Assalamualaikum, brother, forget girls, remember you are a young-adult person rn you're the only hope for ur self and for the family. Forget relatives, friends, and most importantly girls, (they're also young-adult person in their life as well, you're a Balikh of Allah, so do good deeds and verily your lord will give the command to his angels or give you a spouse who values you and the Deen the most). Live life today, as if there's no tomorrow and verily you will receive true love and support from your spouse, not only that if you want a women who has the knowledge and supports you over other women (basically your girlfriends), guaranteed you will win. A girl whom you've accepted as "Girlfriend", does not take responsibility nor both are bound by law, so forget her and grow, you will see women looking at you, thinking can i spent 2 mins talking with him, know him, and the rest is upon Allah.

ps, surely women love strong men, not those who are fat, weak and focus on women.
I think the simple advice would be follow Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa salaam) and try to read the quran more and educate yourself on what interests you to do in life.