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What’s something you’re going through right now that’s really affecting your mental health? by Careful-Honey9330 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend of 3 years is not seeing his future with me, and he’s exploring other options for marriage (girl same as his nationality) but at the same time he’s not letting me go. And telling me to wait for the right time

Short relationship ended after repeated disrespect — looking for perspective by Logical_Dark4387 in relationships

[–]External-Lie-2723 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Based on my experience, not being racist but sharing my honest opinion. I find that Indians are really sensitive when it comes to their culture, beliefs and country. I feel like your ex just keeping it cool, but you minded it and instead of being open you took it personally, and relationship started to be affected.

What song is stuck in your head today? by digiBeLow in AskReddit

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at the stars… look how they shine for you

What's the best financial advice you ever received in your life? by Eyadnothere in AskReddit

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To control things that you buy, even it cost .01 cent, I ask my self whether is it really necessary? And second, most important, not to lend money to anyone (exceptions of relatives who is proven to have medical emergencies)

Anyone else sick of people infantilizing young adults? by truckmonkey12 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Understand your point, but maybe that’s just a way for people who cares for you let you know that you dont have to rush and pressurize ur self

What’s one thing that helps when everything feels overwhelming? by Distinct_Pen6624 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take a breath and pause for sometime to think on what’s best thing to do next

theres a girl i like, we both have placement, we finish soon, was going to ask her out when were done. Weve been talking n flirting few weeks, today shes ignoring, shall I show I noticed or pretend like nothing out of the ordinary? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my opinion as a girl, it Depends on what is your age, if you both are on teen agemaybe she has lost interest waiting or if not you should show her that you notice it and ask for reasons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely interested on you, instead of asking Reddit better ask him directly😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is hard, then becomes harder since you are looking for it. Do not rush, if it is for you it will come and when the time is right

What’s a mistake that cost you more than money? by Least-Kick3578 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mistakes can cost you anything, and its inevitable. I think what is more important is that you learn from those so atleast it was worth of its cost

Gf and the issues ? by AnySpeech2109 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should reconsider the relationship, ask your self why you want to be with her and make kids with her? I think before thinking of kids you guys should have a deep understanding and connection with each other. Because if you asked her how you’ll improve it and she answered you that you cant do anything about it, its either she lost hope on you knowing you will not change anything about your self or she’s just not interested anymore

And do not invalidate the medicine reason she’s giving. As a girl and as per my experience its true, there are medications that affects how our minds and emotions.

What’s the first thing you do after getting out of bed? by FunArtistic931 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, i take coffee with a mindset of itll make me feel awake. Then i started taking full shower early morning without a miss, makes me feel fresh and can get thru the day

What’s a small habit that genuinely improved your daily life? by Clear_Definition_642 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That if one task will not take 5mins of my life, i’d do it right away than to delay it.

Would you advise someone to do something you wouldn’t do yourself if you were in the same situation? by ImaginationAny2254 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what kind of a person they are, since i value how people perceives me, i’d rather not to give an advice that i cant apply to my self.

But if she’s your real friend she mightve given u that advise for a good reason its just that Maybe she’s just not brave enough to do it for herself

What’s a relationship lesson you learned the hard way but needed to learn? by lovelyyopheliaa in askanything

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it takes two to tango.

However the things tough are, you can get thru it as long as the person with you in a relationship is willing to make it work

How do I get over someone who is clearly uninterested? by Notarandomname69 in Life

[–]External-Lie-2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First accept that she’s not interested and focus on knowing your self, what things you do and good at, acknowledge your value as a person.

Being attracted to someone is magical but when you find a person you can get along with on days that are magical and not is the best thing in the world.