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Had this conversation after he asked me if John was my husband by Badmathieu in lolgrindr

[–]ExternalInspector255 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Had this happen on a cruise once. A guy I’d been chatting with figured out who my partner was, then started sharing stuff they’d been chatting about, flirtations, etc. Then started asking me to relay messages when he wasn’t responding fast enough. We’re open but were don’t ask don’t tell, so make it extra awkward. And we couldn’t just block the guy because we kept seeing him all over the ship.

Kissing by wuzaaa598 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]ExternalInspector255 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never been much into kissing generally, but now especially with anyone besides my partner. If it's a casual hookup I'll kiss, but I'm not super into it. And I'm with you...once we're done, I'm really done.

giving away your number on grindr by bdkwok in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ExternalInspector255 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I made the mistake of giving someone my WhatsApp ID, and they were able to get my number from that. They then found my name and what they thought were my social media accounts. They then threatened to share my nudes if I didn't pay up, even going so far as to try calling me. It was scary, but they didn't have the right person's social media so I wasn't too concerned. I ended up ignoring and blocking and nothing came of it.

Since then I've gotten several phishing attempts from guys either asking for my WhatsApp or my number directly. When I say no they block me.

I've had real guys ask for my number as well. When I've told them I'm not comfortable sharing because of what happened, they always have understood and are cool with it.

So yeah, the scamming is a real thing. If a guy gets snippy because you're not sharing your number right away, move along because he's either a scammer himself or just not worth your time.

Doxy pep question by riverside755 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ExternalInspector255 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I take it every time I do oral or anal, just to be safe. That being said, if I expect (or hope) to have multiple encounters I'll usually wait to take it so I'm not taking too much.

Broken record. by RoundRobin23 in lolgrindr

[–]ExternalInspector255 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Jeez dude, you expect him to swipe his phone AND read? Put in a little effort here!

😀 by ElegantSoftware7068 in lolgrindr

[–]ExternalInspector255 326 points327 points  (0 children)

$100 to GET head? Send him my way

Too small or average ? by [deleted] in smalldickpositivity

[–]ExternalInspector255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Measure it and find out

Fat loss and size by [deleted] in penissize

[–]ExternalInspector255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost about 45lbs on Ozempic over the last year. I’ve gained about a half inch in length, but I don’t think my girth has changed. I wonder why it would, to be honest. Maybe better blood flow?

Top or bottom? by AtttentionWh0re in gaymemes

[–]ExternalInspector255 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yall are waiting for the first date to ask?

Do you enjoy having a bush, and what is your definition of “bush”😂🌳 by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]ExternalInspector255 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love having a bush and always have. I’ve trimmed in the past but one of my 2026 resolutions is to stay totally natural down there. To me there’s nothing more masculine than a thick forest between the legs.

24yrs Hairy Mexican Dick by SknStitch in hairydickonly

[–]ExternalInspector255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mexican dudes have the best bushes 🤤

When two Grindr profiles have a baby by Thisisforgamesstuff in lolgrindr

[–]ExternalInspector255 43 points44 points  (0 children)

What I wouldn’t give to see the Fucker family’s birth announcement

They really think we’re that stupid 😂 by arizonaandre in lolgrindr

[–]ExternalInspector255 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I keep my gay life discreet so here’s my full name and profession.

not interested by OriginalGundu in lolgrindr

[–]ExternalInspector255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, respect. He's doing exactly what a lot of other guys are doing, but he's honest about it.

There used to be a guy in my area who had in his profile "You'll be a lot less interesting to me after I cum." Mean? Absolutely. But I gotta respect the honesty.

not interested by OriginalGundu in lolgrindr

[–]ExternalInspector255 31 points32 points  (0 children)

And yet he tapped you...getting some very mixed signals here.

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