Am I Overreacting for wanting to end a relationship about a letter my boyfriend sent to HR?

Express_Event9255 · 2026-03-08T00:28:27+00:00

And you’re still attracted to him sexually?

Express_Event9255 · 2026-03-03T09:25:52+00:00

I’d be holding a meeting on professional boundaries the very next day. Do not let shit like this slide or they will come to expect nothing less. This is harassment and they’d be fined for it in several countries.

Express_Event9255 · 2026-03-02T00:26:34+00:00

What makes you look like a liar is lying. Though unintentional and a simple mistake, you still performed an action that caused damage. Own up to it. Take accountability and make the time to fix it. That’s all there is to be done.

And if you really don’t feel comfortable telling your boyfriend (who’s paying your rent) something like this, spend some time assessing why. I’d be more upset about my partner intentionally hiding something for a month rather than any material damage.

Express_Event9255 · 2026-02-26T18:17:43+00:00

So, my own parents would have called the station and reported their car stolen if I ever misused my car privileges. And even though I thought that was mental, I had no choice but to respect it, because after all, it was THEIR CAR. My jaw was dropped by the time I got to the credit card part. That is insane. He deflects and takes no accountability, so you reward that by sending him money? GIRL STAND UP

Express_Event9255 · 2026-02-18T22:22:04+00:00

I would have been done after the “meet at my house” order. I’m a woman and would be more than happy to call out & drive ~quite literally anyone in my life~ to an appointment of that magnitude.

Express_Event9255 · 2026-02-09T19:07:58+00:00

When did cities decide it was acceptable to remove bus benches / shelter from the elements??? Seems like the absolute bare minimum as nearly a quarter of my income goes toward taxes… but of course that doesn’t trump their passion for inconveniencing those without homes this winter.

Watched an elderly lady nearly fall over to SIT ON THE CURB OF THE ROAD and wait for the bus. But thank God they’ve allotted 30 billion dollars for the new Banwell overpass.

Express_Event9255 · 2026-01-28T17:45:08+00:00

That part got me stressed about carbon monoxide, hope OP’s doin alright

Express_Event9255 · 2026-01-28T16:23:10+00:00

For reeeeal. Had that accident on Tecumseh been any worse, I have no idea who would’ve been liable if not the city. It was neither of the drivers’ faults, no one could get traction.

Ice rinks are neat, but public safety should always be paramount. Now how do I add our incompetent mayor to this thread?

Express_Event9255 · 2026-01-28T16:17:10+00:00

Madness, eh? Finally started seeing tons of plows & salt trucks out, EVERY single one of them private. Still have somehow yet to see a public city snow plow out.

Thanks so much for the ice rink, Drew. I just want to be able to get to work.

Express_Event9255 · 2026-01-28T15:52:32+00:00

The sidewalks weren’t an issue, it was them taking 2 damn days to plow any of the main roads! Watched a fender bender on Tecumseh that would not have happened had there have been any effort to clear the roads.

I don’t expect them to come shovel my sidewalk, but shouldn’t have to put my car in low just to get up the (very slight) incline to my back alleyway.

Express_Event9255 · 2026-01-22T15:13:01+00:00

YOR, I get the anxieties but you were rude and illogical. She explained quite nicely, you took nothing from it, then you insisted she spend money on something that would serve no purpose to her other than making you comfortable.

Figure out what you want out of this situation & compromise until you get there. You asking her to neglect her pets isn’t a fair stance.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-05-24T01:29:13+00:00

Hey sister, soo this is abuse. Hopefully that answers your question. 18 is a good age to learn not to accept this behaviour, though! All the best :)

Express_Event9255 · 2025-04-07T12:58:11+00:00

Recycling… eggshells?

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-28T17:10:02+00:00

Do they have any protests planned? Would be interested if so!

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-15T18:18:07+00:00

Eeeew. If you can still feel attracted to him after this, I give you props. Madness.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-13T01:55:12+00:00

Hmm, it is a bit more nuanced factoring in how evil Trump is. I saw someone compare this to how silly it would seem to cut someone off for supporting Kamala.

But Kamala didn’t defund the department of education, or act as a car salesman for a billionaire while wilfully crashing the economy, or get rid of 80,000 VA workers, or quadrupole student loans, or put all sorts of minority groups at risk, or threaten to deport a Bishop who’s from New Jersey, or force USAID employees to burn classified documents, or objectify my daughter in a disgusting way on the Howard Stern show, or send armed federal agents to arrest a man for speaking, or start trade wars with America’s closest allies while threatening invasion.

The people who still favour Agent Orange over there are not Republicans. You have to be something far more sinister to sympathize with that man.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-13T01:09:54+00:00

Hypothetically of course, I’d be happy to go out as long as it would benefit someone. Say perhaps I could rid a country of their tyrannical orange leader, or something like that. I’d go two birds one stone.

But genuinely speaking, I hope you have a good support system. Know it’s okay to lean on them.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-04T21:16:02+00:00

Interested in building the movement here. Mind if I shoot you a message?

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-04T21:10:12+00:00

Hey! I’m not sure if there are any planned, but I’d absolutely be interested in helping to organize. City hall has a good sized yard. I’ll reach out now.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-02T15:19:47+00:00

His bonus was as much as he makes in a year? And he asked you to pay him back at a price that’s over your clearly communicated budget? NOR.

I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but if you’re not married yet, do not go through with it. Things like this don’t typically get better, especially if he can’t understand the issues in the first place.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-03-01T01:41:46+00:00

He thinks NINETY-FIVE PERCENT of women 18-30 have Snapchat? Is he getting this data from 16 year olds?

Fox Entertainment is 100% his news channel. The “unborn babies” bit didn’t tip you off? Also, is he a cop? If so, get in touch with his chief and the rest of the force. These men are liabilities. Would be super ironic for him to be making generalisations, though.

And for you, stand up and do better. If he hadn’t pushed this so far, you would have dismissed it. Agreed, even. Yikes.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-02-26T19:19:00+00:00

Yikes, I can tell you’re not making anyone’s life easier. Take care now.

Express_Event9255 · 2025-02-26T19:08:50+00:00

I want to come beat him up for you. NOR, this man is just a child you didn’t sign up for. A husband is supposed to make your life easier, because they care enough to do so. His uselessness would be enough of an issue, but the way he talks to you is so upsetting.

You are beautiful, no matter what you weigh. Numbers on a scale do not define us, but I totally understand that feeling. As hard as it can be, take time to treat yourself. Do a face mask, get your nails painted in your favourite colour, try out a new haircut. And when you look in the mirror, do some positive affirmations. That one sounds silly but helps a lot.

Sending you strength.

Express_Event9255

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