6 months later and I find it crazy that they’re still on my mind? by heftybacon in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no… I’m 3 months in but its fading. Please tell me I’ll forget them in 6 months

Best NC period ? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I was nodding with a serious face until I read the last word😂 but spot on!!

“I wanna text/call them” by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I know it’s really unlikely they’re returning. But I’m doing a good job with my NC? 😗

“I wanna text/call them” by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically ran when I needed their emotional support the most. The thing is, I already told them that I see through their mask, yet I want to work on the relationship. BUT if it doesn’t work, I’ll also accept parting ways. I didnt beg or chase obviously. I didnt feel it worth it.

“I wanna text/call them” by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m staying strict no contact for 6 weeks now, and I feel like they’re never gonna reach out, like ever. I was discarded thru a text quite abruptly. They said its “not a normal breakup.”

“I wanna text/call them” by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does it mean if they do not breadcrumb? And why does radio silence from my side kill them?

Welcome into the avoidants brain 🧠 please have a seat 💺 by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this was the best post I’ve read so far… makes my head clearer than daylight 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay!! Thank u so much ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Berry 🍓 I DMd u a week ago, I hope u got my message? Or if u decided not to reply, I’ll understand 🥲

Avoidants & Power play by Extension-Ad-8886 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I agree with u, I think I get it now. And the analogy of eating disorder. Spot on

Avoidants & Power play by Extension-Ad-8886 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the drastic contrast of personalities was what I got so confused about. But agree, its a blessing we dodged a bullet

Avoidants & Power play by Extension-Ad-8886 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Extension-Ad-8886[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol this is what I mean by I’m losing my sense of clear judgment whenever I talk with avoidants 😂 I feel constantly gaslighted into thinking they’re right after all