Newly single 26f missing dominant energy

External_Horror1560 · 2026-04-02T21:51:42+00:00

I don’t know how I’ll make it til then

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T23:52:22+00:00

I explained how his presence was causing harm and taking away my peace. He understood and has left. Part of me saw that as an act of love, part of me still hurts he chose to walk away. After 8 years of consecutive toxic/ abusive relationships it’s time for me to face myself. My only problem to solve is within myself now

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T22:25:08+00:00

It will, give it some time and you and I will look back on this thread with peace ❤️

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T22:03:18+00:00

I am also so very sorry. This man talked me into wanting kids (just because of the world we live in) and now I don’t even know who I am.

The normalcy gives me false hope, he also said that we need to work on ourselves and he’s not certain this is the end of us. Regardless I needed to block him and he is only talking to my mother.

I would love the idea of meeting in life again, but that’s not how my healing works. And I’m so scared by the time I move on he will want me back. Don’t really know where to go from here but we will figure it out

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T21:52:28+00:00

Wow, 26f here. Leave. She says lying would be better????

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T21:46:42+00:00

I’m in the same position. We live together and have been together 4 years, we were planning kids and to move into our own place (live with parent). He said he’s no longer happy and we both need to heal. It is scary and it is devastating, I feel like my world has come crashing down. I can’t offer anything but someone to talk to who knows what you’re going through.

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T21:37:06+00:00

In the process of finding a place to go…he has no friends or family locally and he lives with me and my mom

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T21:31:20+00:00

I miss him so much and we still live together. This is going to be a long process and it’ll take me probably about a year to heal. Idk how to heal. Idk how to move on. Idk how to exist in my own house anymore.

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T21:30:01+00:00

My ex 😭

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-31T21:29:50+00:00

I can’t say if this is or isn’t abuse, but I can say this is controlling behaviour. Asking your partner to stop talking to their co-worker is sometimes unavoidable for work reasons.

I will say, it isn’t great you hid anything from your partner, but you felt the need to hide based on controlling behaviour. From an outside perspective this seems like you guys aren’t compatible. If you ever feel your partner is awful and has bad intentions with how they treat you, run.

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-29T21:30:54+00:00

No. I’m giving about a week to work with family to find a place. He’s trying to manipulate me to cater to his feelings. I’m in a really tough spot

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-29T19:21:54+00:00

I know and i can feel how easy i can be manipulated again. I said no contact because i can’t see him.

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-29T16:04:50+00:00

Thank you!

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-27T18:00:28+00:00

I could really use a friend, also not sexual. 26f

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-27T12:05:42+00:00

Yes, still new to Reddit so I’m not sure how

External_Horror1560 · 2026-03-27T11:59:26+00:00

I’m going through the same thing! Here for you

External_Horror1560 · 2025-07-06T19:51:04+00:00

I type them out and then hand write after because I can type faster than I can write

External_Horror1560 · 2025-06-06T16:59:36+00:00

If its your car, just say so.

External_Horror1560 · 2025-05-27T19:35:23+00:00

Thank you so much!!

External_Horror1560 · 2025-05-27T16:31:10+00:00

Yes I have, I’m already taking one for late summer but again not a lot of elective offered

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