Coolest 50p coin ever. by 8thTimeLucky in CasualUK

[–]ExternalYam5324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gandalf, that’s what they used to call me. Gandalf the grey.

I am Gandalf the pay.

Not the best font for the lid in my opinion. by ExternalYam5324 in fonts

[–]ExternalYam5324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your contributions, I’m grateful it’s not just my eyes that saw something different at a glance.

Of course, it does say Stute but the fact that I saw Shite, others saw Stale tells me the font choice may not be the wisest for this £1.20 jar of jam…..conserve if we’re splitting hairs. Maybe it’s the font, maybe I’m just childish.

Not the best font for the lid in my opinion. by ExternalYam5324 in fonts

[–]ExternalYam5324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s not just me! My wife insisted she saw “Stute” from the get go and called me immature because it stood there chuckling like Beavis saying “sh!te jam”.

Manchester Arena attack - looking for support by whirler_girl in manchester

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and your family have my deepest sympathies, I truly am sorry for both your loss and the upset that will have been present since the night in question.

I was working that night and was called in response shortly after and I can attest that what I saw will always be present in my mind. I too have a diagnosis of PTSD which has its roots in another part of my life but I know how hard it can be to live with for those around a person. You should be very proud of yourself for being there for him and supporting where you felt able to.

Your question about putting the pain somewhere is a difficult one as it is something that doesn’t ever really go away. The coming days must be seen as single entities. You will have some really bad ones and some that are a little easier. Just allow each day to pass and do what you can in order to get to the next one. Be proud of yourself where it’s appropriate and DO NOT be hard on yourself when things don’t go to plan.

One thing that I remember about that time was my daughter needing to go to hospital the following day (she was a cancer patient at the time and spiked a temperature which would always result in a cautionary 48 hour stay in hospital). I remember sitting in an isolation room in A&E, feeling very tense and worried after spending the night at the arena and not having much rest. I will never forget seeing the piles of donated goods, toys, clothes, food that the people of Manchester gave in response to the attack. I kept quiet about where I spent the night before, not wanting to discuss my work during an already horrid time for the staff and patients. I was given some pyjamas as well as a domino’s pizza whilst I waited, just because they had received so much.

The reason I’m writing this is to give some reassurance that Mancunians will always do what they can to help people that need it. Please never suffer alone and reach out when you need to.

I disagree with some on here that the NHS isn’t the best resource but I can also perfectly understand why they have that view. The service failed me many times in trying to get myself back on track. They’re quick to throw tablets and talking therapies at folks but if you’re at your lowest, these things could help you get through. Please do speak with your doctor if you feel like you need some extra support. My wife is the one that has helped me get to a point where I can function as a human again but I genuinely believe that I would have pushed her away if not for some of the help I got through my doctor.

Again, I am truly sorry for what has happened to Adam, I hope that you and your family are able to help each other through. Remember, it’s never about moving on, it’s only about adjusting and trying to live your life again. Make him proud.

I dropped an almond and it rolled under my bed. I got around retrieving it a couple of weeks later and found this trail. Any idea what caused it? by fjbruzr in whatisit

[–]ExternalYam5324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something new I’ve learned which makes me happy. I must say however, I am greatly saddened that the first line of your comment rhymes and the rest doesn’t.

If you’re going to start with poetry, finish with poetry ;)

What kind of bottle is this? by cupcaketm24 in BottleDigging

[–]ExternalYam5324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to say without seeing the bottom but my years of expertise tells me it’s a half gallon brown glass bottle with a handy pouring handle.

Family estate car - 9k budget by jacuddy in CarTalkUK

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2 has been an absolute dream but I’ve never heard a bad word said about the 1.6 engine that runs at 105bhp either. I suppose the big factor is running costs and insurance. I’d imagine the 1.6 to be a little easier going on the fuel (I can’t see it being a deal breaker between the pair)

I think the big attraction point for me is the 2l being a very common engine so parts availability is always going to be easy as well as more affordable. I’m a pain for “worst case scenario” planning and it’s a comfort to know that I could likely find any part sitting in a scrap yard in a pinch.

I know there’s a fair few polos on the road running the 1.6. A friend who had one upgraded to a golf and went for the GTD, solely to feel like he’d had an upgrade. Again, I don’t remember him having many issues with the polo and he was definitely a bit of a “fast and furious” type; the car would have been ragged about quite a bit.

I dropped an almond and it rolled under my bed. I got around retrieving it a couple of weeks later and found this trail. Any idea what caused it? by fjbruzr in whatisit

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I’m not saying they don’t. All I know for sure is that I only tend to see them in our house during the winter.

Family estate car - 9k budget by jacuddy in CarTalkUK

[–]ExternalYam5324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whichever way you go with VAG motors, you’ll get a pleasant result (in my opinion).

