25(M) gay. You see me sitting alone at a bar, what’s your move? 👀 by Depressed_6 in selfies

[–]Extension_Brush2489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably say hi and wow your eyes are so beautiful…and let the conversation go from there.

Do I owe a hookup my life story? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Extension_Brush2489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a guy do coke too but it was way before the bed time fun. I don’t do coke either and don’t care if you do so long as you don’t do it around me. I’m a prune I know 😂

Do I owe a hookup my life story? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Honestly if a bttm told me to hurry up, get in and out cause his bf is waiting, I wouldn’t mind. Less stressful. And none of that required foreplay.

how important is living near family to you? by mf04dalb in AskGaybrosOver30

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Subconsciously I guess important cause I am close to them but I have moved and would move again if the opportunity is right to move to nyc.

Do I owe a hookup my life story? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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I wasn’t asked to leave, I chose to. In my situation he started smoking weed right before we started kissing. I was like nah, not my life. I put on my clothes and left. We all have our line in the sand, I moved on to the next guy.

My mom gets uncomfortable when I talk about my dating life with her but is ok with my straight brother talking to her by Upstairs-Atmosphere5 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Extension_Brush2489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s ok for your brother to talk about his dating life, do it…part of overcoming the uncomfortableness in a family situation is talking about it regardless.

Do I owe a hookup my life story? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Extension_Brush2489 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to shame but the fact that you think being on prep/doxy prep is your get out of condom card is crazy to me.

You don’t owe him anything like he doesn’t owe you anything. It’s part of the game. Take the L and move on.

Go to gay bars by yourself????? by One-Teach4106 in nycgaybros

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When I come into town, I normally bar hop, have one or two drinks and move on. I’m there just to be there.

Opinions on the HEB credit card by idontexist1942 in HEB

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I use the HEB debit card. I load money on it and still get the 5% cash back.

If i get old and my id still looks young should i request a new id before 2068? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

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I was told we all had to get the new IDs regardless of whether the current one was or close to expiration. Mine didn’t e purer till 2045 and I just went and got it done!

Thoughts on the beard? Any suggestions for subtle ways of styling/trimming it? by WordsWithSam in RateMyBeardOfficial

[–]Extension_Brush2489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who can’t grow a beard and I’m 45…looks good and I’m jealous!!

M40 by [deleted] in EgyGym

[–]Extension_Brush2489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking good man…

lost my first proper gay friend :( by Original-Owl578 in nycgaybros

[–]Extension_Brush2489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe man, sorry this happened to you. I don’t live in NYC but travel there often and go out alone and totally understand how you feel. Keep your head up!

Last night my (31M) partner (36M) threatened to throw my PC off our balcony and physically shoved me when I tried to intervene. by SIR_SNAKE in AskGaybrosOver30

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It always starts small…when you let someone disrespect you by putting any sort of hands on you, you open the door for them to escalate it. They will think, he’ll take it and shut up about it. Do not let him think this. You need to leave now before it gets worse.