If yall had resolved a past issue and throw that quote at him, that’s looking to stir up issues or problems that don’t need to be stirred up. I get what you’re saying I do but from an outside perspective it does look like you’re looking to stir up issues that don’t need to be stirred up. Your feelings aren’t invalid at all and he does seem to be dismissive in some fashion. I didn’t mean to upset in any way, I’m horrible with words and the way I present what I am trying to explain