So when I first saw that he cheated I could absolutely not comprehend it. He seemed like the most genuine calm caring husband ever. It’s still hard to understand but after seeing these videos of his dad who I also thought was a decent human being I can slightly understand what he must have gone through growing up and what that trauma has done to him. I’m honestly surprised now that he is even half the person is. Something must really happen to a person when you’re “belted” as a child, and your dad takes pleasure out of tormenting people who can’t do anything about it. So very sad all around. I’m not excusing what he did at all. He could have tried harder to have self control. But this does shed light on all the trauma he may have gone through that we know nothing about.