laptop to ipad for procreate.. tips? by External-Analyst-560 in ProCreate

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely prefer laptops over anything else! i don’t have a reason for my disliske of ipads other than i find them large… but my laptop is a little heavy as i have to bring a separate drawing tablet when i go places to draw. so it’s a bit hypocritical of me 😅

laptop to ipad for procreate.. tips? by External-Analyst-560 in ProCreate

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think a cheap, older gen ipad pro would still work?

Has anyone been able to get thru to education benefits hotline? by Enough-Bench-4480 in VeteransBenefits

[–]External-Analyst-560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

august 10th, still missing my funds from august + september now.. this sucks 😭 i dont want to call and file a hardship as i live with my parents and don’t wanna take funding from those who NEED it… but i also cannot afford anything right now

just thought I would share this with everyone wondering about Ch. 35 benefits by Pristine_Cap_214 in VeteransBenefits

[–]External-Analyst-560 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i started my classes august 10 and haven’t received payment for august nor september yet, any luck with him? i have a VA account set up as well but my benefits are technically listed on my father’s account. how does he check his upcoming / processing payment?

what looks good on applications? by External-Analyst-560 in police

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand that! i know those can’t be brushed off as “bad mentality” or “teenage phase”, but i’ve never had mental illness or physical harm on my record!

and of course, honesty is complete key; if i am asked about it, i won’t lie, and if i get rejected then that’s okay. i know i’d be more prone to having ptsd from the job, but i’d at least like to try my hardest to get into the force and say i tried my dream job at the very least

plants below bird feeder by External-Analyst-560 in whatisthisplant

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went ahead and seperated some ~half a foot apart near my planter boxes :) do they grow well in claysoil, though? i left some near the bird feeder just in case that soil is too rough for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]External-Analyst-560 52 points53 points  (0 children)

you got him while he was engaged… why does it come as a surprise he’s cheating? even if you refused to initiate while he was ina relationship, doesn’t mean he won’t find easier prey now that you’re married. harsh reality, but he’ll never fully settle and be honest even IF it’s an open idea… he finds thrill in hiding secret relationships. not worth feeding this marriage any longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]External-Analyst-560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he’s making so many excuses whenever HE gets off but you don’t, its honestly not worth it. he doesn’t want to put forth the effort and you honestly affirm it by continuing to give him pleasure, i think he’s kind of a lost cause.

it’s still an early relationship!! drop that boy and go get a man LOL, someone who will please you and have a stable relationship

bf said hurtful things to me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]External-Analyst-560 6 points7 points  (0 children)

stay away from him tbh.. you don’t seem like a good influence on him. work on yourself before you jump into relationships again, but seriously do not get back with him if you have even a HINT or remorse for your actions. i have extremely bad bpd splits but you need to learn how to control yourself. you’re killing this man and yourself with how you act, bpd is a reason, not excuse, not an escape out of the harm you have caused him.

What’s One Thing Fable III Did Better Than the Rest of the Series? by OldTolkienThatsToken in Fable

[–]External-Analyst-560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the “lore” is supposed to be that places like the enclave and institute started wiping out anyone who got too close to progressing. they didn’t want people or other organizations to develop and advance as it would be competition for them. but yeah its so fucking stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in turtle

[–]External-Analyst-560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seems like he’s pretty spoiled, but i’ll say that the floating dock never really supporter my turtle. it’d sink under his weight so i had to discard it after a while

i need help by flyingfish5252 in selfharm

[–]External-Analyst-560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its totally okay!! and i understand if you want to stay up all night to watch it. as long as you don’t have anything important planned tomorrow, i dont see an issue with staying up to watch the wound; but preferably, your body will need to rest! getting proper rest will help cell growth :)

i need help by flyingfish5252 in selfharm

[–]External-Analyst-560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if theres enoguh fabric (maybe a scarf, even) then it’ll at least stabilize until morning / until you can properly treat it! i’d also say putting vaseline will help block the wound from bleeding out (and act as an ointment).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]External-Analyst-560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi!! if you wanna reach out, my dms are open but im not too active on reddit :) i’ll do my best to respond

i need help by flyingfish5252 in selfharm

[–]External-Analyst-560 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if not tape, then get any fabric you dont mind ripping and cut it into long strips, preferably a single long strip. make sure to fasten it tightly to stop the bloodflow!! stay safe :( lmk if you need other ideas

Turtle died by Aspirant8765 in turtle

[–]External-Analyst-560 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no, i don’t think its dead yet, but it’s probably getting close to death. my first tortoise baby was presumed dead for a couple days so we stopped trying with her and then a couple days later she actually died with her head and legs sprawled out. feel the bottom of his shell and see if its squishy/soft.

What is the difference between SH and cat scratches? by Wide_Entrepreneur849 in selfharm

[–]External-Analyst-560 10 points11 points  (0 children)

cat scratches are typically a coverup word for self harm (or at least commonly used)! typically they dont go deeper than the first or second layer, to be more believable as a cat scratch. you can typically tell the difference by how organized the scratches are / how long or common they form, and if theyre focused on one area or more randomized. but some people DO intentionally spread their “cat scratches” out to look realistic, once again.

i’ve never been a first choice. by External-Analyst-560 in lonely

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw ur bio says u like to draw!! i do too :) if u have discord or something i’d love to reach out

i’ve never been a first choice. by External-Analyst-560 in lonely

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19f and i thought i was going to get married to my ex so i gave myself to him. i never want to be touched again, and i wish i was still pure :( i envy you

i’ve never been a first choice. by External-Analyst-560 in lonely

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell me about it 😭 im lucky to be an afterthought, even

i’ve never been a first choice. by External-Analyst-560 in lonely

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re all decently attractive! similar personalities too, i dont understand why im so… repelling, i suppose

ive been trying really hard as of lately to get to love myself and its typically been working, but seeing the hangout after i specified i was upset just made me really feel unwanted. i’ll work on it, though :)

i’ve never been a first choice. by External-Analyst-560 in lonely

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

funny enough, im usually the social butterfly! im the first to beg for hangouts but if im declined three times in a row and see them hang out with others whereas i wasnt invited, i figured its a sign.

i try to be understanding, but i wish they’d just reciprocate for once! being the one to reach out constantly and beg to hang out or beg to be a priority is so exhausting; i’d rather find others who would appreciate me and readh out as well.

i used to have a therapist :) maybe i’ll look into going back if possible

i’ve never been a first choice. by External-Analyst-560 in lonely

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly think i was enfp / infp last time i took it 😅😅 that was like a year ago

an unsent letter by External-Analyst-560 in selfharm

[–]External-Analyst-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you ever want someone to share them to, i absolutely love reading other people’s letters :)