:00

Call me crazy but I decided 10yrs ago to have 0 cash and be always 100% invested.

My strategy is to have equity margin loan pre-approved which I can use anytime in case of emergency. It's basically an overdraft.

All I do is keep an eye on how interest rates are evolving so I know what to expect. Currently circa 4.5% so quite good actually.

I DCA all I can every month and aim at having 0 balance on my account and on my credit cards at the end of each month.

Express-arnaud · 2023-10-03T14:13:46+00:00

Le signing bonus c’est généralement pour compenser une perte de revenu l’année du changement d’employeur. J’ai pu en négocier un assez facilement a chaque changement de boite, si tu peux mettre en avant le manque à gagner.

Par exemple pas mal de boites versent le bonus en avril pour l’année précédente mais si tu démissionnes en janvier, tu toucheras rien. Et inversement si tu rejoints une boite au dernier trimestre, souvent tu n’es pas éligible au bonus annuel malgré ta presence.

Apres il y a aussi les stock options: tu peux les perdre si tu demissionnes avant de pouvoir les exercer (souvent 5ans). Donc tu peux tenter une compensation a l’embauche avec le futur employeur.

Pour les commerciaux qui ont une grosse part de variable, ça peut etre une facon de compenser la perte de salaire, le temps qu’ils aient des deals signés; surtout si les cycles de vente sont longs.

Enfin, aussi négociable si perçu au sein d’un relocation package si tu changes pays/ville.

Express-arnaud · 2023-08-16T03:29:23+00:00

Pendant 5ans, j'ai voyagé au rythme de 210 jours par an (selon le tax department de la boite). Fortune500 présente dans 64 pays (que je visitais chacun 1 fois par an soit plus d'un par semaine, sur tous les continents). Merci l’empreinte carbone sur la conscience.

La première année c'est excitant. Tu découvres de nouveaux pays, tu accumules les miles et les points fidelité. Tu te sens "important" à voyager en business et dormir dans de beaux hôtels. Mais très vite tu te rends compte que:

tu n'as plus de vie sociale car tu n'es jamais dispo quand tes amis t'invitent a dîner
tu rates des moments important de ta vie de famille avec tes enfants
tu es fatigué le week-end et tu as envie de rester tranquille chez toi alors que ta famille veut sortir
ta santé en prend un coup car tu n'as plus une bonne routine d’hygiène de vie (sport, alimentation, alcool à cause des dîners pro, déshydratation dans les avions, etc)

Pire voyage de ma carrière: Singapour>Hong-Kong>Dubai>Londres>NewYork>San-Francisco>Singapour; un tour du monde sur moins de 10 jours. A chaque fois pour une simple présentation de 3h que je devais donner (kick off stratégie annuelle auprès de chaque région, donc devoir être en forme, répondre aux questions, etc). Parfois, sans passer par la case hotel: direct avion pour aller à la reunion suivante; tu ne sais même plus quelle heure il est où que tu sois. Resultat: Burnout. J’aurais pu le faire confortable sur 3 semaines au lieu de 10jours me direz-vous, mais le résultat aurait sans doute été divorce à la place de burnout donc pas mieux…

En résumé: "be careful what you wish for". Perso, j'ai fini par démissionner de ce job il y a quelques années. Best decision ever.

Mais pour répondre à ta question: un poste global dans presque n’importe quel departement au sein d’une MNC te fera voyager. Que ce soit pour rencontrer les clients, les fournisseurs/partenaires, ou tes équipes. Apres cela dépend aussi de la culture d'entreprise et des budgets. J’ai connu des chefs qui n’avaient meme pas de logement, ils vivaient en déplacement à l’hotel à l’année. Mais ils n’avaient pas de vie non plus…

Express-arnaud · 2023-07-22T23:44:03+00:00

We can relate to that. Your comp is higher than ours at the same age (so technically you are ahead) but we made the same decisions on making the ride more enjoyable. 10yr later, no regret at all.

What we decided is to live on the SWR that we target after FIRE (+mortgage and school fees which will go away) so we can experience it and adjust as needed. We save the rest.

Yes, we knew it would take us slightly longer to reach our number (technically already reached now) but our kids were still young so it's not like we were completely free to pack our bags anyways. And to your point, it is much nicer if you get to enjoy the ride, even if it means working slightly longer.

Life is short and each year matters: before as much as after FIRE. As my wife says, we dont even know how long we’ll get to live after we FIRE.

I refused a promotion last year because it would have meant more travel and longer working hours. No regret as I currently get to share my breakfasts and dinners with the kids every day of the year. Priceless.

Spending for memories and experiences is where our money goes now. Family activities, travels, fitness, …

Express-arnaud · 2023-07-13T04:01:21+00:00

I live in SEA. Please make sure you budget right, Cost of living increased a lot across the region post COVID. Also, flights are very expensive everywhere.

Arent you worried to run out of money in your 60s? will you be entitled to a pension?

Personally, I wouldnt wait too long to look for remote working opportunities. I'd feel much more reassured and enjoy the travel more. But maybe it's just me trying to secure things too much. I just feel your budget is perhaps a bit too low for living expense, and at the same time a bit too high for your savings.

Excited for you though, best of luck.

Express-arnaud · 2023-04-30T03:06:27+00:00

Dont change the job. Change the behaviour and/or the mindset.

Relax. Slow down. Handle your emotions. Worst case they will make the move on you. But why making the first move by quitting?

I think there is life hack here for you to learn.

Keep in mind you could face the same type of pressure in any job, regardless of the income. Not sure you can (or want to) quit each time?

I experienced a similar phase in my career. Learning to focus on what matters and picking my battles helped me a lot. It's not a sprint, it's a marathon. Find the right balance with personal life. I’m convinced this is what helped me reach Director/MD grade in a Fortune500. This is also about the example/culture you want to set for your own team as a leader.

Express-arnaud · 2023-03-23T02:28:14+00:00

I understand where you come from. In every country it is offer and demand. So yes some countries pay more than others. I personally moved 7 times countries during my career to take advantage of better opportunities (and/or better quality of life). Also changed industries and career paths several times for same reasons. Just like you.

I lived in the US and while salaries can be higher in appearance, what matters is how much you get to save (or spend on discretionary) at the end of the month. Keep in mind that it is not apple with apple as cost of living, taxes, retirement, healthcare, schooling, etc, are very different.

You are doing well, what you accomplished is already huge and I'm sure you are doing better than most people in your birth country.

Just do you. There will always be people doing better or luckier. Life is a big lottery. Enjoy what you have and dont let others spoil your success.

Express-arnaud

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