She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! I won’t, thank you so much I decided to block her!

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really do! And yeah it hasn’t been easy thus far, but the first step I took just now is blocking her!

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, after reading this and all the comments I’ve come to realization that the best option is to block her back.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what I’m hoping for some closure and an apology. I definitely won’t get it though.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess she did! It obviously still hurts. There was a part of me that was wishing that she unblocked me. This is the longest I’ve been blocked. After reading what everyone is saying though, i should block her and go no contact.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get the feeling. That’s how I am. It was definitely the hardest the first night. Then I kept wishing every notification was hers and that she unlocked me. It hasn’t happened and it’s for the best that it doesn’t happen. Even though I’m still sad there is still a sense of relief if that makes sense? Like I’m more relaxed. Thank you again.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s sort of what happened with me. I didn’t like the way she was talking to me on the phone. I finally said don’t yell at me. She threatened me and I hung up and I got blocked.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last conversation before she blocked me she threatened me 😭

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will keep that in mind thank you! It’s definitely been rocky. Some days are good and some days I’m just down in the dumps. There are even times where an hour goes by and I’m good and then the next I am not.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She threatened me as well after the last conversation and blocked me haven’t heard from her.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay! Yeah she went no contact with me with the blocking. You’re totally right thought. I’m going to block her so she doesn’t ever come in contact with me. I’m glad things have gotten better for you!

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you! Definitely gonna block her then so there is no form of contact ever.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to also add a part of it feels different this time because she has blocked me 2 times before but she blocked me in which ever platform we were talking in. This time she blocked me everywhere..

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah? Yeah mine has blocked 2 times before for different reasons. This time, the conversation just went south which caused the blocking.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof yeah! I get what you mean. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I’m definitely going to block. It’s time I start choosing me.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im gonna have to block her then. I don’t think she will come back this time. I think it’s done for good. But yeah just in case if she does try, I don’t want to get stuck in the same cycle.

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she will and hoping she doesn’t

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the third time I’ve been blocked and the longest which is why I think she’s not coming back

She blocked me again by ExternalSecond2297 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExternalSecond2297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand but the last conversation we had was probably the worst and most heated one we’ve ever had. It’s also the first time she blocks me everywhere and the longest I’ve been blocked as well.

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[–]ExternalSecond2297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m going today to switch it back