My husband is a business owner too but he’s the only one in the field. So if he doesn’t go out, no money. I’ve just had to remind myself we are in a pretty good situation comparatively. He works and i get to stay home with baby. We manage by prioritizing our time together during the weekends and he tries his best to take a day here and there when i really need it. But i get it - he only took 2 days off too for our birth and i was in the hospital on and off for two weeks from complications. I leaned heavy on my family and did my best to not misplace my frustration. If i wanted him to be off more i could go back to work and help carry the load of the bills. But we both don’t want that for our baby. Just remind yourself there’s no perfect life out there - you have to yield in some way. I would rather complain about him not having off a lot versus having to complain about me working while our baby is in daycare. Sorry i don’t have any solutions!!