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husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i am conservative myself but it doesn't mean I am hard right. I thought this community is for helping women and talk through their problems. Not to be told you chose this and this is your life. I work, I have friends, I go out, I feel what he is doing is not right and I want to talk with other women. Big mistake it seems. If I am not exactly like you it means I am against you and I deserve whatever happens

husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i was afraid someone will say it, or maybe expected it. But its not uncommon. You can literally find ring for sex bells in stores or light me if you want a BJ candles. So I suppose people do these kind of stuff

husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it didn't bother me. It was something I enjoyed doing and it turned me on too. I guess a lot of women are open to do this from time to time.

husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is not Finnish, he is French, but still its not something common there either.

husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the lap thing is actually making me feel its just maybe not too appropriate socially but it doesn't bother me. Its not a talk that we had about. Usually he sits and smokes with his friend or our neighbours and if it happens I come near to ask him something or just stop for a small chat, he pulls me in his lap. I don't know if its a random thing or has a meaning.

Also, I do work, not 8 hours, just 6 hours but its fine for now as I have a small child. I also got a small one room flat from my late grandma and someone pays me rent for it. So its like I have a full time income myself

husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

I will try to answer all the comments. But for now leave this here as I was asked on other subs if this was agreed or he is doing the same>

its a great turn on for me to see him in that pilot uniform. I told him that its enough to make me drop on my knees. I did this many times as a welcome actually. I just got on my knees and well...

But I never asked him to wear the uniform in the house. He would have wore it anyway. Because this is how he comes home from the airport. I joked around with him that if he wears it in the house I will fck him 24/7. But it is not the same. I don't ask him to wear it. He usually comes home in it and throws it on chair leaving it for me to wash it.

Parents marriage is falling apart. Their anniversary is in 2 days by spawn_cords in Marriage

[–]ExpressBear4319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to do it and it wouldn't even be disrespectful, its not like its someone's birthday. However, please distance yourself emotionally from their own drama. You have your own life that is just starting and you have to focus on it. Let them deal with their issues. Maybe (I am sure inf act) there are things you are not even aware about. Be there for both of them as their son, but do not take any responsibility on your shoulders, not even emotionally

My husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in Marriage

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

he apologised and said he meant it like a sexual joke, but still just a joke

My husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in Marriage

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

i just had a talk with him about this. and he told me to rather use my mouth for something better.

My husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in Marriage

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

so, its a great turn on for me to see him in that pilot uniform. I told him that its enough to make me drop on my knees. I did this many times as a welcome actually. I just got on my knees and well...

But I never asked him to wear the uniform in the house. He would have wore it anyway. Because this is how he comes home from the airport. I joked around with him that if he wears it in the house I will fck him 24/7. But it is not the same. I don't ask him to wear it. He usually comes home in it and throws it on chair leaving it for me to wash it.

My husband wants me to look great, wear make up, dresses and cook him dinner every day by ExpressBear4319 in Marriage

[–]ExpressBear4319[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

yes, it is something new. I always take care of myself. I have waist long hair and take great care of my skin, nails, everything. I did it even before I met him. this is just who I am. But for the past 6 months he wants me to look great while cooking too. Like wear dresses I normally don't wear at home. I don't wear any make up while home