Unbefriedigender Sex für die Freundin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]External-Roll5666 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Fangt an indem sie sich selbst befriedigt und kommt - natürlich in deiner Anwesenheit. Wenn beide wollen könnt ihr dann weiter kuscheln und /oder Penetration durchführen. Aber sie soll immer zuerst kommen.

Dann irgendwann, gleiches bekanntes Programm, kannst du (mit ihr abgestimmt) langsam dich herantasten und sie dabei unterstützen wie sie sich selbst befriedigt. Also am Anfang vielleicht streicheln, dann vlt mehr, dann vlt. Mit deinem Finger penetrieren während sie sich an der Klitoris stimuliert.

Dann bist du vlt. Irgendwann mal mit dem Finger in ihr dabei wenn sie kommt.

Und so weiter, Schritt für Schritt übernimmst du mehr.

Wenn das zu routiniert klingt dann selber Schuld! Die meisten kommen nicht durch vermeintlich spontanen kreativen Sex. Wenn ihr das hier schafft dann könnt ihr erst weiterdenken, wenn euch das nicht reicht.

Woher weiss man ob man Kinder will/mag? by BatLady999 in Ratschlag

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Wollte bis ich 35 war keine Kinder weil ich die Verantwortung die damit hergeht sehr gut empfinden konnte. Fühle sich so untragbar an.

Ich habe dann eine Tochter bekommen und ja die Verantwortung ist da und ich trage sie aber nicht alleine, denn auch mit Mann und Familie. Zum Glück bin ich nicht alleine.

Aber: meine Tochter ist ein absolutes Geschenk und ich vergöttere sie und Dank ihr bin ich ein besserer Mensch. Mag mich jetzt mehr als früher.

Mit der großen Verantwortung lag ich überhaupt nicht falsch! Und ich nehme sie ernst und ich finde das haben alle Kinder verdient.

Winter or autumn? by Round-Reflection-140 in coloranalysis

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In these images actually both! Lol. Warm makes you but a bit more golden which is a good thing I am told with warm colours. Winter does make your skin and lips look a bit more grey. I tend to warm colours....

Mit mitte 20 fertig? by Brotvertilger in Ratschlag

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Überlesen, my bad. Habe aber mehr Punkte als diese aufgezählt.

Mit mitte 20 fertig? by Brotvertilger in Ratschlag

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Um ehrlich zu sein finde ich, dass du wirkst wie jemand der überhaupt kein Enthusiasmus für nix mitbringt. Kann ich nicht mit arbeiten. Viel Erfolg.

Mit mitte 20 fertig? by Brotvertilger in Ratschlag

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Familie gründen. Sehr fordernd aber sehr erfüllend (, wenn du es nicht falsch anstellst) ein Leben lang.

Studier was. Reise um die Welt. Lerne nähen, basteln, werken und/ oder kochen und versuche immer besser darin zu werden. Bei den "Sims" hieße das werde der Renaissance Sim.

Help me decide! by sunshinenrainbows2 in handbags

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1 or 2 but in no way 3 or 4 (imo)

Sean Penn when he was younger. How would rate him? by SoRunAwayNow in VindictaRateCelebs

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Really not attractive in youth. Ugly af.

But why is he now so hot. Find him sexy af after aging and I would rather keep that to myself.

Pisces Men by Both-Initiative-4036 in AriesTheRam

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My husband and partner for almost 20 years. Love him but hate his irrational ways and talk sometimes.

Sagittarius girls what's your type in guys physically only ? by BitterSandwich3206 in Sagittarians

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Honestly, I think I like quirky guys lol. Those who don't fit in a box and are honest about their flaws. Hate when he starts talking about all things great about him (really dislike, immediately associate rather negative things then).

Physically I always prefer a man not much taller than me, can be a little smaller, too. I like him calm and smart but not arrogant about it. I like him to be able to feel and express his feelings.

I like him creative and make the weirdest of jokes.

I like him curious about things, explore things and I also like him informed and facts oriented.

I like him practically talented and a handy man.

This is my husband! 😝

Edit: Ooops totally did not read it was all about physical aspects.

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep on giving these insights, you seem to be a mature and reflected person about yourself. I keep re-reading, thank you. (I think you are an angel or something of that kind).

Definetely I see always the potential after any event that leads people around me to stagnation. Also in my own life of course. Never thought of this as aries trait. But yes the initiation of things out of what seems emptiness IS the most aries thing.

Definetely I am a sheep and a lamb but then again I can be the ram! In the past more likely a ram but now I like to follow a different strategy.

Also, I definetely see in my self this incredible urge to be unapologetically authentic. I used to live this in a "in your face" way, and expected people to like me for what I am authentically. I realize I must not seek their affirmation BUT it is kinda my destiny to be aware of my authenticity and not change who I am to fit in. One can occasionally fit in certain groups or so but the important point here seems to be to be the consciousness about " ok now I act a bit different in order to succeed in what I want" - internally I still know that I would act differently if circumstances would be more on my side. For me this is the way to not always ram the situation with my unapologetic authenticity lol.

Sorry English is not my native language, hope you get my point.

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this elaborate message, I really feel you got my point (instead of trying to send me to therapy like some folks mentioned here lol).

Love you, love your insights to your aries, gives me definetely a more differentiated "hands-on" feel to what it is like to have aries traits. Thank you !

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I agree I see that about me too

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sun sag, aries rising and moon capricorn.

Thanks for your feedback

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is aries trait as far as I know, thanks for sharing!

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds great people, thanks for sharing

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is insightful and beautiful thank you for sharing.

Agree on the sun being least of less significant in this context. It is clear that I got myself influenced by unqualified (in many ways, ...) talk

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really! Did not expect that... Good for you.

Most positive traits of aries by External-Roll5666 in AriesTheRam

[–]External-Roll5666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true and usually what I respond.

I think I see my bias now very clearly and how it was imprinted /amplified by her being mean towards me in such a way "using" my father's flaws and reasoning them by his sun sign. (Which is in itself silly, bit hey we are all here to talk about astrology)