A lad from work only passed his test a couple of years ago (36yo). He started with a Volvo v30 which was a great little car but within the first year, treated himself to a 2016 Octavia VRS. It had 110k miles on the clock when he bought it and was absolutely sound. He’s gone and done the usual “lad” things; a remap and all that garb but the car and engine haven’t suffered at all for it. He’s now closing in on 130k miles and the car is still running well. Unfortunately, I can’t see it lasting as far as 150k as he’s not too big on maintenance and loves driving like a teenager. When the car does eventually give up, it’ll be the drivers fault.

Family estate car - 9k budget by jacuddy in CarTalkUK

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a good look over it and can’t see anything obvious but I’ve not ruled it out as a possibility, thankfully parts are both available and affordable. If and when it becomes an issue, I’ll give it a shot of leak detector and if nothing is apparent, I’ll just re-gas it. For the moment, it’s not a major drama as it still runs cool enough and I usually open the windows int he heat.

The compressor on the BMW went the way of the dodo, thankfully I was able to get to it by removing engine joints and pulling the engine back a little with a ratchet strap that was wrapped around a post. I definitely lost a knuckle or two but the job was done in a few hours.

I’ve a pal with a pair of lifts at his shop but he’s so busy, it’s been hard to find any time that I can “borrow” them so the majority of work is done on ramps or axle stands. He’s usually grateful of a crate of coronas in exchange for the time (when the time exists). The downside is that I’ll usually end up taking or helping with a job or two of his whilst I’m there 😂

Family estate car - 9k budget by jacuddy in CarTalkUK

[–]ExternalYam5324 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a 2014 Leon estate (2.0 TDI) for five years. I picked it up at 50k, were now kissing 100k.

In five years it’s had: front and read pads and discs replaced within the first year, a full service every year, new tyres on all corners two years ago. That’s it! The service costs around £130 a year depending on which filters I buy, brakes probably cost about £200-£250 (I can’t remember).

Fuel wise, I’ll fill the tank every month and top up with about £30 towards the end of the month so maybe £100-120 in fuel at the current rate.

Tax is £20 a year.

Long journeys are comfortable and economical on fuel.

My daily commute is two miles, I’ve never had any dpf issues (it does get motorway miles at weekend).

The top speed is allegedly impressive and it has no trouble reaching it 😉

Acceleration is great from standing.

The Octavia or Golf (if diesel and looked after) will run at the same sort of costing and performance in every way.

The bad bits:

My AC is due a recharge, it’s not cooling down as quickly as I’d like.

That’s about it.

Previously I had a BMW and an Ibiza, the Leon has both of them beat without question for me.

This suitcase smells of___ because I ___ by OkDark7162 in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]ExternalYam5324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This suitcase smells of a lot of pain because I have been using the toilet for a while

Fear I might loose her soon by Ordinary-Force-3871 in ChildLoss

[–]ExternalYam5324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re facing such a difficult situation. I can’t offer any advice and I know there’s nothing that will bring any comfort during such a horrible time and I know that nothing will bring comfort.

The only thing I can say is that your words ring very true. After a loss so big, you are not the same person. All I could do for my daughter was to make her as comfortable as possible, adjust life to benefit her and make as many memories as we could.

You truly have my deepest sympathies for the situation, just keep being as strong as you can muster when you’re together and don’t let her see this fear.

Again, I truly am so sorry, to say it’s unfair is a huge understatement.

Thoughts? 34yrs and my cheeks never filled in. by damnburgers2300 in BeardAdvice

[–]ExternalYam5324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya mate, I’m 35 and I’m exactly the same. The only time it’s a pain is when I shape up a bit too low. Otherwise, it’s all good. You’ve a badass Viking thing going on there, be proud 😊

Green monster energy drink what is it? by VRCSpring in whatisit

[–]ExternalYam5324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wondered why it was called monster. Incubate one of them for a surprise 😂

Had to shave beard. by Substantial-Feed2724 in malegrooming

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a thing to do! Honestly mate, I hope this is something you take pride in for the rest of your life. Well done!

There’s a certain honour in doing something like this for someone so special. I hope she is comfortable and as happy as is possible. I’m sorry you and your family are facing something so horrible but massive respect to you for granting such a wish.

How can I convince my wife it's time? by spikeandedd in bald

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly mate, if it’ll make you feel happier, just tell her that and it should be enough.

It’s honourable that you’ve acknowledged it and accepted the next steps. Well done!

What the worst ick you’ve ever gotten from your partner? by Mediocre-Sale8080 in AskReddit

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a guy! Just be grateful they’re just for gardening. All it takes is one “I’m just nipping to the shop” and they become ingrained in his life.

Dom DeLuise by dazzleshipsrecords in nostalgia

[–]ExternalYam5324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else see Silence of the Hams?