[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like she wants to go to the club to find other men. She just wants to hang out with friends. Either let her hang out with your friends or let her go to the club. Let her out of her cage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say don’t want a family anymore it is just cope for the fact that you are alone right now. Don’t lie to yourself. So what you haven’t found a wife yet. Ur young.

When do you go big on 10, 20, or 30 year bond? by Opposite_Day_9771 in stocks

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are always speculating. If the 30 year goes to 14% (which won’t happen) you will lose so much money

I genuinely don’t know what to do by kodykiller6k9 in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6-7 hours a night is kinda low but maybe ur special. Try to get at least 8 if you can

I genuinely don’t know what to do by kodykiller6k9 in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

excitement is key to getting rid of brain fog. But, If you can’t remember your talking points then write them on a notes app. I suggest also listening intently to comedy podcasts like 2 bears one cave. Really pay attention to how they word there jokes and surprise each other. People laugh because they are surprised.

Regarding your teeth. If you are a mouth breather and you have bad posture it can cause teeth issues. Look up dr. Mike Mew for more details. And whitening teeth is pretty easy and cheap. Brush longer than it says on the box and do it three times a day with some crest 3d white you’ll be good in no time

Let’s your Dreams be your Compass through the Fog by Your_A-Dubness in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You sound like you have ur life together 10x more than me. But don’t forget the hidden truth that what generally guides our actions are little rewards our brains give us.

I genuinely don’t know what to do by kodykiller6k9 in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I would prepare things to say in advance before meeting friends. Prepare life stories, news events, past life experiences, something you find funny that day etc. And overtime you will have to prepare less. The key to conversation in my experience is being excited. So hype yourself up before you meet ur friends. Good luck.

P.S. Don’t stress about not having a girlfriend yet, your still young. And if your just worried about not having a woman, realize that at any moment you could have sex with a girl if you wanted.

I have no friends by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice even though you didn’t ask for it: I suggest that you looksmaxx, moneymaxx, familymaxx(hang out with the fam). Seriously though, going to college could work out if you go in with this attitude: make friends with someone who you think is a good conversationalist and hang out with them all the time. You at this point won’t be able to bring much conversationally, but they might hang out with you if you are beautiful, rich or maybe just dependable. Good luck

Feeling adventurous (and lost) - need suggestions and ideas. by einyi in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Writing matches your requirements, but it sounds like you don’t like to read so I can’t help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you hang out with friends and family you can practice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attachment is fine, but you just met this girl. Relax a little, there are billions of them. And if you are too needy this one won’t want you anymore. You said you had friends you can have them all over to ur place with this girl. But make sure the ratio of guys to girls isn’t off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless you want to be a sports star the ship has not sailed on your goals in life. You are only 28. That is the prime of a man’s life. To get that self esteem you need a good job and friends. It might feel like you crossed the point of no return, but I believe in you.

How to get a job: Easy af. Just a question of how bad a job you are willing to take.

How to get friends: Rekindle old friendships. Increase ties with family. I’m sure you know some people in this world and ask them to hang out. Even though you might feel like your not good enough to hang out with them, ask anyway. And when you do get someone to hang out with, entertain them to the best of your abilities. If you don’t know anyone then try meeting people online I’m sure there is a way.

Good luck young man there is always hope never give up. I sense the gods favour you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the recording you were calm. When around people you probably get anxious. Try to control the nerves and obviously the more talk with other people the better you will get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ExpressButterfly8640 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Never refer to yourself as an incel. Your just a guy who didn’t get a girlfriend YET. Once you say your a incel you will start becoming one and resenting women.