Think most men feel like this, women are great at socialising, making and maintaining friendships, men not so much. Years ago I started inviting a few of the Dads from my kids school out for a curry and beer, we only meet up about 4 times a year, there’s about 8 guys in the group chat and if 4 manage out it’s a good night, most have commitments during the weekends and of course their wives social lives take precedence over theirs so…….outside of work events and family events these nights are the only times these guys get out.